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Forever And Ever Amen

2009-01-30T03:04:00.000-08:00

Author: Rose DesRochers

I'm gonna love you forever & ever, forever & ever Amen. I love that song by Randy Travis. I have to ask why it is that so many people are looking for greener grass. You know there may be times, when the grass isn't really greener on the other side of that fence. Are you looking to spark a new flame instead of relighting the one already lit? Ask yourself why, yes a new relationship is new and exciting but what happen when that fire dies out of that relationship? You could spend the rest of your life always looking for that perfect relationship. Before you say the relationship is over, we have to ask ourselves the question. What is it we are running from?

The kids are fighting again, the toilet is plugged, the phone is ringing and your wife is nagging because you didn't fix that broken door. Does this scenario sound all too common in your life? Your asking yourself was this marriage a mistake? So life is not like a Cinderella fairy tale. Ask yourself why you married your spouse, because you were in love right? Kids are born, things breakdown, jobs are lost, love ones die and through all of the ups and downs comes the time you need to reflect on one another.

The reward can be found in the one you are with. Dig deep within yourself to find what first attracted you to him or her. When looking over the fence at greener pasture. We need to look at the roots and not just what sits above the surface. Fertilizer will turn most any lawn green. Remember the dress you were wearing when you first turn his head, the first song you ever dance to or the first thing you ever said to her that made her laugh that girlish laugh of hers that you so love. It is easy to loose sight of our partner in the day-to-day hyper routine of our lives .In finding a rekindled beauty, a passion; we may just find that ""There is no place like home"". That you do not want all the years you put into your marriage and all the memories to end. You may see that the grass was not greener on the other side; but green right under your own feet.

Reflect on the first time you saw your spouse, what was it that stood out about them? What about the moments when you were sad and lonely, who was it that came through for you? Remember when your children were born, the feelings you both shared at that moment. Take yourself back to the hospital room. Communication is the biggest thing in a marriage. After the kids are gone to bed sit down and reflect on the memories. It is time to bring up funny stories or memories you both shared through out the years. When fighting let the past go, only bringing up past mistakes hurt each other more and more. Don't point out each others short comings. So what if he doesn't put the seat down on the toilet, or she farts in bed. We all have short comings. Maybe you should examine just what your own short comings are instead of always focusing on your spouses.

Concentrate on intimacy between each other more by touching each other more, the lightest touch can tell your partner you're still very much in love with them. Perhaps give him a peck on the cheek, a brush of the shoulder, a smile from across the room or lay your head on his lap while watching a movie. You married for better or for worse and love and marriage it is a commitment you both made. Marriage is anything but easy, but no relationship is.

There is no reason why you can't live out your fantasy with your spouse and most of all take time for each other. Maybe that nice girl you married is that naughty girl you're fantasizing about. Why not find out.

The best gift you can give to your children is to love one another.

About the author: Rose is a published author from Canada Ontario and is also the founder of http://www.todays-woman.net a community for men and women over 18, where writers/poets/columnists meet and exchange ideas, contest, rate and review and help each other succeed in the writing industry.

The Pros & Cons of Beach Weddings

2009-01-29T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Cindy English

Beach weddings are popular but they do present ""special issues"". Failing to consider these ahead of time could leave you unpleasantly surprised on your wedding day!

There is certainly nothing that should dissuade you from your vision of a beautiful seaside ceremony. As a matter of fact, there are many benefits.

Just know the issues and plan for them. Your wedding day will be a wonderful and joyous event!

The ""Pros""

* A beach wedding can be much cheaper than a traditional wedding. Who in this day and age can't afford to save money? It is said that the average budget for a wedding these days is between $20,000 to $30,000! That is an enormous and unnecessary financial burden to be faced with!

Don't start off married life enslaved by your wedding day debts. If you have that kind of money to spend, fine, but if not, don't go there! Be practical and remember, the day is what you, your loved ones and your friends make of it...not how much you spent on it!

* A beach wedding can be a casual affair. It allows everyone to relax. Your guests can dress comfortably and affordably. Often brides-to-be are unaware of the financial strain they place on their wedding attendants and guests. Not everyone can afford to buy that wedding outfit.

* The wedding ceremony and reception can all be held right there on the beach. No need to travel to different locations. This is very convenient for everyone. Hey, even the kids can have fun at a beach wedding!

* A beach wedding allows you to involve everyone in the activities. Guests are not restricted to sitting quietly in their seats. They can actually be a part of the celebration!

* Beach weddings don't always require a permit. If you are having a small ceremony and do not require a section of the beach to be blocked off...just do it! Simple yet lovely!

* A beach wedding is a modern and refreshing change from the ""stodgy"" traditional wedding. It allows your creativity and personality to shine through.

* There is no ""right"" or ""wrong way"" to plan a beach front wedding. It can be large, small, romantic, whimsical or even downright goofy! You can pay big bucks and hire everything out, or, you can be cheap and make everything yourself. The choice is completely yours!

The ""Cons""

* The most important thing to remember when planning a beach wedding is that ""Mother Nature"" rules! Depending on her mood, she can brighten your day or rain on your parade! When planning your celebration, be sure to plan an ""alternate location"" should the old girl be cranky that day!

* The beach is usually a bit breezy so take that into consideration when picking your location. Try to choose a ""cove"" on the beach that is protected from direct winds.

* Be sure to check with local authorities regarding any permits needed to use the beach. This should only be necessary if you are having a large gathering and you want to block off a portion of the beach exclusively for you and your guests. Ask to be sure though.

* Check on the ""Beach Rules"". Ask questions. Can you have candles on the beach? Can you play music into the night? How late can you stay? Is there an area nearby for open fires should you choose to barbeque?

* Speaking of food...don't forget about the seagulls! They are notorious beggars and thieves. You can expect them to attend your beach wedding, uninvited! As long as you keep food covered and don't feed them, they will stay on the sidelines.

* Remember the tides. You definitely do not want to be surprised by the quick and unanticipated arrival of high tide!

* On the beach, there will be bugs and sunshine! Make sure you consider the comfort of your guests. Bring sunscreen and insect repellant for those who did not remember to bring their own.

* Chairs may sink in the sand if you do not rent flooring to place under them. However, if you are planning a ""beach blanket"" reception, you will not need chairs. Remember your elderly guests though. Plan for their safety and comfort. You will need to provide them with chairs and beach umbrellas to protect them from the elements.

Beach weddings are absolutely beautiful but nature does provide an element of uncertainty. Careful planning on your part will eliminate most of them. Just remember...

If every hair is not in place due to the ocean breezes or a seagull drops off his ""wedding gift"" a little to close to the punch bowl...

These are not flaws or imperfections in your day. They are ""memories""! Cherish them and have fun!

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About the author: is the publisher of Beach-Wedding-Themes.com where you will find ideas for beach wedding themes full of fun, fantasy and romance. Discover new places to shop and things to make at: http://www.beach-wedding-themes.com

Asian Dating - Respect and Honour

2009-01-28T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Frank Duru

Honour and respect are two of the most important elements in Asian culture, and they shouldn't be overlooked when it comes to dating. For instance, traditionally, Asian women are taught at a young age to know their place around men, treat them with respect and accommodate them, while men are taught to protect and provide for the women. Although these traditions have become a faded practice in Western culture, respect still plays an important role in the Asian dating scene.

If you are Asian and are seeking a serious relationship with a man or woman from your ethnic culture, you will need to take into consideration that every move you make could be watched carefully by your partner's family, who may very well act as the third party to your date. With this in mind, here are a few tips you will want to think about when you begin dating:

Make an Impression -Be on your best behaviour. Listen to your date, create casual conversation, and be accommodating and thoughtful.

Treat your Date with Respect - Remember the saying ""treat others as you would like to be treated"", well this is when it really counts. Be considerate and patient, even if you find the topic of conversation to be of little interest to you. You should acknowledge what is important to your date and respect it.

Give them space - You don't want to come on too strong in the relationship, as this could either scare off your date, or make him or her jump to wrong conclusions. Creating a comfortable dating experience is the best way for you to discover if what you have found is an acquaintance, friend or potential lover.

Every once in a while visit the planet Earth - Be careful not to be mislead into believing that your dating relationship is something more than it is. Remember, not everyone is seeking a long term commitment (which could include you) therefore, before you let your imagination run wild from misinterpretation, make sure you take a realistic look at the relationship that is developing.

Above All have fun - Let's face it, the whole point to dating is about having a good time, and enjoying the other person's company, so don't be afraid to loosen up. Let your personality shine and take pleasure in your dating experiences.

In the end all that should matter when it comes down to dating, is that you and your date enjoy one another's company, are comfortable together, and share similar interests and values. If you find that there is no chemistry forming, it's time to say goodbye, and move on, regardless of how much your family may like him or her. After all, it is you who has to make the choice when it comes to your love life, for only you can determine who truly makes you happy. Therefore, grant yourself the respect and honour of making and standing by your dating decisions.

About the author: Frank Duru is the author of many different articles but his works concentrate much on dating related information, such as ""Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection"", ""Asian Dating - Respect and Honour"". Join Loveempire.net biracial dating Community and read more dating related articles which are only for members.

Tick Tock Goes the Love Clock

2009-01-26T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Advice Diva

You wake up in the morning, still tired from staying up too late the night before, and hit snooze about seventeen times before stumbling into the shower. By the time you start rinsing the shampoo out of your stinging eyes you are already thinking about everything you have to do today. You put your makeup on in the car and get to work late as usual in desperate need of a caffeine fix, do errands at lunch, pick up your dry cleaning before the store closes after what is most likely another late day in the office, make time for tanning and an hour at the gym, and get home to a house you have to clean. Every day is almost the same, you are busting your hump trying to get this and that done while your list of errands keeps growing. And thanks to living in an exponentially growing population in an overpopulated city you spend an obnoxious amount of time in the car giving you more time to think about everything you still need to do. By the time you get home each day, you clean a little, shovel your special diet food that you ordered online (who has time to actually shop in a store and leisurely browse anymore?) which costs a small fortune and tastes like chicken feed and crawl into bed. Then you stay up late with your mind like a maelstrom worrying about everything you did not get accomplished. When does anyone have time for a relationship?

People who live and work in the city without a significant other or children are always on the go. You might think that a single man or woman lives the life of leisure: no obligations, no pressure, just complete freedom. And I suppose that there are plenty of single men and women who just stroll home after work, order pizza and plant their tushes on the couch to watch their usual prime time television line up. But these are the people whose tushes are the same size as the couch. Hey, no ambition, no life. However, these days our lives are getting busier and busier for most people. There is so much for us to do every day. Even the singlets of this world are screaming for more time. I seriously wonder how people are able to raise children today. I know I barely have time for nookie at the end of the day.

Perhaps it is because many people living in the city go through several stages of social behaviors and desires in their lives. At first we are the struggling young professionals straight out of college, accepting a bottom of the food chain job and struggling on a $20K salary. These were the days of buying raman noodles in bulk and picking up a bartending job in the evenings. You can't even afford to date at this age. And if you could, when would you have time? Finally you get a better paying job and you move up in the business world. But now you have entered a whole new social world. You are financially able to drop the second job, get some new digs without holes in the seams and start enjoying the night scene with everyone else. Swiftly you discover the beau monde and your life is consumed with keeping up to date with all of the latest trends, making sure you look perfect in every way and of course making sure everyone thinks you are the "it" guy or girl. How can you possibly start a relationship now? He or she might actually find out that your not fabulous. Besides, it is much more hip to have a new fling every week. This is the period of our lives where we are all poseurs. After a few years of fun and reckless behavior, you get promoted to a more prominent position in the business world. Now you realize your responsibility and you may even take it seriously. Your life might change, but your busy schedule does not. It just gets worse.

When you actually get involved in that serious relationship, you must devote time to it. To do so, you have to give up things that you don't necessarily want to give up. I always believed that we work so that we can have time. We buy time. We work so that we are able to luxuriate in vacations with our loved ones and so we can buy expensive lingerie to keep the spark alive. But instead of spending as much time as we can with our sweethearts, we end up spending our time washing the car, burning the flab in pilates class, picking up the cat food and cursing the poor slob who broke down in the middle of a one lane road during rush hour. We are so greedy and obsessed with our appearance and materialistic needs that we find it difficult to give our own time, our most precious commodity, to someone else. Then again, when we daydream about the kind of future life we want, we envision a life surrounded by family and friends, a house in the burbs, a loving spouse and children and spending the days at home being independantly wealthy. We see ourselves doing what we really want and need: spending time in the arms of our darlings.

About the author: The Advice Diva has written four self-help guides on relationships and dating which can be found at http://www.advicediva.com She also hosts an online advice column which is completely free of charge. The Diva does not claim to be an expert in any field. However, she has the ability to understand relationships through past experience and her incredible insight.

African Dating - Pride and Ambition

2009-01-24T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Frank Duru

It is no secret that African culture is known for its pride. Most Africans do not have a problem standing up for their beliefs and causes, and are often ambitious when it comes to obtaining specific goals. That being the case, if you are of African descent and are seeking a relationship with someone of your ethnic background, you probably already have an idea of the type of man or woman you are looking for.

When it comes to finding the African man or woman of your dreams, there are many options awaiting you if you hook up with the right community. You can find the ideal connection you are aspiring for, by getting to know others who share your same ambitions and dreams.

Of course, like seeking any relationship, there are certain character qualities you will want to avoid such as:

Money Suckers avoid a relationship with someone who is only interested in how much money you make.

Dramatics someone who takes things to the extreme could really put your patience to the test.

Desperation If your date is clingy, this is a good sign that he or she could have self-esteem issues or are desperate for reasons you may not want to know.

Shady If for any reason you suspect that your date has something to hide, or has been caught telling you a half-truth or a lie, it's time to move on. Once a liar, always a liar.

Control Freak It's true that relationships are about giving... but if you have to give up all of your free time or interests to appease your date, it's time to take back control and walk away.

Now that you have an idea of what to avoid when dating, here are some of the things to look for:

Beauty is Only Skin Deep - Of course appearance is an important part of dating, but remember that it isn't the only aspect that should attract you. Look for someone who's intelligent; someone with personality.

Common Sense This is an attribute that goes a long way, and is a good indication that your date is knowledgeable, and can think on their own two feet.

Self-Respect Any date that has self-respect, will take pride in their own ambitions, and should also respect yours.

There is no reason why you should feel pressured into perusing a relationship with someone who does not interest you, or who is looking for different goals. You need to think about what you want, and give it all you've got. And you can be sure, if it is meant to be, love will find a way to reach your heart.

About the author: Frank Duru is the author of many different articles but his works concentrate much on dating related information, such as ""Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection"", ""Asian Dating - Respect and Honour"". Join Loveempire.net Matchmaking Service Community and read more dating related articles which are only for members.

Only You Can Decide If Your Interracial Love Will Stand the Test of Time

2009-01-23T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Frank Duru

Interracial dating has really evolved over the past two decades due to the fact that the younger generations have had the chance to grow up in multicultural communities, allowing them to interact and make friends with individuals from a variety of cultural backgrounds. Although this has provided them with a different perspective and fewer prejudices, in most cases their parents and grandparents disapprove of their children mingling with others, whom they consider to be ""not like them"".

This ever rising diversity in culture can often leave older generations feeling defensive and fearful over the loss of their own cultural traditions and values, if their children choose to seek an intimate relationship with someone of a different ethnic background. Some people also fear that if their children begin to join with those from different races, their individual ethnic community will begin to shrink, while others are simply afraid of what they do not understand.

If you are someone who is interested in seeking interracial dating, you need to understand that there are potential challenges that await you and your date. You can be sure that there will always be those who disapprove of interracial mixing, and that being the case, you should prepare yourself for shocked or negative reactions that you may experience from certain public places, and perhaps from yours or your date's family, relatives and maybe even your friends.

Since interracial dating differs for every individual, what may be an easy experience for someone else, could prove to be more of a challenge for you depending on your family situation; therefore, one of the best ways for you to meet someone is to join an online dating community like Love Empire, where you can safely meet and chat with a variety of individuals of different ethnicities such as black, white, eurasian, etc.

At Love Empire you need not concern yourself about criticisms or disapprovals. No one will judge you, and you will discover that the people you meet are exactly like you - interested in dating, being themselves and having fun.

You don't need to limit yourself to your own culture when it comes to dating, and you shouldn't let anyone but yourself decide who you should date and love. Because when it comes down to it, the only opinion that should matter to you more than your own is your date's.

About the author: Frank Duru is the author of many different articles but his works concentrate much on dating related information, such as ""Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection"", ""Asian Dating - Respect and Honour"". Join Interracial singles and Mixed Race Community and read more dating related articles which are only for members.

Tips for a lasting marriage

2009-01-22T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Janice

My parents gave me this advice about marriage. They have been married since the 1960s and are still happily married to each other.

In marriage, when an argument is about to blow up, remember that takes 2 hands to clap. When one party is angry, the other should be understanding and not argue back. The calmer party should try to listen the cry, the hurt behind the upset.

Marriage is a life long journey together. Not simply a boat you get on together and get off when it does not work out.

Look at the old couples who are still together after so many decades. Their love has matured from a passionate lust to a deep, lasting love. How did they do it?

As you go through life together, you are bound to irritate one another. Nothing is so smooth as the movies might want you to believe. Little things that never bothered you initially might start getting on your nerves. That is normal. Your spouse is not perfect. Neither are you.

Marriage is about love. Love is about acceptance. Forgiveness. A love that is deeper than a rush of passionate lust. Tolerance. Of adapting to one another.

All humans are tempted. Temptation is everywhere. Succumbing to temptation and having an affair could mean the end of a marriage, or at very least endangering it greatly. Always remember your spouse. Consciously stay faithful to protect your marriage.

While preparing for your wedding , keep in mind that this is just the first step in your future lives of love together.

About the author: The Author is the webmaster of www.wedding-ideas.net - a site that helps you prepare for your wedding.

Unique Beach Wedding Receptions

2009-01-21T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Cindy English

The most unique beach wedding reception ideas are sparked by imagination not tradition. Never mind etiquette, tradition and timelines. That information is outdated and stuffy. Do what will make you and your guests happy. It is a time for fun and celebration, not pomp and ceremony!

Long gone are the days of ""assigned"" seating arrangements and cookie cutter reception programs. Everyone waiting to be told what to do next. Yawn! Today, you can ""have it your way"". No, I am not suggesting that ""Burger King"" host your reception. But, you could, IF you wanted to! That's the message.

To plan for your reception, you need first to know:

* What is your theme? * What time of day you will be having your wedding ceremony? * What type of atmosphere do you wish to create?

Answer those three questions and great beach wedding reception ideas will follow.

Perhaps you will marry in a romantic sunrise ceremony followed by a breakfast reception. How about an early afternoon wedding followed by a beach barbeque? Plan fun activities such as a sand castle building contest or a volleyball game. Marry at sunset. Follow the ceremony with a wine and cheese reception and dancing.

The size of your guest list and your budget will also help to determine which path you take.

Buffet or food station receptions lend themselves very well to informal beach weddings and are the most fun. They are also cheaper! You can easily coordinate this type of reception yourself and eliminate the added expense of a caterer. Those special women in your family who love to cook would be honored to assist with this project I'll bet. Heck, knowing ""Aunt Jo"" and ""Grandma"", they will probably take over and you won't have to worry about a thing!

Formal afternoon weddings will of course lead to the usual ""sit down"" planned menus. Caterers will be necessary. The advantage being that the whole affair will be tended to without you lifting a finger...for a price. In order to cut costs here, you will have to limit the menu and the guests.

So, if you have a large guest list and a limited budget, avoid marrying late in the afternoon. Guests will be hungry and expect the dinner reception. Instead, stick with a breakfast, brunch or cocktail reception.

The wedding industry dictates that a reception should be from three to five hours in length. Rubbish! A reception should be as long as it takes for you and your guests to enjoy each others company and have fun. It can last a couple of hours or all day if you like.

Don't feel obligated to stretch the event out. Often, your older guests tire easily and would like to leave before the designated departure time anyway. If you are having a beach side bash, consider a ""come and go"" atmosphere. Let people know what time your departure will be so they can be there to send you off.

As far as beach wedding reception ideas go, the rule of thumb is - there is no rule of thumb! Break the mold. Do something different, something fun, something memorable.

Whatever you and your guests will enjoy most, IS the perfect beach wedding reception!

About the author: Cindy English is the publisher of Beach-Wedding-Themes.com where you will find ideas for beach wedding themes full of fun, fantasy and romance. Discover new places to shop and things to make at: http://www.beach-wedding-themes.com email: beachwed@beach-wedding-themes.com

Successful Dating and Marriage (2)

2009-01-20T03:05:00.000-08:00

Author: Arthur Zulu

Chapter 3

""How do you tell legitimate hope from unfounded hope? By looking carefully at the facts"" -- DR. HOWARD HALPERN .......................................

If you were asked to mention the qualities you want in a mate, no doubt you will list all the wonderful human qualities on earth. Perhaps you will not forget to mention that you will like your mate to be loving and caring. Well, that is good.

But you start the wrong way. You should have started by asking yourself if you possess those ""angelic"" qualities in your master list. For example, ask yourself, Am I loving and caring?

You see, everyone looks for different qualities in a mate. For instance, what appeals to me, may not appeal to you. No wonder it is said that what is one man's meat is another man's poison.

This reminds me of one beautiful lady who loved Socrates the Greek philosopher for his intelligence, and asked for his hand in marriage. She reasoned that they would make excellent children. Because their children would combine her beauty with Socrates' intelligence.

But the beautiful lady, a dullard who could not add one and one, forgot something which the ugly Socrates reminded her. ""What if our children combine your empty brain with my ugly face?"" he asked. And that ended it.

So, it means that we should look for a rounded mate. One quality alone is not enough. And we too should posses qualities that our mate should look at and admire. But what questions should you first ask yourself?

Am I willing to make a life long commitment to my partner? Matthew 19: 6

You don't marry today with the view to divorcing tomorrow, if things don't go your way. Marriage is a life long commitment. God hates those who abandon their mates. -- Malachi 2: 13-16.

Am I now physically mature to make sound judgment? -- 1 Corinthians 7: 36

Picture teenage couples in a matrimonial wedlock. These ones are still going through changes in their life. Lack of any life experience, coupled with the strong sexual desires incidental to their age, will distort their thinking and judgment.

Do I have traits that will help me to contribute to a successful marriage? -- Galatians 5: 22, 23.

You should try to cultivate those qualities that you want of your marriage mate. Compatibility is the word. But know that even twins are not exactly identical. So don't even think of marrying a relative in order to make the best out of marriage. And don't think you can change anyone. That is wishful thinking. Try changing yourself first!

Do I have the maturity to support a male in difficult times? -- Galatians 6: 2.

It is not the time to play the blame game when problems arise. You will agree that we live in difficult times, and this calls for maturity in handling issues. That is why you are two. -- Ecclesiastes 4: 9, 10.

Am I a cheerful and optimistic person? -- Proverbs 15: 15

If you are a critical, gloomy and negative person, marriage will not change you. Instead you are going to strain the marriage. Why not add some humor to your life by being cheerful and optimistic. Remember, such character repels, and is dangerous to your health.

Do I exercise self control? -- Galatians 5: 19, 20.

One who cannot control his temper is a dangerous person. He can be violent, and may even kill before realizing it. Would you like to marry and end up in jail for murder? -- Ephesians 4: 26.

Questions to ask of your prospective mate.

Let's say he is a male, although some of these questions may well apply to a female. What would you want of your male partner?

Does he have a good reputation? -- Philippines 2: 19: 22.

Yes, the way a man is viewed by others, including those under his authority will enable you to know the kind of reputation that he has. Unfortunately, most good women marry bad men. -- See 1 Samuel 25: 3, 23 --25

Does he have good morals?

Find out if the man you intend to marry is pretentious. Perhaps he wants to get you just to satisfy his sexual desires. Such persons think of themselves first. They do not even fear God.

Does he treat me kindly? -- Ephesians 5: 28, 29.

A kind husband would treat his wife in a kind manner. He trusts and praise his wife; he is not excessively jealous and is moderate in his expectations of her. Would that not be how you want your future husband to treat you?

Does he respect his family members?

Also find out how your prospective mate treats his parents and relatives. If he is rude to his family members, then you should expect trouble from him. But if he is respectful and obedient to his parents, then expect him to treat you lovingly after the marriage.

Does he allow anger to control his life?

Many families have been ruined by violence. So if your prospective mate is given to fits of anger, that is a clear indication of danger. A woman who marries such a man will be subject to verbal and physical abuse. Do you call that marriage?

Does he have right goals?

Find out if your future mate has attainable or visionary life goals. For example, does he want to be a millionaire? Will it do him good? Or is it his goal to serve God?

So the above questions will help you to scrutinize your mate in order for you to find out if such one has the qualities that are needed to make a successful marriage. Try to look beyond the wedding day. For you are going to live with this person all the days of your life.

But now, how can you have a successful courtship?

(To be continued)

To be continued

(EXCERPTED FROM THE BOOK, "SUCCESSFUL DATING AND MARRIAGE." THIS TEN-CHAPTER BOOK IS AVAILABLE FOR SALE. INTERESTED BUYERS SHOULD CONTACT THE AUTHOR.)

ARTHUR ZULU is an editor, book reviewer, playwright, and published author. He also writes short stories, scripts, essays, and poems. For his works and FREE helps for writers, goto: http://controversialwriter.tripod.com mailto: controversialwriter@yahoo.com Web search: Arthur Zulu

About the author: ARTHUR ZULU is an editor, book reviewer, playwright, and published author. He also writes short stories, scripts, essays, and poems.

Safe Cyber Dating

2009-01-19T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Cyber dating is one of the most popular dating venues these days. No longer is it necessary to go to the bar down the street to find a date. No longer is it necessary to romance someone through flowers and candy on a date. Dating has become a cyber event. Not only can you meet people through cyber dating but you can actually court them through cyber dating as well. But, what you need to remember is that cyber dating needs to be kept safe.

Safe cyber dating doesn't mean no cyber dating. Instead, you should take precautions like any other dating situation. Things that are personal to you, like finances and business relationships should be kept out of the cyber dating world. Instead, learn about each other lives. Safe cyber dating is important because of many reasons, but the most important reason is for your own protection. Because cyber dating is so easy to get into, there are many people who use cyber dating as a means to lure people into their scams or bad situations. Cyber dating is a smoke screen, unfortunately, to many people. And, even if the person you are dating in cyber space is on the up and up, that does not mean that your date hasn't lied even just a little about him or herself either. Cyber dating is also a good way to hide. In order to learn more about how to be safe, check out http://www.getdatingtips.com.

So how can you be safe in cyber dating? Don't trust individuals with your personal information. Don't provide cyber dating partners with information regarding your home address or financial information. Meet your cyber dating partner in an open area where other people are close by for safeties sake. Take your time getting to know your cyber dating friend. Cyber dating, even after all of this is said and done, is still a great way to meet people.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Teen Dating, Things To Think About

2009-01-18T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Are you a teen who is dating? Are you a pre teen who is thinking they would like to start dating? Or, are you a parent of one of these teens? Are you worried about what to expect, what to do and how to react to your date? One of the most important things to remember about teen dating is that it is just that, teen dating not a life long relationship type date. Now, before you teens get upset; think about how your teen dating experiences are going to play out. As a teen, you are not looking for someone to live your life with, right? You are looking for someone who is cool to be around, interesting to talk to even. Teen dating should be all about fun.

And you can make teen dating be fun as long as you remember a few things. First, lay down the rules about your dating relationship. If dating is meant to be fun, get all that hard stuff out of the way first. Teens need to talk about how you feel about drugs, alcohol, and even sex. Teens need to make sure you are always smart about each one of these things and that your teen dating partner knows where you stand. Parents, make sure your teen knows about how to react in these situations too. Provide guidance to your teen, not lecturing. To learn more about how to do this, visit http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Teen dating should be fun. Open communication can get you into a fun dating relationship. Being open about yourself, your ideas and your goals is a great way to find out if he is worth dating or not. And, for the boys out there, teen dating should not be harsh. Instead, lighten things up and just enjoy being with your date. You'll find that your teen dating relationship is well worth it then!

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Celebrate With Butterflies - The Flying Flowers

2009-01-17T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Tammy Spivey

Make your upcoming event the most memorable ever by adding butterflies to your special day. Butterfly Releases are a perfect way to celebrate all of the important occasions in life. They are wonderful additions to weddings, anniversaries, funerals, memorials, birthdays, holidays, ceremonies, and even corporate events. Since the butterfly symbolizes new beginnings, releasing butterflies is a wonderful way to add a special touch to celebrations. There is an old Indian legend that is often read at butterfly releases as the guests make a wish and release their butterflies. Each release will have it's own unique memories and can become a tradition that is passed down from parent to child. Children and adults alike will marvel as the butterflies are released into the wild. Sometimes the butterflies fly right off and sometimes they linger - maybe to share a special moment with the one releasing them. Butterflies may be released in their own individual container or they may be released from a mass release container, depending on the occasion and the design you find most appealing. Butterflies should only be released outside on a sunny or overcast day with a temperature of around 70 degrees. A release held in a warm, sunny, flower filled area is best. Nature has given us many beautiful wonders. None are more spectacular and memorable than that of the butterfly in flight. Experience the extraordinary – Release a bouquet of butterflies at your next celebration. Contact a butterfly farmer near you, inside your state (or nearby state if there is currently no butterfly farming operation in your state), to help you coordinate your extra special occasion for an absolutely beautiful butterfly release. www.butterflybreeders.com

About the author: Tammy Spivey is the owner of http://www.butterfliesabound.com and is a proud member of the International Butterfly Breeders Association www.butterflybreeders.com. Tammy raises Florida native butterflies for release at weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, and all of life's memorable moments. Remember your moments and watch your dreams take flight. This article may be reprinted in its entirety so long as the bio box and url are included.

A Beach Wedding Cake

2009-01-16T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Cindy English

Looking for a beach theme wedding cake?

When it comes to wedding cakes, long gone are the days of following tradition. Since you are considering a beach theme wedding cake, you are obviously not a slave to those traditions. So...let's stray from the ""norm"" and be adventurous!

One thing to remember...there are no rules! If there are...well, rules are made to be broken. Your beach theme wedding cake can be anything you want it to be!

What Size?

How many guests are you planning to have? If you have your cake made professionally it can range in price anywhere from $2.00 to $15.00 per slice. A ""slice"" is normally considered to be 2 ounces or, approximately 4"" x 2"". The range in price will depend on how much intricate detail you want on it. If the cake you choose is very labor intensive, you can expect higher prices. If you are on a tight budget, keep it simple!

What Shape?

A beach theme wedding cake can be any size, shape or description. Be creative. If you have an idea for your cake, sketch it out on paper and take it to that talented friend, relative or your chosen bakery. If you can imagine it, someone can make it!

Do not limit your thinking to a two or three tier cake. It can be round, square, a sheet cake, a sculpted cake, individual mini cakes, cupcakes or even cookies! Some brides even choose a one or two layer, individual wedding cake on each guest table rather than the traditional large cake at the head table. This is a nice idea because it also serves as the table centerpiece. This eliminates the added expense associated with having a wedding centerpiece at each table!

A couple of things to keep in mind though...

* Since your reception may be on the beach, consider the sun! If you are having a dawn or dusk ceremony, heat from the sun will probably not be a major factor. However, if you are having your wedding midday, consider an ""ornamental"" cake. By that I mean, not edible with the exception of perhaps the bottom layer if you and the groom plan to cut it. You don't want your creation to melt!

* Consider draping your cake in a decorative manner with tulle to keep the bugs and sand out of it. It would be beautiful yet practical.

* Purchase decorative, individual cake boxes. Fill them and perhaps tie your wedding program or thank you to them with ribbon. Keep them in a cooler until time to pass them out to your guests. They will serve as your wedding favor, killing two birds with one stone!

* Make your own beach theme wedding cake! Look inside the next ""Duncan Hines"" cake mix you buy. The instruction for making baking tiered cakes are printed on the inside of the box! You can do it. If you can't, I'll bet you know a friend who could! In EVERY town there is a friend or a ""friend of a friend"" who makes beautiful wedding cakes. It's a hobby for them. They love doing it! Of course they still want to be paid, but not the ridiculous prices that a professional will charge you. So...go... find that friend!

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Understanding Your Teen Relationship

2009-01-15T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Teen relationships are touchy things. Girls are often ready for serious commitments within their relationships while boys want something more laid back in their relationship. Of course, this is never a definite scenario either. Teen relationships are just that, unpredictable. If you are in a teen relationship or have a teen in a relationship and are worried about them, you need to understand how things work, so to speak.

Parents want to control each and every aspect of their teen's life. While they want to do this simply because they want to protect their teen, it is not a good way of teaching your teen about life. Instead, you have to provide them with the information they need and hope that your teen takes it to heart. Trust is the key. But, in teen relationships there is much information that is vital. From drugs to sex to love there are things that all teens need to know about before getting too deep into that relationship. What are parents to do? How are teens supposed to know right from wrong in their relationships?

Teen relationships should be centered on positives. Being with someone who is a good friend is a good start for most teens. While peer pressure pulls teens in, parents need to take the time to explain to their teens what is necessary to know about teen relationships. Teens need to know about the ups and downs in all relationships.

It is important for teens to take the time to listen to their parent's advice on relationships as well. Teen relationships aren't meant to last a lifetime. Teen relationships should be fun, easy going experiences. Teen relationships are foundations for learn experiences for later parts of your life. To learn more about teen relationships and dating, visit http://www.getdatingtips.com.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com

Considering Success in Marriage

2009-01-13T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Chuck Smith

Your success in marriage depends largely upon having sound and constructive attitudes toward love. For Americans, this can be difficult. Especially because of the fictions we've been taught since childhood, which are supported by movies and other cultural influences. In fact, the love upon which so many base their marriages is one or a combination of the following:

1.The appeal of the romance and adventure of marriage itself 2.The response to a person who reminds them of some one whom they have loved 3.The desire to escape from an unhappy situation 4.Consolation for failure or disappointment 5.Social pressures and/or the fear of being ""left on the shelf"" 6.Sexual desires 7.Some minor point of attraction

These forms of love are not false – they are very real. Often, they are intense enough to give a person an overwhelming feeling of certainty about marriage. And some of them – such as numbers 1, 6 and 7 – have a proper place in marriage.

Their danger is that they are superficial. No single one of them, or all of them together, is strong enough to constitute the foundations of a successful marriage. Yet these deceive people who believe that ""love is enough"" into choosing unsuitable mates.

Love which can make a marriage rich and worthwhile must go far deeper. It must be based upon such things as common interests, ideals, values, and goals which involve worthy purposes. A common desire to have and raise happy and healthy children is among the strongest and most important of these common goals. Such a love is not something which you ""fall in"" before you marry.

Rather, it is something which you build together through the years. Those who have found a sounder base for love wil find that the thrill, glow, and romance of their marriage increases over time. The richest joy of marriage comes from a relationship with each other which constantly develops and matures. The deepest and most abiding love is that which has become an expression of all life's experiences and meanings for you both.

About the author: Chuck Smith is the owner and webmaster of Wedding Home Pages , where you can download a professionally-designed wedding template for your special day. Visit Wedding Home Pages for the wedding web site of your dreams.

Dating Mistakes

2009-01-12T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Dating mistakes can kill a dating relationship. Do you know what dating mistakes you have made? Do dating mistakes hold your relationship back? And, do mistakes like these get forgotten later on? Dating mistakes are simply things that you just don't do right. To avoid them, though, you have to know what your partner considers a dating mistake.

Open communication is a must and this is often the worst dating mistake you can make. Talk about what you want, need, and expect in your dating relationship. Dating mistakes of this nature often lead to misunderstanding and dating can even end here.

Don't expect too much, either. Don't put high standards and expect your dating relationship to survive. Understanding the other person's need is so important in dating. Don't underestimate and don't over estimate your date.

Don't lie. This dating mistake will leave you out on the street!

Trust your date. If you ever plan to build a relationship, trust must be something you and your date have.

Don't forget your date's feelings. The most successful dating relationships are centered on people who always put their date's feelings ahead of their own.

To find more, check out http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Dating mistakes can leave you out in the cold. If you are someone who can not over come these dating mistakes, well, just face it, dating is not something you'll do well. Caring for another person means making sacrifices too. So, dating mistakes like these and others should be taken into consideration for forgiveness as well. Dating mistakes can and will break or make a dating relationship.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

The Most Important Things In Marriage

2009-01-10T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

When it comes to marriage, there are things that you are responsible for doing that are so important to the marriage's success. But, we could list an endless list of these things. Instead, though, let's talk about those things that are most important in marriage.

The most important aspect of marriage is communication. If you can not talk to your spouse, your marriage will have no room for growth. Communication builds trust as well. It is important to maintain a good trusting, marriage. Communicating your feelings and needs will keep your marriage pumping forward!

Another important thing in marriage is having a firm foundation. Like a building the foundation of a marriage is what keeps it from falling apart. The most important aspect really is what your marriage is built on. Your values, morals, and beliefs are the foundation for your marriage. If you and your spouse can't agree here, well, things are going to be shaking in your marriage.

Other things that are important in marriage include being understanding, honesty, and forgiveness. Without these things, your marriage will not survive long. Instead, you will constantly question your marriage foundations.

It is important to take into consideration all of these things. Marriage is built on trust, love, and friendship. How many of these things are in your marriage? How many of these things do you need to work on to have a successful relationship? Marriage is always the first priority. For more on this topic, visit http://www.getdatingtips.com.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Jewish Wedding Rings - Traditions and Customs and How to Buy Smart

2009-01-09T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Josh Singer

In a traditional Jewish wedding ceremony, Jewish wedding rings play a very important role. In Jewish law, a verbal declaration is not enough to be married.

According to Jewish law, a formal, physical consecration must be made. Usually this is done with the giving of a Jewish wedding ring, however in ancient times, it was merely something of value—with the minimum value of what is now a penny.

Don't worry—I know you won't be that cheap! :)The ring must be of solid uninterupted gold with no holes breaking the circle. The continuity of the rings represents the hope for an everlasting marriage.

Requirements for Jewish Wedding Rings

The ring must be the bridegroom's property at the time of the Jewish wedding ceremony. While only one Jewish wedding ring is required by Jewish law, (given to the bride), many couples exchange rings.

Orthodox Rabbis refuse to perform a double ring ceremony, because they feel it invalidates the idea of the groom acquiring the bride as a wife in exchange of something valuable.

A Reform or Conservative denominational Rabbi may incorporate a ring exchange between bride and groom with little problem usually.

What Hebrew Wedding Rings are made of…

Most Jewish wedding rings are made of simple solid gold bands, although recently embellishment with Hebrew letters on the band has become quite popular.

Many rings can even now be fully customized with many different Hebrew phrases, or even the couple's names either inscribed or raised inside the band.

How To Buy a Jewish Wedding Ring

Buying a Jewish Wedding Ring can often be a confusing and frustrating adventure. There are so many Jewish jewelry stores, and with the advent of the internet, there are even more than ever before.

However, the internet has proven to be a big advantage for buyers. Low overhead and large online demand have driven prices for expensive Jewish Wedding Rings that used to go for $800-1000 down into the $320-600 range, depending on 14k or 18 gold, ring size, etc.

Look for merchants with these types of price ranges. Anything cheaper will be a ring of inferior quality. Anything higher is the seller making huge profits - off of potential buyers.

Another advantage of the online retailers is customization and options. Some Jewish wedding ring retailers can completely customize any engraving, either with hebrew phrases or the bride and groom's names. Look for websites who include customization in the price, rather than upsell the customization.

A Jewish Wedding Ring goes on WHICH finger?

The ring ceremony consists of the groom placing the ring on the bride's right index finger. Afterwards, most women move it to the customary ""ring finger"" of the left hand.

The reason for this Jewish wedding tradition goes back to the time of the Talmud and the differences in beliefs at that time about which finger is closer or more direct to the heart! Christianity taught the ring finger; Judaism taught the index finger.

When the Jewish Wedding Ring is Given…

In most ceremonies, the bridegroom repeats a Hebrew vow after the Rabbi, with the giving of the ring. The bridegroom would declare, ""Behold, thou art consecrated to me with this ring, according to the law of Moses and Israel.""

In hebrew, this phrase is Hare at mekudeshet li betaba' at zo k'dat Moshe v' Yisrael.

With a little practice, you can easily learn to roll this phrase off of your tongue in no time at all. If you can't speak Hebrew, don't worry! On our website, we have a page where you can hear this phrase being said, right through your computer.

This statement that husband and wife are holy to each other. It is as if they were saying, ""As Shabbat is to Jewish time and as Jerusalem is to Jewish space, you will be to me.""

With this buyer's guide to Jewish Wedding rings and their traditions, you can be confident of making a good choice in choosing your rings for your special wedding day.

About the author: Josh Singer and Shira Frimer are authors and owners of http://www.about-jewish-weddings.com containing completely FREE articles on everything from A-Z you should know about Jewish Weddings and Jewish Wedding traditions.

They also offer beautiful, completely customizable Jewish Wedding Rings.

How Did Online Dating Become So Popular?

2009-01-08T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Alex Fir

The reason is pretty simple. It is very much the same reason that the internet itself became so popular. The Internet opens up a whole new world of communication and contact. And the reasons for this are given below.

Speed

Try to picture what used to happen earlier in the days when people had to depend on the good ol' postal system. During those days, a person had to wait for one or two days for a letter to get across to a person who lived in the same state itself. The second person in turn would take one or two days to respond and this letter would take on or two days to get back to the first person.

So in effect, a single correspondence would stretch over a week. But now it's a totally different story. The time taken for the first letter and the response has been brought to an amazing 2 minutes! Waiting may make the heart grow fonder but e-mail makes two people get close faster!

Privacy

The Internet provides for absolute privacy too. One can carry out communication with another person in the absolute privacy of one's bedroom or bath room or wherever one chooses to be. There is no fear of eavesdropping (ugh) or over hearing (shudder!) thanks to e-mail and chat facilities.

Options and Opportunities

The Internet provides for other options like voice chat or video conferencing and stops short only of the physical touch. But then who would want to start a relationship by touching right away? You can see a person, talk to a person, and listen to the person's voice, can you think of a better way to start a date?

Economy

All this and more is possible thanks to the internet and the best part is that all this comes to you for peanuts. All you need is a P.C (who doesn't have one?) and an Internet Connection (how can anybody live without one) and you are all set. The only thing more you could ask for is a step by step guide to find your dream date…well here it is!

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Dating Tips for Men

2009-01-07T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Maurice Tate

Dating Tips for Men!

What does a women find attractive in a MAN!

Have you ever noticed that very attractive women are not interested in nice man but are attracted to Bad Boys? Do you have attractive women friends that just want to be friends with you?

I have and I got sick of this response.

Most men never really explore this question and act too nice. Most men try to please the women by asking out for dinner and give flowers etc. Most men are needy around a women and want love and sex.

They felt they were not really loved from mum and so are needy in wanting a women to love them so they can feel good about themselves.

Women really want a challenge and not a wuss. They love a very confident, sexy man that knows he can attract any women with no effort.

Attraction comes from a deep gut level which is not logical. And being nice does not make a women attracted to you.

This is hard to understand as it has no logic. Once I got over being nice and pleasing I found women much more interested in me. I more I stopped trying to please and be always available the more the women became interested.

If a women is not attracted to me after a first contact I do not try to get her to change her mind.

I just say next and move on. It is very hard to change a womens opinion if she just wants to be friends. Easier to move on than waste a lot of time.

Just go on a good Internet dating site and you can date as many women as you want. Place a good photo of you smiling and make a funny, cocky profile.

Most mens profile are very boring so do something in your face and different. I like to say on my profile that women with emotional problems, sexual hangups please do not contact me. This gives the impression that I am not needy and selective. Women love this.

There is an abundance of women looking for men. Dating a few women at once gives you a good state of mind that if one women is not what you want you can easily move on. The more I can be indifferent to women the more they get attracted.

If you have a problem about approaching attractive women just set a task of walking up to then again and again till you could not care less how they will respond. Once you get to this level they will start to respond. Funny hey.

Yes it is scary at first to do this but why give you power to women! Why be scared of attractive women for the rest of your life.

Is it not time to grow up and be a man! For more informatin visit my site at http://www.yourdatingtips.com

About the author: Maurice is a qualified sexologist and specialises in improving couples sex life. Visit his sites at http://www.yourdatingtips.com and http://www.bodyecstatic.com

Add Trust To Your Relationship

2009-01-06T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Trust is something that is important to every single relationship you have. No matter if it is a relationship of friends, family, or even a relationship of lovers; trust must be there to make it successful. So, if you are noticing a lack of trust within your relationship, how can you get trust back into your relationship? How can trust be incorporated into your life, daily? How can you trust if you've been hurt in relationships before?

It is hard to add trust into a relationship that is already damaged. But, it is necessary in the most immediate way. Relationships are built on qualities like trust. If the trust in your relationship is week, chances are good that the relationship will suffer in the long run. If you are constantly questioning or worry about your relationship, then you have no trust in your partner. If you trust in them, then you know that they have your best interests at their heart just as you do for them. You can learn more about this aspect by visiting http://www.getdatingtips.com.

To add trust to your relationship, you must first put aside your problems. You must push aside all the times that trust ended up hurting you. Instead, put your trust into your relationship anyway. Even if you are worried that trusting someone will end up hurting you, you still have to give the opportunity to them to prove you wrong. If you are in a relationship where you have given trust and not received trust, then you are in a failing relationship. Unless you commit to trusting each other 100%, you will not succeed in your relationship. And, in the end, if that trust is getting abused and taken advantage of, then, you shouldn't be in that relationship. If you give, so much your partner give in a relationship.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Exotic Island Wedding! Where dreams truly come true in paradise

2009-01-05T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: William Lezubski

As a travel professional considering an exotic island wedding was a logical choice, but having to convince a strong Catholic family was the challenge I faced! I was never a traditionalist in the sense, and I have attended so many conventional weddings with a church ceremony and post-reception in the past, I wanted to do something different and special for the most important day of my life!

Island weddings have been around for quiet some time, but in my opinion, they seemed to be perceived more for renewal of vows and second marriages, however, as our lifestyles change, we separated ourselves from tradition, and an exotic wedding on a spectacular island seemed like a dream in paradise for me.

I met the love of my life a few years ago in travel school, and as our love for each other became apparent my only thought was, what if she doesn't want to have an island wedding? Knowing that her family is Catholic, and tradition is very important to them, I thought to myself, was my ambition of having a romantic wedding on an island not going to be a reality?

Even though I expected the worst-case scenario, the family was very understanding and accepted both our wishes with open arms, so the rest was history! The planning for our special event had begun, and with some consideration we both agreed on having our anticipated wedding on the exotic destination island of Cuba. We had the privilege of visiting this beautiful tropical island prior to our wedding, and we both fell in love with the extremely friendly culture, beautiful beach, and the spectacular exotic resort called Beaches, which is located on a peninsula in a small vacation town called Varadero, this is where we planned on having our special ceremony.

The Beaches all inclusive resort was not our original choice, and in the beginning of our research and planning, we decided on the Sandals Montego Bay Resort, which is a fantastic Ultra-All Inclusive Resort located on the fabulous Caribbean island of Jamaica! Not only were they including everything in their package, but they also offered a free wedding as long as we stayed at the resort for 5 nights or longer. Unfortunately, the decision came down to a single guests issue, and because a few of our close family and friends did not have a significant other, that particular resort would not have worked out for us.

I realized that certain events in life happen for a reason, and once we found out that the Beaches Resort in Varadero, Cuba also offered free weddings on the property, and accepted singles, couples, and families as well, we knew our decision was the correct one! If anyone ever tells you the wedding application process is difficult, get a second opinion! We went online and printed the resorts application form, faxed it off and in a matter of weeks we received a confirmation of the selected date and time of the wedding ceremony without any problems.

When we arrived in Cuba, the island location was exactly what we remembered, and the clear turquoise beach rising and falling onto the soft golden sand brought back some wonderful memories of our past visit! We checked into our very spacious suite, and for the first couple of days took part in the resorts endless variety of buffet and A la Carte dining, amazing entertainment, and non-stop flow of mojitos and margaritas!

Our special day could not have come any sooner, and we were amazed with the ceremony location on the property! The garden wedding gazebo was romantically trimmed with aromatic exotic flowers, and bordered with swaying palm trees. As the wedding ceremony commenced I soon realized that two dreams were fulfilled that day. I not only married my soul mate, but we performed an exotic island wedding, and became one in island paradise!

About the author:

About the author: William Lezubski (Accredited Cruise Counsellor (ACC), and Certified Travel Counsellor(CTC) - William is a professional in the Travel Industry and the author of "Discount Caribbean Vacations Web Site" available at

http://www.discount-caribbean-vacations.com/index .htm

Communication in Dating

2009-01-04T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Does your dating relationship have good communication? Communication during dating is what will eventually make or break the dating relationship. If you can not talk or communicate with your loved one, how will they ever know what you expect from your dating relationship?

Communication in dating is essential. Not only do you need to know what your date needs and desires, you also need to know how those things play into your life. Don't get angry with your date if he hasn't fulfilled your every need if you didn't communicate those needs to him in the first place. Instead, tell him what you need him to do and be. Communications like these will keep your dating relationship positive and worthwhile.

Communication in dating is something that many dating relationships lack. In fact, it is often one of the key factors in the break up of dating relationships. How can you build the communication within your relationship, then? You can start by agreeing that communication is a problem within your dating relationship. At that point, you can begin to talk or communicate about how to add communication into your every day dating lives. Can you commit to communicating your needs? Can you commit to listen to the needs of your date?

Communication in dating is not about what movie to see or where to eat. Although this is a good way to work communication in, your dating relationship needs to have other strong areas of communications. Especially important are dating relationship fundamentals like trust, commitment, and honesty. Communicating your needs and understanding those of your date are what will propel your dating relationship instead of leaving it in the dust. Looking for more information? Visit http://www.getdatingtips.com.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Mixed Love is Extra Special and for Everyone

2009-01-03T03:04:00.001-08:00

Author: Frank Duru

Mixed love is a fantastic example of how true love conquers all as it breaks the bonds and rises above discrimination, alienation, and disapproval. Now more than ever before, the 21st century is seeing interracial couples date, live together and marry. With each passing decade, the unspoken mixed love taboos of the past are being placed in history books and buried with the older generations.

There is no reason why anyone should have to limit themselves to only experience dating with their own ethnic group, when so many other fantastic romances and rewarding relationships await them through international dating.

You may be wondering how if you are a black, white, Eurasian, etc. you could become connected and date others from different culture backgrounds, especially if you haven't the first idea how you would approach someone else without feeling strange or awkward in person. The answer is to get connected with an online dating service that works to get you in touch with different people, who are interested in seeking relationships with someone just like you.

For instance, Love Empire is an online dating community that allows you to set up a profile and search for others who have similar interests as you. Of course not everyone you meet is going to interest you, or you them, but at least with an online dating community, you can search for potential dates on your own terms, without having to worry about the interference of anyone else. This provides you with an exceptional chance of experiencing mixed love romances that may be just what you were looking for.

Regardless of your cultural background, black, white, Eurasian, etc., there are many online dating mixed love success stories at Love Empire, so there is no reason why you can't be another success story if you play it smart, are honest with your feelings, and enjoy the company of your date.

Of course, like anyone you meet, there is always risk involved, and there will always be someone who does not approve of your relationship, especially if you are dating someone from a different ethnic background. However, as long as you take your dating slow, and discover how much you truly care for the person, there is no reason why you can't rise above any challenge that presents itself.

Without question, mixed love relationships have a certain special spark that can be captured by no other cultural pairing. And it is not because multicultural relationships are rebellious or made to prove a point as they sometimes were in the 1960's, or are considered the latest fad as some where in the 1980's; on the contrary, interracial relationships today are a sign of a new age that shows you don't need to be of a certain colour or gender to find love, you just need to meet the right person.

About the author: Frank Duru is the author of many different articles but his works concentrate much on dating related information, such as ""Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection"", ""Asian Dating - Respect and Honour"". Join Loveempire.net Interracial Relationship site and read more dating related articles which are only for members.

Preteen Relationships

2009-01-02T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Even preteens have relationships that are important to them. In this critical time, though, the most important preteen relationship is always with parents. It is up to the parents to provide for them the foundations of a good relationship. For those that dare not do provide this relationship in a positive manner, well, they are simply asking for their preteen to rebel against them. There are other preteen relationships, though, that are also important to preteens.

One of these preteen relationships is the friendship ones. Whether your preteen has many or just a few close relationships with other preteens, it is essential that they have some. It is up to those parents again to provide them with opportunities to have these preteen friendships. They are the basis after all, for relationships with friends throughout their lives. Trust, angry, hurt feelings, as well as happiness, pride, and acknowledgement are founded in preteen friendship relationships.

Teachers and other adults often have good relationships with preteens. Those that have these types of relationship end up being mentors and guides to go to when your preteen gets lost. Again, it is up to the parents to ensure that these preteen relationships are on the up and up and that they are founded in trust and positive reinforcement. Relationships like these propel future relationships as well. To help your teen, learn more about this at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

There are other preteen relationships that are important as well. You can fill them in. As you see, though, these preteen relationships are guides and stepping stones into future relationships your preteen will have. These relationships are learning blocks.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

Finding Your Soul Mate

2008-12-31T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: S A Baker

Are you looking for your soul mate? Do you hope to find your soul mate while you're sitting at your computer reading? If so, you are not alone. There are many people that are searching for soul mates throughout cyber space. Of course, there are other methods to finding your soul mate as well. But, what will you do when you find that soul mate? How will you know that he or she is your soul mate?

Perhaps the answers to these questions should come from within you. What qualities do you want your soul mate to have? Even more important, what qualities will you hold to the highest level and insist that your soul mate have? Things like honesty, integrity, loyalty and on and on are things that soul mates must have in common.

Perhaps that is the next most important thing for you to consider in a soul mate. Will your soul mate need to have things in common with you? Will your goals need to be the same? Will your dreams need to be similar or at least compatible?

While no one can answer these questions but you about your needs in a soul mate, it can be said that soul mates should be able to understand the other soul mates needs and desires without them having to be said. Soul mates know the feelings and desires of their soul mate in the worst and the best of times. And, this is something that you can not make up. Soul mates just come like that! Are you looking for more information? Check out http://www.getdatingtips.com.

About the author: S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com.

How To Have A Fairytale Wedding On A Sensible Budget

2008-12-29T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Simon Emmett

Congratulations! So now that you both have agreed to take the big step and get married – the excitement of a long and happy life together lays ahead for you both.

So now comes the fun of planning the wedding, the big day, the main event! The most important part of the planning is setting the budget. Did you know the average wedding costs $19,000? So you need to set your budget carefully and stuck to it. If you overrun, even a little, it could cost you thousands of dollars.

Set your budget very carefully – nobody wants to spend every last nickel they have on their wedding yet every couple dreams of the perfect wedding. Gone are the days of parents footing the bill for the wedding, in fact 4 out of 5 couples today pay for their own weddings. So that probably means you are

Fortunately there are many things you can do to have your dream wedding without breaking the bank. But be prepared for the hard sell! Every vendor out there just loves it when a newly engaged girl walks into their store – they start seeing the dollar signs! Make sure you shop around and get at least 3 quotes for each service – you will be surprised how much they vary.

Also do not be afraid to negotiate with the vendors. If you find a florist you just love but they are $1000 more expensive - then talk them. Maybe tell them you just adore their work but they are a little too expensive – ask them what they could do to make the price fit within your budget.

Additionally be very careful when telling any vendor the budget you have for their service. Somehow all the photographers will quote you $1500 when you tell them your budget is $1500! Ask them their price first. If they try to tell you they have many packages ask them what their most popular price point is. It also doesn't hurt to let it slip that you will be visiting some of their competitors as well!

Finally don't forget this is supposed to be FUN! Your wedding day WILL be wonderful, sure there will be some hiccups, but trust me, in the end it will go off wonderfully if you just apply a little planning and commonsense.

Enjoy your life together!

About the author: Simon Emmett is the webmaster for http://www.wedding-budget-planner.com - a guide to planning the perfect wedding on a sensible budget.

10 Must Have Online Dating Tips

2008-12-28T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Norbert Lukacsi

Have you ever thought of meeting people online? If so, meeting people online can be great fun.Online dating has given us the opportunity from our comforts of our own home to search for that someone.Let your common sense prevail when searching online and do not let your instincts lessen when making your decision. Please see the dating tips below which will make your search safe,a lot of fun and most importantly successful.

* Dating Tip #1

Most common form of introduction would be to say"" Please Allow me to introduce myself"" I use this one myself,it helps to break the ice and it is polite yet confident. Have you ever tried to introduce yourself in a night club or a bar? I am sure you have. Do you say ""Hi my name is""... my telephone number and my address is such and such...No I thought not. When you introduce yourself on http://Iwantudating.com ,please use common sense and do not reveal any personal details about yourself. This is one great thing about online dating.Take as much time as you need in getting to know someone before being comfortable enough in revealing all there is to know about you. So make sure you are not pressured.

* Dating Tip #2

Do not lie about yourself on your profile. People will eventually find out you are having them on.

* Dating Tip #3

Do take the time to complete the entire profile on the registration form - Any unanswered questions say you could not be bothered or are hiding something. Try and complete the form as much as possible to let any potential contact know the real you.

* Dating Tip #4

Have you ever heard of the phrase ""Honesty is the best policy"" I am sure you have.Honesty is admired yet dishonesty is being disrespectful.Tell the people you are emailing your true intentions and it should be the correct path to successful dating. Always remember, that you must use your common sense and judgement.I know it is not easy to judge who you are contacting on the other side so please assess who you are being honest with.

* Dating Tip #5

Now here is good dating advice. Add a nice photo.A photo of you. A smiling photo. A smiling photo up close. A recent smiling photo up close! Make sure your photos are recent preferably less than 6 months old) and that you are happy. Members with photos are likely to get up to 9 times more replies than members without any photo image attached to their profile.

* Dating Tip #6

Do not talk or brag about your ex. There is nothing more of a turn off for people to hear about your previous relationships.Instead focus on what you already have.The past is often best forgotten.

* Dating Tip #7

Always try and reply to people's messages and reply in a reasonable amount of time, not weeks later. If you are serious about dating, you are serious about replying. They have taken the time to talk or write to you and they may be really nice.

* Dating Tip #8

Has it ever happened to you where you are talking to a stranger and you are wondering what they look like? Our brains tend to create an image in our mind of what someone might look like.It is only our natural instinct to do so.If you ever meet or met the person they did not look anything like you had in your mind? Am I right? Of Course. Unfortunately none of us are psychic so I suggest you you ask for a picture and you can feel more comfortable with whom you are emailing.

* Dating Tip #9

Always and I mean always meet your date in a mutual place during the day which both of you are comfortable with.Always advise a friend or a relative of where you are going and leave a contact number.Do not leave any Drinks unattended.Unfortunately and it must be said that we live in cruel and sick world. Please if you have an alcoholic drink then please drink moderately.

* Dating Tip #10

Be Realistic.Most fairytale stories do not have a happy ending.If they sound perfect fit , it does not necessarily mean send the wedding Invitations out yet. If this date does not work out do not worry it will not be your last first date.If it does not lead to a next date then pack your bags and move on to the next potential candidate on your list.Do not be put off.

Remember there are plenty of fish in the Sea. So make sure you choose wisely.

About the author: Norbert is the owner and the author of ""Dating Variety Newsletter"" available at http://www.iwantudating.com or http://www.datingvariety.com

Office Nomance

2008-12-26T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Sean Williams

Are Office Romance's really that bad? The answer is …..it depends on the individual. The key to success in an office romance is accepting the reality of the situation. Some relationship experts say if you engage in this type of relationship, you should keep it on the hush hush and keep it professional. In a utopian office environment that might work but when emotions are involved, people tend to stray from such principles. So, I say accept from the get go if you become intimate with each other that it will leak out to the corporate environment; the corporate eyes are omnipotent and eventually gossip and rumors will spread quicker than wildfire. For example, at my job, a female co-worker who had recently broken up with a fellow co-worker revealed to me his inadequacies in the bedroom and how he was the biggest loser she had ever dated. Now, if she told me this personal information and we were just associates, imagine who else she told at our organization. The point is arm yourself with the foresight of the potential consequence of an office relationship. Once you're accepting of this awareness and your okay with it, proceed on to your newly blossoming office relationship. Like my friend says the only two things that can happen in a relationship is you either break up or worst you get married. If the reality that your personal business might be exposed and put on display daunts you then you should probably refrain from the office romance. In the end, it's your choice, you have to dig deep, look within yourself and make a decision that aligns with your values.

About the author: Sean Williams is a Relationship Coach for men and women. He has a B.A. from The Ohio State University. Mr. Williams conducted several relationship forums while at The Ohio State University. For Phone Coaching - Call (614) 327-2467

Titanium Mens Wedding Rings - The Contemporary Look for the Modern Man

2008-12-25T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Peter Crump

The wearing of a man wedding ring is a relatively modern phenomenon. So is the use of Titanium in Titanium mens rings.

One of the newest and classiest of the modern jewelry materials, Titanium is setting a standard in the looks of contemporary mens wedding bands.

Despite this, mens titanium rings are reasonably hard to find in your local jewelry store. Unfortunately titanium hasn't quite made it into the consciousness of your local jewelry merchant. So if you want to find the ultimate in contemporary male jewelry, including men's titanium rings, you have to look further affield.

Enter the internet. There is a world of choice on the net for the modern couple searching for the ideal contemporary design mens titanium wedding band.

But first, what is titanium?

Titanium is a naturally occurring element, not an alloy. In other words it isn't just a mixture of two or more different metals to produce a third one, as alloys are. That is not to say that Titanium cannot be alloyed with other metals, just that Titanium itself is not an alloy.

It is in fact often alloyed with other metals for jewelry making to make it harder, although all Titanium including pure Titanium makes a fine jewelry material.

For the more chemically minded amongst us, Titanium is listed in the periodic table as a natural element, atomic number 22.

It was named in 1795 after the god Titan.

Titanium can even be found in space rocks. The Apollo 17 mission brought back rocks with up to 12% Titanium in them.

Because of it's natural properties Titanium has been primarily used in the aerospace industry, and only more recently applied to jewelry making.

But why is Titanium such a great material for making mens wedding bands? A number of reasons.

Firstly it is very hard, much harder than traditional ring materials such as gold and silver. It is extremely lightweight, corrosion resistant and very strong. It is so strong in fact that rings are fashioned out of a solid block of metal, so make sure that you get your size right as resizing is usually not an option.

It is hypoallergenic, meaning that it cannot produce skin reactions or allergies as can be found with some other ring materials, though rare.

But the real reason is that it looks great! Titanium can be shaped into a wide variety of styles. It can also be colored into a stunning range of colors which can be mixed and matched.

For this reason the range of choices in mens Titanium wedding bands is much greater than for a more traditional material such as gold for example. Although gold can be altered to offer a small range of different colours, it is basically gold colored. Titanium offers a much wider range of choices in color.

Titanium also offers a choice of finish, most commonly satin, matt or polished.

Black Titanium mens wedding rings are amongst the most eye catching of all the Titanium rings. Black Titanium rings are usually a mix of black Titanium coupled with another color as an all black ring can be overpowering. But a contemporary style mens black Titanium ring is almost the ultimate in chic for the man who wants to make a statement.

Mens Titanium rings can be coupled with a wide range of precious gemstones, including diamonds, to add effect. And as Titanium is so strong it is also possible to buy tension set titanium rings.

What are these? Well the strength of the material is used to suspend a gemstone, say a diamond, between the two ends of the ring so that the gemstone is almost hanging in space in the ring. A totally modern look.

The strength of the Titanium keeps it there.

And for the more creatively minded amongst us it is possible to design your own mens Titanium ring. There are online jewellers who offer the option of making up a design for your Titanium ring that is unique only to you. You decide exactly what style, color or mix of colors you want.

Want to add a gemstone? Or more than one? Where do you want to put it in the ring? It's all up to you.

There is no doubt that the older traditional materials used for making rings make beautiful rings. Gold or silver rings are still high on the list of choices for many men, and modern ring designs in these materials are also impressive.

But the modern man who has decided to wear his marital status on his finger shouldn't buy a ring before he looks at the range of Titanium mens wedding rings.

The only difficulty is making up your mind which one!

About the author: Peter Crump is the webmaster and owner of the website Cool Mens Wedding Rings http://www.coolmensrings.ili1.com/unique-mens-wedding-rings.html for great ideas about unique mens wedding rings, and mens rings in general. Unusual mens wedding rings, custom mens wedding rings, inexpensive mens wedding rings, gold, silver, titanium and platinum rings and more at http://www.coolmensrings.ili1.com/platinum-mens-wedding-rings.htm l

But Why do we Cheat?

2008-12-24T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Norbert Lukacsi

So how come we cheat? This question has been asked many times but there is no real answer why we actually do it.Some of the men surveyed said they cheat because they can and can get away with it.What a croc!

Of course women cheat just as much as men do. Both sexes are just as guilty when it comes to cheating on their partners. Many women who were surveyed said they cheat for the excitement of it all.The thrill of something different in their life's.

Cheating causes too much pain and grief and if you have not experienced it firsthand. - It affects everyone! Saying no requires at times the willpower to walk - no run away, the action to back up what you say and truly caring about your partner or spouse feelings.

Cheating is a silly word It's culturally centered. It implies that we've violated the rules of the game of fidelity.

Here are the top reasons why either sex cheats:

Women cheat because:

- Other man is more attractive

- Other man is more generous

- Mate is too insensitive

- One man can't satisfy her (insatiable)

- He Cheats and wants revenge

- Man not romantic enough

- Lack of communication

- Higher sex drive then spouse

Men Cheat Because:

- ""Bad"" Sex

- Not enough time spent together

- She gained too much weight

- She is too damned negative

- She criticizes too much

- Not enough Sex

- She becomes boring

- She is not feminine enough

The bottom line, is that men are and will continue to be attracted to other women and yes, women have and will continue to be attracted to other men too.

About the author: Norbert is the owner and the author of ""Dating Variety Newsletter"" available at http://www.iwantudating.com or http://www.datingvariety.com

For the Couple that Has Everything...

2008-12-23T03:05:00.000-08:00

Author: Bob Bassett

Are you torn between the toaster oven and the coffee maker? Can't find the happy couple on a registry anywhere? A wedding gift basket is a perfect choice for newlyweds. What could be more romantic than champagne and truffles in a honeymoon suite?

Some wedding gift baskets may contain keepsakes for the couple such as photo boxes, wine glasses, or other small items. Don't limit your choice to selections advertised as wedding gift baskets, though. A large fruit basket, a gourmet basket full of crackers, cheeses, wine, and smoked meats, or a basket of chocolates and wine can all be fantastic selections that the couple will appreciate.

Some romantic ideas for wedding gift baskets include a gift basket with all the ingredients for an Italian dinner for two that the couple could make together, a picnic basket complete with dinnerware and a selection of gourmet treats, or a coffee gift basket full of flavored coffee and baked goods for a romantic honeymoon breakfast.

Wedding gift baskets are available in a variety of price ranges, as are most gift baskets. If you plan on giving a cash gift but feel awkward not having a present for the couple as well, a small gift basket can fill that role.

For weddings in a distant location that you aren't able to attend, most online retailers can deliver your wedding gift basket. It is a nice way to let the couple know you are thinking of them on their special day, even if you can't be there with them. Gift baskets are also great gifts for anniversaries, as well.

A wedding is a special day, and whether you choose a small, tasteful wedding gift basket to accompany a cash gift or a large gourmet selection, your gift is sure to stand out among the toaster ovens, blenders, and silverware.

About the author: Bob Bassett is the owner of Unique Gift Baskets Online which offers a wide selection of gift baskets for any occasion including baby gift baskets, food gift baskets, wine and corporate gift baskets. http://www.uniquegiftbasketsonline.com

Engaged, Now What?

2008-12-18T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Patty Sheffield

Three websites make wedding planning quick and easy.

Recently gotten engaged and now the excitement, or should I say anxiety of planning a wedding has kicked in? Three sites with unique services can help any bride to-be plan a wedding with ease, so that their focus can remain on the details that make weddings memorable.

INFORMATION & TOOLS TheKnot.com is an excellent resource for brides and grooms to-be with useful articles and tips on picking flowers, planning dinner parties, selecting a cake, how to pick diamonds, and much more. Useful tools such as a wedding checklist, guest list management, and wedding notebook, ease the planning process of the wedding.

SERVICE PROVIDERS The most daunting task of wedding planning is finding the right services. Although many sites list service providers (i.e. caterers, party planners, DJs), brides-to-be quickly find out that this information is virtually useless. Categorizing services by area, or displaying dollar-sign symbols do not provide a realistic sense about wedding services. MyAffair.com has found an intelligent way to simplify this task.

On MyAffair.com, wedding services can be found by availability, price, and area. Users can find and compare wedding vendors available for their date, and in their price range, in seconds. MyAffair.com saves everyone time by linking customers directly to the service providers that they can afford. It also allows for easy negotiations, and even allows customers to pay for their services in installments.

GIFT REGISTRY WeddingChannel.com adds the final touch to planning any wedding day, by having an online gift registry that allows brides and grooms to register gifts from various stores. The site also provides tips to help with health and fitness for brides, advice on hiring service providers, and other useful articles.

The use of TheKnot.com, MyAffair.com, and WeddingChannel.com wrap up all wedding day needs. Without these great sites, a special day can easily turn into a nightmare.

About the author: Patty Sheffield has been a corporate event planner since 1997. She uses the Internet to assist her in finding caterers, DJs, event music, limousines, and many other event services for her clients.

Is your marriage strong enough for the Swinging Lifestyle?

2008-12-17T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Gin

Why have you entered the swinging lifestyle? Has your spouse become boring in bed and you want something more exciting? Have you become a swinger in an attempt to keep your spouse from cheating on you? Has your marriage lost it's ""spark"" and you feel that adding other sexual partners will correct your relationship problems? The above are all reasons why NOT to enter the swinging scene. The lifestyle WILL NOT fix a marriage already in trouble, it may actually add to the existing problems. Use your time and resources contacting professionals who can help you to get your marriage back on track before attempting to become active in the lifestyle.

About the author: Gin is a Syndicated Columnist and Author for The Swinging Lifestyle askgin@ginsopinion.com

Long Distance Relationships 101

2008-12-16T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Debbie Anderson

Why do long distance relationships seem more passionate than other types?

Psychologists say that it is human nature to want what we can't have. Throw a little sexual desire into that mix and you have the kind of romantic and sexual angst that is the stuff of great romance and literature.

Suddenly, unlike the banality of every day relationships, you can find yourself in an epic personal drama filled with the anticipation of seeing your long lost partner once again. This sounds good, but is it actually a healthy, practical way to conduct a relationship?

Of course, aside from being tantalized by the promise of love that shines so distantly on the horizon, there are many other very pragmatic reasons why you could find yourself suddenly in a long distance relationship.

** Common Scenarios **

A very common scenario are the young lovers who are forced to call it quits because they end up attending different colleges in different cities, states, or even continents.

Debt, fame, ailing spouses, war, disease, responsibilities towards an ex spouse or children, career obligations, can separate people.

There are a million reasons why you can be forced to say good-bye, but does it have to be forever?

The first thing to understand is that a relationship conducted across great distances does not necessarily qualify as a 'relationship' in the ordinary sense.

For instance, if a girl has been dating a guy for four years and he suddenly decides to travel across Europe with nothing but a backpack and pocket change to find himself, where does this leave her?

Rather than ever be left wondering, it is crucial for the two of you to establish some rules and boundaries around the relationship long before anyone starts packing.

It is not going to work if you are still trying to figure out ""where you stand"" in the relationship as your loved one is boarding the plane.

First of all there must be some kind of mutual agreement that you are in a long-distance relationship and that there should be no infidelity.

Many long-distance relationships fail because of mixed messages from one partner or the other. Usually one person believes that the ""out of sight, out of mind"" rule applies and that while there is distance between you ""anything goes!""

The other party in the relationship might believe the opposite (that absence makes the heart grow fonder) and then get a rude shock when they don't receive emails or phone calls or do receive one that describes a budding new romance.

The rule of thumb is to establish the ground rules before this type of scenario is allowed to blossom.

You need to agree on how much you are going to communicate with each other and which rule applies best ""out of sight, out of mind"" or ""absence makes the heart grow fonder.""

** Establishing Ground Rules **

Before you are separated by distance you have three basic things you need to ask each other so that you can figure out well in advance what actually constitutes a betrayal according to the rules of your long distance relationship.

1. Are we going to be faithful to each other?

2. Are we allowed to have sex with other people, but remain in faithful in our hearts?

3. Does this separation allow us to explore other relationship options?

One option is to keep everything the way it is -- whether you are five miles or 5,000 miles away from each other.

This way of thinking is very popular among young lovebirds, who have difficulty believing that their relationship could ever end.

They tend to believe that physical space between them will not affect the solidity of the relationship because their ""undying"" love for each other can surpass the seemingly small obstacle of distance.

Unfortunately, this is not an option that often allows the other person their essential humanity and it is a point of view that is considered immature by counselors or psychiatrists.

The ""nothing has changed"" approach is often a position of denial. Lots has changed, you are not physically together anymore!

Usually this type of denial applies to high school sweethearts who are separated because of the necessity of attending different colleges.

If one or the other partner slips up due to temptation (all it takes is a boozy night and a one-night stand) it is way too easy for the other partner to take it personally.

The above example tells us that one of the keys to keeping a long distance relationship is to keep your expectations realistic.

Know your partner by clearly communicating with him or her, but also, make sure that you know thyself! Know what you can tolerate and what is acceptable to you.

Long distance relationships based on humoring the other person or making promises that you can't keep simply don't work. This will spare you the feelings of betrayal, suspicion and jealousy that often set in after a couple of months of being apart.

Unfortunately the sad truth about most long distance relationships is that they don't make the heart grow fonder, they make the heart grow harder.

About the author: Debbie Anderson is author of: ""Love At A Distance - 47 Ways to Improve Your Long-Distance Relationship Today!"" You can get it free for a limited time at: http://loveatadistance.com

Princess Wedding Chapel: all for you

2008-12-15T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

If you're looking for a beautiful location to host your nuptials, you will find it at the Princess Wedding Chapel, so search no further. Become Queen Elizabeth or Princess Grace when you plan a special fantasy event that you and your spouse will always treasure. Mermaids, luaus, Elvis impersonators or rock n' roll artists will jazz up your ceremony at this unique las Vegas wedding chapel.

Voted by brides as the #1 prettiest wedding chapel in las Vegas, the Princess lets you step into the shoes of royalty to order a command performance of your special day. With service that's fit for a king—or a queen, you will enjoy every moment in this most imaginative of the many las Vegas wedding chapels.

Celebrate your wedding day as Princess Aurora or Cinderella—every girl's dream! Select traditional music or another type that best suits the mood of this celebratory occasion. Dozens of las Vegas chapels provide similar services, but here you can be anyone you want to for the most important day of your life!

But don't stop with the ceremony. Let these experienced artisans help you design and serve a gracious reception banquet for friends and family. Have a candlelight ceremony, an outdoor service, or a full wedding event that will embody the best of all the las Vegas chapels. Make it as simple or ornate as you wish. Specialists will work with you to create a splendid occasion that is captured live on the Internet or in photographs or a DVD for permanent memories. Assistance is provided for obtaining the marriage license, minister, and a witness if needed.

Limousine arrangements, live or recorded music and performers, reception facilities, and all the rest can be managed long-distance or when you arrive. Service is available in several languages, so don't worry about getting an interpreter if English isn't your native tongue. Visit the site and call the toll-free number for more information on how you can plan your dream wedding at this fantasy chapel. You can visit this chapel online at http://www.lvweddingchapels.com.

About the author: Randy has more articles on wedding information such as

Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel and

Las Vegas Catering

Are you feeling jealousy? Should you exit the lifestyle stage right?

2008-12-14T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Gin

It is widely spoken that jealousy and the swinging lifestyle do not mix. I was once told that I had two choices for dealing with my jealousy. 1. Get out of the lifestyle or 2. Dismiss my jealousy and continue swinging. Certainly, I did not want to give up on living the lifestyle. My desire did not leave me because of my jealousy. I chose to dismiss it. This lead us blindly into 3 bad swinging encounters. Let's face it, we are all human and we face and deal with jealousy issues outside of the lifestyle.Why should the lifestyle be any differsnt? We had our first awesome swinging encounter once I was able to admit my jealousy. Not only did I admit it to myself but I also admitted it to the couple we were planning our next encounter with. Surprisingly enough, they were very understanding and willing to help. Always be honest about your desires and feelings. Hiding jealousy does not make it go away. Face it, deal with it and allow prospective swinging partners to help you work through it.

About the author: Gin is a Syndicated Columnist and Author for The Lifestyle and is featured on news sites across the world.

For more information on the Swinging lifestyle and Gin's latest book release, visit http://www.ginsopinion.com http://www.stlifestyle.com/go?jstusinsc4fun

Male and Swinging single

2008-12-13T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Gin

As a single male trying to enter into the lifestyle successfully, I am sure you have discovered that this may be no small task for you.

First, you must get yourself recognized. I suggest placing a personal ad on an adult lifestyle site. Placing an ad in newspapers or magazines could possibly get you unwanted replied from unwanted people who may not even be lifestyle minded. Also, once your ad is there it's there and becomes outdated. I strongly suggest a lifestyle site.

How you place your ad and it's contents is extremely important.

Stating that you have an unusually huge private part that hangs to your knees and that you work it like a jack hammer is not what impresses serious swinging couples.

Prospective partners want to know about you. Your hobbies and what you like to do for fun outside of the bedroom.

Always be honest in your ad. Never state that you are single if in fact you are married and swinging without your spouse.

A couple may be willing to look past the fact that you are swinging without your spouse,

But, once they realize that you have lied to them, they will lose all interest in you.

Trust and honesty are very important!

Most swinger clubs allow single men only one night a week if they are allowed at all.

I do not advise taking a hired escort!

You may get lucky and meet a couple who is looking for a one night stand but then again, you may meet a couple that is looking for friendship as well as sex. Informing them that your date for the evening is hired makes you look desperate. This will only put you into a bad situation.

Seek a single female that you enjoy being with. One who is into the lifestyle and who will enjoy going to swinger parties and other events with you.

Your search should begin on the site where you place your ad.

As a single male, you are very much wanted in the lifestyle. Without you MFM fantasies are difficult to turn into realities.

But, remember that there are many of you to choose from. Be honest, respectful and most of all be yourself.

You will find yourself right in the middle of a totally awesome encounter that goes beyond your wildest dreams.

For more information on the lifestyle including my latest book release ""in the Swing of things"" please visit... http://www.ginsopinion.com Also, I recommend http://www.stlifestyle.com/go?jstusinsc4fun This is an awesome swinger site to place your ad and to meet with an awesome community of swingers.

Thanks for reading my article, I certainly hope you find it to be informative.

Sensually, Gin

About the author: Gin is a Syndicated Columnist and Author for The Lifestyle and is featured on news sites across the world.

Relationship Tips: 16 Practical Dramatic Ways to Know if He/She is REALLY Changing

2008-12-12T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

Every relationship hits a snag, or worse, a major crisis (such as infidelity), that demands significant change if the relationship is to survive.

So...there are promises to change and the two of you embark upon a new path. You watch carefully.

""Can I trust this change? Is it permanent? temporary? How long will it last? Is he/she REALLY changing?""

Good questions. Here are 16 ways to know if the change is going to last:

1. You notice opposite behaviors and nonverbal communication. Passivity becomes activity. Recklessness transforms into thoughtfulness. Aloofness turns into engagement.

2. You find yourself surprised. ""Hmmmm, this hasn't happened before, but is really nice! I wonder where this came from? But, I will take it!""

3. He/she expresses more curiosity about you, about him/her self and others. He/she observes more closely what happens in relationships, without criticism or defensiveness.

4. You feel that somehow there has been a shifting of gears. There is a different rhythm or flow in the relationship. Much less effort. Much less tension.

5. You find yourself noticing how differently he/she talks. The words seem different. The emotional tone of the words seem different.

6. The negative times, where you felt very stuck, helpless and hopeless, are less intense, happen less often and you seem to have more effective ways to move out of those times more quickly.

7. Your gut (intuition) tells you that this is ok. You begin to trust that part of you more implicitly. A part of you is clapping and cheering inside!

8. He/she seems to have more direction and purpose. Less drifting. He/she seems to be driven more by internal desires and wishes rather than reacting to people or external circumstances. He/she takes up interesting hobbies or finds more enthusiasm for career.

9. The changes seem to be more consistent and carry over for a longer period of time. More stability. Fewer swings. You seem more consistently on the right path.

10. More concern is expressed for family, children and close friends.

11. Words such as: ""I promise. I'll try. Or, I'm going to..."" are NOT in his/her vocabulary.

12. Moments of effusive crying, tear letting and chest beating are gone. Apologies are past and there is a sense of working right here right now to create what we want down the line.

13. You hear no blaming of others. He/she does NOT make others responsible for his/her actions. You sense that he/she is intent upon responsibly creating his/her world.

14. There is good eye contact.

15. He/she is taking great steps toward self care both physically, emotionally and spiritually. He/she can state what he/she needs and negotiate with you to get those needs met. At the same time, your personal needs are considered.

16. You worry much less about what will happen next.

About the author: Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach, has helped hundreds of couples over the past two decades heal from the agony of extramarital affairs and survive infidelity. Visit his website at:

http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel - exciting!

2008-12-11T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel is a comprehensive wedding service with several types of themes and plans that are common to a las Vegas chapel. You also can opt for a traditional wedding that will remove the need for creativity and development of ideas. Couples who wish to renew their vows likewise can choose from a vast array of styles to make their special event even more memorable in one of these las Vegas wedding chapel settings.

Choose from Elvis wedding packages presented by Las Vegas Elvis impersonators, June themes, 4th of July wedding programs, or hot summer nights for an August wedding. Other themes include Blue Hawaii, exotic Egyptian, and even gangster weddings. There are also outdoor and sunset ceremonies instead of choosing one of these las Vegas chapels for those who love simplicity and nature.

All the amenities are available, including stretch limo transportation between your hotel and the chapel, a wedding planner, wedding party gifts, a florist, and someone to help you with apparel. Make plans for a deluxe honeymoon that may take the form of a cruise or a trip to Mexico. Have everything ready before your plane arrives in Las Vegas so all you have to do is enjoy a special time with your soon-to-be spouse or longstanding wife or husband with whom you plan to renew vows.

Nevada Magazine voted Viva Las Vegas the area's Best Wedding Chapel four years in a row. Katie Couric featured this chapel on her show, as have many television programs that include CSI, Animal Planet, and Soap Talk.

From photography to cake and champagne, your wedding can become a spectacular event when you trust this site with the details. Display your nuptials live for free on the Internet so that family and friends can peek in back home. Whatever your interests or special needs, this chapel will make every effort to accommodate you in making your wedding the most exciting day of your life, one you will fondly share with friends and relatives.

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Little Chapel of the Flowers

2008-12-10T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

The Las Vegas Review Journal poll voted this las Vegas chapel the best among numerous others. Nevada magazine selected The Little Chapel of Flowers as the best las Vegas wedding chapel in southern Nevada. Bride's Magazine and several television programs like Regis and Kathy Lee, Fox, and ABC Dateline applaud this very special wedding chapel in las Vegas as unique with its on-site waterfall, picturesque wooden bridge, and beautiful grounds that complement the scenic chapel.

Las Vegas wedding chapels permeate this historic area, but few offer as many options and amenities as Little Chapel of the Flowers. The landscape and layout of this attractive property are among the most lavish of all the las Vegas wedding chapels.

Onsite flower and photography services provide instant access for planning and ceremony readiness. Each wedding service is scheduled at least 30 minutes apart to prevent overlap between bookings and wedding parties. Ministers will perform civil or religious ceremonies, and can add personal touches when they meet with you before the service begins. Of course, as with other las Vegas chapels, you will enjoy free limo service (except for the tip) between the hotel and your chapel.

Guests can view your ceremony online for free, and in advance, they can order or send wedding gifts to the happy couple. You can even plan your honeymoon at a local getaway in Las Vegas or board a jet for a distant location, all coordinated with the help of your caring wedding planner.

Make your wedding special and memorable by visiting The Little Chapel of the Flowers to see what they have to offer to make your impending nuptials more beautiful and breath taking than you ever imagined. You can visit this chapel online at Little Chapel of the Flowers .

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Have you been Rejected Lately?

2008-12-09T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Norbert Lukacsi

This is one of our greatest fears when asking someone out. Do you fancy someone at work or the shop you visit? Sure we all have been there before. We fancy that someone but Yet we do not seem to have the courage to walk up to them and ask them out.Why? I am sure you have heard the word ""Rejection"".

Rejection is a subject not far from our minds when we want to ask out that sexy woman or man. Once we experience rejection we are deprived of our self-confidence we feel small, worthless and most of all insecure. The fact is, being rejected hurts no matter who we are, we all have experienced it some stage in our life.

The way we handle rejection is totally dependent on our personality , the way we were brought up , our first relationships with the opposite gender etc..

Not so long ago when I worked in the hospitality industry I really fancied this one particular girl. She gave me all the right signs that she feels the same. I did not really have the courage to ask her out face to face as I thought she was out of my league. Don't get me wrong I ain't an ugly looking bloke but I just couldn't find the right time. Eventually when I did didn't I make a total fool out of myself. As it turned out she was married. I thought someone just crushed my heart or tore them out of place. The way she said it with a smile she really brushed me aside.and being in a public did not help either. I could feel my face all red as usual. After that I felt a little bit uneasy around her every time I didn't know how to behave around her. I think she could sense it.

So being in the animal kingdom we cannot be attractive to all and be liked by the opposite sex.Never feel ashamed if you are rejected, move on.Rejection can come in many forms from a partner being unfaithful , calling off a relationship and it can come in small forms a date for instance who decides no to turn up which tells you that either they do not want to take things further or perhaps they were not interested in you after all.If you are on the receiving end of a rejection, keep things in perspective by relating to the many aspects of your life.

Once a rejection occurs we are hurt our minds start asking why? What's wrong with me is it the way I look, my hair, my shape or perhaps my personality. You ask yourself is it the way you acted that caused the rejection? There are things you should try and avoid.

The fear of rejection is an issue we all face or have faced in our life's. It stops us approaching the person we really like. Rejection is the curse, confidence is the cure.The way to fix rejection is to balance with confidence building activities in our lives think of positive thoughts and block any negative you may have. If you think positively you will feel healthy and confident. To be exact, the more confident you are, the better you will be able to cope with some forms of rejection. You will be able to shrug off any disappointments with confidence and look forward to the positives.

Unfortunately I do not have all the answers to this complex part of our lives.I am able though to tell you ,to be strong, be positive, learn about yourself, get to know your weaknesses and be confident.In time you will be able to brush rejection aside and move along in your life with a smile because you know there is someone out there for you.

About the author: Norbert is the owner and the author of ""Dating Variety Newsletter"" available at http://www.iwantudating.com or http://www.datingvariety.com

Wedding Dreams Chapel of Las Vegas

2008-12-08T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Wedding Dreams is a simple las Vegas chapel that can get you married promptly without a lot of time-consuming issues. Call two weeks or more ahead of time if possible, and then come to this unique region for your very special nuptial celebration. This las Vegas wedding chapel provides everything you need for a romantic ceremony that can be performed on the time and date you specify.

Security and privacy are emphasized here to reassure clients that every effort is being made to protect them against identity or credit card theft.

Prices range between $129 for the "Only You" package and $395 to include an Elvis impersonator. The basic plan includes amenities like a candlelight service, 8 4x6 photos, and a video recording of the ceremony. With the Elvis package, "the king" will sing three songs for your wedding. Other additions include a garter for the bride, a rose presentation, and champagne glasses, and a witness if needed.

There are additional costs that you need to be aware of when booking any of the las Vegas wedding chapels. One is the $50 minister's fee. Another is the limo driver's gratuity, although limo service typically is free among the various hotels, chapels, and casinos of the city. Deposits run between $65 and $100, depending on which plan you order.

Select from twelve chapels with varied seating arrangements, with some providing space for 40 guests while others can accommodate more than 100 guests. You also can choose different arrangements, designs, and color schemes with each of these las Vegas chapels.

Make your wedding as beautiful or as simple as you choose. You can visit this chapel online at You can visit this chapel online at Wedding Dreams .

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What is a good age to marry?

2008-12-07T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Jon Tan

What is a good age to marry? People vary a great deal in the ages at which they become mature. A few exceptional people might be ready for marriage in their teens.

Others are much too ""young"" at thirty. A good approach is to find out the average age when people actually do marry. In most developed countries, the age of most men today at the time of first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly over twenty-one.

Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but younger at the time of marriage than they were fifty years ago. Having considered briefly the average ages at which people do marry, let us now consider the good age to marry.

Studies have indicated that teenage marriages are the least successful. They suggest that marriage in the early to middle twenties is desirable. These conclusions find substantial support from other sources. Child-bearing is easiest and safest in the early twenties, although modern science has made it increasingly safe for all ages.

A 50 years old and controversial report indicate that men reach their peak of sex desire well before twenty, so that the postponement of marriage places a strain upon those who observe the accepted moral standards.

Yet emotional maturity and economic competence take time to develop. And if marriage is to represent a complete fulfillment of the love relationship, emotionally as well as physically, the couple should wait for marriage until they are fully ready.

For most couples the best age for marriage seems to be from the early to the middle twenties. Remember, however, that you are not a statistic, or even two statistics. You are you. The question is not, ""what is the good age to marry?"" but ""What is the best age for YOU to marry?"".

The best way to decide is to look at what marriage success involves, and then try to see whether or not you have what it takes. The information found in christian-dating-guide.com may help you to decide.

About the author: This article was written by Jonathan Tan of Christian Dating Advice and may be reproduced on any christian or dating website provided this copyright statement is displayed unedited in its entirety at the foot of the article and you use the exact same HTML code to ensure a clickable link back to the author's site.

Are the neighbors next door secretly swinging?

2008-12-06T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Gin

The swinging lifestyle does not discriminate against race, body type,sexuality,social standing or financial stability. There are people successfully living the lifestyle from all walks of life.

Government and State officials as well as the unemployed enjoy the erotic pleasures of being on the swinging scene.

Choosing to live the lifestyle, is just that, a choice. A PERSONAL CHOICE just as choosing a religion or a political party to become affiliated with.

Although the swinging lifestyle has become more recognized and accepted by society, discretion among swingers is still of utmost importance. Employers as well as family and non lifestyle minded acquaintances seem to view swinging as immoral and threatening to the existence of the traditional marriage and male/female relationship.

Please allow me to say that the serious swinging couples, the couples with strong, loving marriages/relationships do not enter into the lifestyle looking for something better than what they have in their existing marriage/relationship.

Couples enter into the lifestyle seeking to fulfill fantasies and desires of which are nothing more than foreplay for their intimate encounters alone together. The lifestyle is an enhancement just as watching an erotic movie or reading an erotic story. A ""mood setter"" of sorts .

But, swinging IS NOT for everyone. If swinging is chosen as a lifestyle to fix a broken marriage/relationship, a damage control plan better be in place. Again, the swinging lifestyle is an enhancement, not a solution.

The lifestyle also IS NOT an arena for those who are single and looking for marriage or those who are married and cheating on their partners. YES, one may eventually find a soul mate or experience a swinging encounter as a cheater but, these instances are few and far between and can be very difficult to achieve.

I advise those who are looking for a long term traditional relationship to seek them through traditional methods.

Those who are married and trying to become active in the swinging lifestyle excluding your spouse, please ask yourself why! Your actions in the lifestyle will only cause problems in your marriage. Your spouse will eventually discover his/her exclusion of your actions. Seek professional help to discover what has gone astray in your marriage before even considering swinging as a lifestyle for you.

The most awesome benefit of the lifestyle is within the people who choose to live it. There are no set guidelines as to who one must be as a swinger. What one person or couple chooses to seek and accept, the next may choose the total opposite.

What is the swinging lifestyle one may ask? The lifestyle is what you make of it. Simply decide where YOU fit into it.

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Weddings Las Vegas: Popular Ceremonies

2008-12-05T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Are you looking for a las Vegas chapel to make your wedding dreams come true? Chances are you will find it here with Weddings Las Vegas and its many exciting options and packages to choose from. From a simple ceremony in your hotel room to a lavish affair at one of these dynamic locations, your exchange of vows will become permanently etched in the memories of everyone present as a thing of beauty that lasts forever.

Start by consulting a wedding guide to find out more about Nevada marriage laws and Las Vegas courthouse hours of operation. You also will need to know something about proof of age and identity as well as fees. Planning your wedding a couple of weeks ahead of time can provide a wide range of options for time, place, and style. Yet there are also opportunities to marry without waiting when you arrive in the Wedding Capital of the World.

For an outdoor wedding, arrangements can be made for the Grand Canyon, Valley of Fire, or Mountain Air packages. Each of these allows you to enjoy the natural beauties of this scenic area along with the peaceful solitude away from city life. Or you can opt for a traditional Catholic wedding performed by an authorized priest who will meet with you before the ceremony to personalize your service.

Other cultural themes and elements can be added to the ceremony if time permits. Celtic hand fasting to unite the couple, the Spanish arras involving thirteen silver coins showing the groom's ability to support his wife, and Hawaiian leis that join husband and wife are just a few of the many types of symbolic gestures you may wish to consider for your ceremony. Central American, Mexican, and Jewish customs have found a place in some of the more memorable wedding services performed at this las Vegas wedding chapel.

Not every wedding chapel in las Vegas is so accommodating. Some have a set service that runs a certain number of minutes and cannot be amended. Other las Vegas wedding chapels prefer to follow a prescribed format that is based on tradition. Yet many las Vegas chapels go out of their way to personalize a service for the special couple, as this one does.

Check out the many fine services offered by this great site before making your final decision on where to have your once-in-a-lifetime wedding. You can visit this chapel online at Weddings Las Vegas .

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Gothic Weddings of Las Vegas - For a Unique Wedding

2008-12-04T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Just when you thought it would never happen--it did! Not for the fainthearted, Gothic Weddings offers an unusual twist on an ageless service. Now you and your dearly beloved can tie the knot in this intriguing las Vegas chapel buried in the underworld of the renowned Sin City.

This las Vegas wedding chapel presents Count Dracula or the Grim Reaper as your wedding host. A fog-filled chapel that eerily resembles a graveyard will welcome your wedding party with bated breath. The bride can choose from virginal white or blood red roses, along with a few other selections to match her ensemble.

Borrow a coffin for the evening. Dress in Victorian Goth or a favorite Halloween costume for your exchange of vows.

This wedding chapel in las Vegas offers a unique experience for clients who are interested in the macabre. If you have special costume needs, music preferences, or ceremonial adjustments, discuss these with the wedding coordinator (most if not all las Vegas wedding chapels have coordinators) to find out whether your wishes can be accommodated.

It is always a good idea to plan well in advance of your event when possible. This themed wedding chapel books way in advance, so you will want to check your calendar and contact the coordinator to get your date on the schedule. When you book a wedding package at a certain price, you may be able to get a free one or two-night stay at the nearby hotel. Check with your wedding coordinator about a room upgrade if desired.

Your Gothic wedding can be presented on the Internet live and free under certain conditions, so be sure to check with your consultant when planning your ceremony. Ask about the free limousine service, although the drivers must be tipped since they depend heavily for their economic survival on their customers' good nature, and typically offer great service in return. You can also find out about marriage licenses, fees, gratuities, and special discounts or events when you contact a wedding coordinator. Get in touch to learn more about the possibilities as you start planning your unique celebration! You hope to have just one Las Vegas wedding, so make it as enjoyable and memorable as possible by working with your wedding planner to make the most of this inspiring occasion. You can visit this chapel online at Gothic Weddings .

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Wee Kirk O' the Heather Chapel in Las Vegas

2008-12-03T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Wee Kirk O' the Heather is a las Vegas chapel that opened in 1940 and if not the earliest las Vegas wedding chapel on the Strip, it is one of the first. With a capacity for 26 guests, this location will not accommodate a huge wedding party. But it makes up in cozy intimacy what it lacks in grandiose pretension. The warm glow of soft lighting will make you feel right at home with your minister, the witness, and your beloved.

Services for this wedding chapel in las Vegas come in three packages to meet all client budgets and needs. All packages cover the cost of a wedding coordinator, the chapel fee, and a CD of the traditional wedding march. You may wish to compare the attractive theme of this site with those of other las Vegas wedding chapels.

The Lavender package costs $189 and includes a rose ""keep forever"" presentation bouquet. Of 24 professional photographs, the couples receive 4-4x6 and 1-5x7 to keep, along with a wedding scroll and a free gift. You don't have many details to worry about with this package, and it may be considered one of the budget deals among las Vegas chapels.

You can opt for the Lilac plan at $289. This upgrade provides more photos, a larger keepsake floral arrangement (six roses instead of three), and 15 minutes in the dressing room, along with the aforementioned scroll and music.

For $389 you can get the Violet wedding package. This entitles the couple of a nine-rose floral keepsake, your choice of 48 photos from a wider selection, and a video recording of your ceremony. A candlelight service and first dance are added to this top-of-the-line plan.

Of course, you can always choose to bring your own flowers and music, although you will have to ask the coordinator how this will impact your fee or whether it does at all. The couple will need to plan the reception and honeymoon, although the wedding coordinator may be able to offer a few tips or help make connecting arrangements.

It's always a good idea to shop several services before booking your wedding. Plan well in advance of the event if possible to make sure you get the service you want on your preferred date and time slot. You may want to make a list of things to do and check beforehand so you don't forget anything for your special day. You can visit this chapel online at Wee Kirk O' the Heather .

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Little Church of the West in Las Vegas

2008-12-02T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Since 1942 The Little Church of the West has served thousands of couples with the same quality and professional care that continues to draw romantic souls today. This stunning las Vegas chapel sits on an attractive acre of land that offers a private and yet convenient location for hosting a wedding ceremony or renewing your vows.

Celebrities like Judy Garland and Cindy Crawford have selected this las Vegas wedding chapel as the backdrop for their expressions of love in previous wedding pledges. But you don't have to be either rich or famous to take advantage of the super deals and delightful amenities that this special wedding chapel in las Vegas offers all its clients.

Although there are innumerable las Vegas wedding chapels, few enjoy the prestige or glamour that The Little Church of the West does. With connecting service to the city's greatest hotels and hot spots, couples will enjoy the convenience and ease of planning a quiet, meaningful wedding as a prelude to a fun-filled honeymoon getaway. Las Vegas chapels feature a variety of services to eager clients, yet few claim their clients' affection as this little church does.

Beginning, custom, traditional, and luxury packages range in price from $199 to $525 (which does not include the minister's fee) and substitutions are not allowed. The basic service includes a simple floral arrangement for the bride, one 8x10 photo, music, and the marriage license. By contrast, the luxury package offers 18 poses of photos, an organist, flowers for the best man and bridal attendant, and a recording of the ceremony along with a history of the church that includes celebrity footage as well as past and present photos of Las Vegas that will serve as a beautiful keepsake of your momentous occasion.

The chapel enjoys a rustic look with a wooden structure and pews. A peaceful sense of solitude seems to fall over the setting with a promise of a serene start to the newlyweds' married life together. The contact number is not toll-free, so be sure to ask about subsidiary costs that may arise while planning your special day. Call at least a few weeks in advance to ensure the reservation of your preferred date. Always ask for a print confirmation to be sent, if possible, or jot down and keep your reservation confirmation number. Don't wait too long to book your date, as this famous chapel is the destination of many excited engaged couples. You can visit this chapel online at The Little Church of the West .

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Aladdin Wedding Chapel of Las Vegas: Marriage Mediterranean Style

2008-12-01T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Aladdin Wedding Chapel of Las Vegas will let you escape the mundane to wed in a beautiful setting styled in Mediterranean design. Graceful paintings of flowers and water scenes accent the stately columns and rounded archways that set apart one of the city's unique additions.

It was here in 1967 that Elvis wed longtime sweetheart Priscilla in a ceremony that lasted just minutes. Today there are two chapels to host wedding celebrations. The Archway of Love holds 60 guests. A front altar is surrounded on the walls with heavy wine-colored drapes. A central embroidered rug runs the length of the floor from front to back. White, ornate pews gilded with golden accents wait expectantly to offer guests a comfortable seat. Garden murals, ivy-twined pillars, and wooden spindle gates suggest a pastoral allure.

In contrast, the Sweetheart Chapel is furnished with the heavier style of Mediterranean design pews in dark wood. Soft pastels with plentiful pink outline a tenderly cozy room with colorful murals and enticing latticework. The smaller chapel can accommodate 12 guests to create an intimate environment. Desert colors accent the classic styling to provide Old World charm to the most contemporary romance.

The Love Me Tender package provides an Elvis impersonator to perform your marriage ceremony in a true throwback to the King's era. Or you can choose the Magic Carpet Ride package for a fantasy-based trip to the Orient for your nuptials. You can even enter a contest for a chance at a free wedding to be held at the Aladdin Chapel.

The adjoining hotel provides guest rooms and a casino for before-and-after entertainment and accommodations.

You may want to practice dressing with veils and scarves to give your wedding a true Eastern flavor, although this might be a better idea for the bridesmaids than the bride. Or bring a few lamps in hopes that your magical genie will appear to preside over the ceremony.

Aladdin staff eagerly looks forward to answering your questions and offering helpful information that can point you in the right direction for your wedding plans. Visit the Website or get in touch by using the contact information provided there to find out more about the dynamic possibilities of having your nuptials performed in an unusual, intriguing atmosphere of romance and adventure. You can visit this chapel online at Aladdin Wedding Chapel .

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Candlelight Wedding Chapel: A romantic place

2008-11-30T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Candlelight Wedding Chapel is a well-known las Vegas entity that has been featured in a country music video by Diamond Rio. Howie Mandel married here, and John Tesh renewed vows with his wife. This las Vegas wedding chapel has a lot to offer clients from around the world and enjoys a brisk business near the financial district. Close to business and entertainment, this longtime chapel has the experience and credentials to provide you and your beloved with a memorable and enjoyable visit. You don't have to wonder whether they can carry it off or the day will be ruined. Put your wedding into the staff's capable hands and then relax.

Set on a lovely, well-kept piece of land, the Candlelight Chapel attracts visitors and prospective couples who are considering marriage due to its well-known reputation and the natural features that make this chapel popular to locals and visitors alike.

When you purchase an affordable wedding package, you can bring along family, friends, and other guests to take part in your exchange of vows. Prices range from $199 to $499 and include a bevy of services. The lowest fee covers the chapel rental, marriage certificate holder, CD music, several photos, and carnation flowers. The $299 package upgrades flowers to roses and adds more photos. You also can get a video of the ceremony. For $399 you get a rose cascade arrangement, a professional organist, and a candle-lighting ceremony. The $499 price adds a unity candle, wedding garter, and a leather-bound wedding album.

Additional amenities include the option of ordering a cake or other pastries, a helicopter ride, and Elvis weddings. But the prices do not cover the minister's fee or the chauffeur's gratuity. The chapel takes pleasure in treating guests like royalty to ensure their wedding day is as special as they had hoped it would be. Several newlyweds contacted the Candlelight Chapel within a matter of days, months, or weeks to emphasize how happy they were with the service that was provided and with the overall outcome of their special celebration.

You can join the ranks of civilians and everyday people alike by leaning more about what this romantic little chapel has to offer and possibly choosing to hold your own service here. From the limo driver, to the minister, to the coordinator who helps you pull it all together, everyone makes it their business and their duty to ensure that your dreams come true when you choose the Candlelight for your wedding festivities.

Find out ahead of time what you can afford to pay so there will be no surprises afterward. You can visit this chapel online at Candlelight Wedding Chapel .

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My Vegas Wedding Chapel

2008-11-29T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Finding the right Las Vegas chapel for your wedding can be daunting. There is a themed Las Vegas wedding chapel for every mood and occasion, from Cadillac to Elvis and even Goth. But if you want a traditional ceremony, this may be the place to shop for a wedding chapel in Las Vegas where you can arrange a meaningful, memorable nuptial event.

Many Las Vegas wedding chapels deliver a minimum plan for a maximum price. But My Vegas Wedding Chapel is a no-nonsense chapel that delivers the information you need to make an informed planning decision. Some Las Vegas chapels put on weddings for show, but this service means business when the coordinators work to make your celebration one that will be remembered with fondness for the rest of your lives.

Your Teddy Bear and King with Love are two of the unusual wedding packages featured here. You can even get a limo wedding or a wedding with dinner, as opposed to a full reception. Traditional weddings also are featured with names like To Love and To Cherish and Endless Love. Prices begin at $199 and soar to more than $1,100.

Formal wear is available on the grounds for rental as well. Bridal gowns rent for between $100 and $300, while the groom's tux can run between $70 and $120 depending on the style selected. The wedding ceremony and reception can be hosted at the same chapel. Your coordinator can help you select from a line of services that will best suit your personal needs.

Three chapels are available for use. The English room seats 15, the Hawaiian room accommodates 25, and the European room can hold 50 guests.

No matter your taste, preference, or limitations, My Vegas Wedding Chapel can help you organize an unforgettable day for exchanging vows and becoming one with that special person in your life. Don't leave anything to chance. Contact a coordinator to discuss your wedding plans and find out if this chapel is right for your big day. You can visit this chapel online at My Vegas Wedding .

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An exciting Las Vegas Bachelorette Party

2008-11-28T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Chippendale's

Ladies who are planning their last outing as a single with friends to celebrate a las Vegas bachelorette party before tying the knot may want to visit this traditional bastion of female partying. The Chippendale Theater features a live performance of attractive men strutting their stuff. With 400 seats, a Flirt Lounge, and a shopping boutique, many women consider this to be the ultimate girls' night out.

The theater accepts most forms of payment. Open every day but Wednesday, the show begins 8:30 Sunday through Tuesday and Thursday, with later openings at 10:30 for Fridays and Saturdays. The perfect place for a bachelorette party in las Vegas, the show begins with a stirring countdown and then the male performers take roles from cowboys to street dancers in scenes as exotic from the streets of New York to the plains of Africa. No one under 18 allowed.

Thunder From Down Under

Thunder from Down Under features a bevy of male babes from Australia. The 75-minute show allows them to take it all off to a barely there remnant, leaving little to the imagination. Prices begin at $43.95 and there is an age limit that prohibits anyone less than 18 years of age from entering. Those aged 18 to 20 must be escorted by an adult.

The all-male dance revue proudly sports an assortment of Aussies whose goal is to satisfy every customer. Evoking memories of the likes of James Dean and paying tribute to men in uniforms of every kind, the revue tastefully performs to music like ""Proud Mary"" and hits from ""Grease,"" among others. A self-service bar is available in the theater to serve thirsty patrons. Ask about las Vegas bachelorette party packages. The shows begin at 8 and 10:30 from Friday through Wednesday, with no performance offered on Thursdays. The usual credit and cash payments are accepted.

Bod y English

Body English is housed inside the Hard Rock Hotel and is billed as elegance with an edge. Handicapped accessible, the cover fee is $30 for men, $20 for ladies, and local women can enter free of charge. Music styles typically feature hip-hop, rock, and house. Mirrored walls, crystal chandeliers, and leather seats evoke images of European decadence and posh celebrity style. Booths seat four with a bottle requirement of $300.

Coyote Ugly

Coyote Ugly in Las Vegas is a sister site to the New York establishment. Customers get the feel of a Southern bar. This is no upscale establishment with a strict dress code like many others located in the Las Vegas entertainment district. Patrons come here to drink. Located inside the New York-New York, cover fees are $10 for women and $20 for men.

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Rainbow Gardens For Your Vegas wedding

2008-11-27T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Rainbow Gardens of Las Vegas offers an array of services, tips, and guidelines to help you get started in planning your special day. Choose a lovely las Vegas chapel where you and your beloved will exchange vows in a setting that will never be forgotten. Rainbow Gardens promises a lifetime of memories to the lucky couple that stages their nuptials at this scenic location.

Since 1985 this attractive las Vegas wedding chapel has been uniting couples in a gorgeous setting that features tall palms, glowing lights, and sensual romance. Flowers, statues, and stylish furnishings provide an ornate backdrop for your special ceremony. Visit the Formal Room online for a view of the elegance you can experience when hosting a reception at this unique wedding chapel in las Vegas. Or check out the Garden Room for a fabulous outdoor set that has the only climate-controlled garden in this area of competitive las Vegas wedding chapels. .

Miles of twinkling lights cast a twilit effect over your romantic ceremony. About 350 chairs and tables can be set up to accommodate a sit-down or buffet-style meal for your guests. World-class chefs in a dazzling display of elegance and grandeur prepare gourmet meals. Beef tenderloin kebabs or southwestern crab cakes hold places of honor among the house specialties. But don't forget to save room for the chocolate dipped strawberries and assorted truffles that will precede your impressive wedding cake.

Speaking of cakes, visit the cake gallery and click on dozens of photos of varied designs to suit your wedding's theme and taste. Adorned with jewels, flowers, and lace, these decorous creations will stimulate your imagination as well as your appetite.

With so many las Vegas chapels to choose from, don't settle for the first one you visit. Browse Rainbow Gardens for a sense of the luxurious. Imagine your vows being spoken in a splendid array of blooms and light. Then plan a luscious feast that will impress every guest without breaking your wallet. Ice sculptures and entertainers provide added options for your banquet. Linen table covers, an assigned hostess, and a DJ with a dance floor can be added to your package if desired.

Visit Rainbow Gardens to view the impressive display of photos from every service that is offered. Then contact the coordinator by email or telephone to start planning your special and unique wedding or vow renewal ceremony that will create lifetime memories. You can visit this chapel online at Rainbow Gardens Las Vegas Chapel .

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Learn More About the Las Vegas Weddings Chapel

2008-11-26T03:03:00.000-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Las Vegas weddings is a well-known las Vegas chapel that has been featured on the Jay Leno show, the Travel channel, the Discovery channel, and A&E, among others. Featuring Eddie Powers as a popular Elvis impersonator, this las Vegas wedding chapel has a lot to offer clients from around the world and enjoys a brisk business.

Voted at one point the most popular wedding chapel in las Vegas, this service provides a host of options for planning a memorable wedding ceremony, reception, and honeymoon.

Red Rock Canyon, the Grand Canyon, and a helicopter strip wedding are just some of the choices presented to couples of all ages. If you're already married, you can come and renew your vows in a specially designed anniversary package. Valley of Fire is a popular site for many las Vegas wedding chapels like this one, while other couples choose a simple gazebo design or outdoor setting.

When you purchase an affordable wedding package, you can bring along family, friends, and other guests to take part in your exchange of vows. Or you can have the wedding performed live on the Internet where acquaintances around the world can view the beautiful service. Get a commemorative DVD or still photos that will preserve this unforgettable event for others to enjoy.

They offer a variety of subsidiary services to choose from, including bridal hair, formal wear, and legal policies. Many of these are offered at other las Vegas chapels, but some are not, so be sure to contact the chapel and see what their service has to offer.

Prices are advertised as low as $129 but you will want to check and see what that fee covers and what you will need to take care of in addition. Auxiliary services like the bride's hair, makeup, and bouquet, along with any reception plans will require additional funding unless otherwise specified. Some plans include specialty chocolates or champagne, but find out ahead of time what you will need to pay so there will be no surprises afterward. You can visit this chapel online at Las Vegas Weddings Chapel .

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Discover 12 Ways to Improve Your Dating Etiquette

2008-11-25T03:04:00.000-08:00

Author: Norbert Lukacsi

Before you begin the dating scene there are some rules to follow.

The truth is that we all tend to forget from time to time on how to behave and what to do and what not to do on a date.

Dating is about two people coming together and seeing whether they are compatible or not.If the two people enjoy each others company then they can move towards forming a close bond.

In doing so there are things that you should remember :

* Dating should always be fun and it is as much your responsibility to ensure it is.When you date you have to make sure it is enjoyable for both parties involved.

* Eye contact is crucial when dating so it is good to provide as much attention as possible to your date.

* You will always turn up for a date unless you have given enough time for it to be canceled.Standing someone up is darn rude so please do not do it. After all you agreed to the date in the first place. * Always be punctual as this shows respect for your date and illustrates how organized you are.

* You will not be opinionated or arrogant on a date and you will try to avoid discussions on politics and religion in the early stages.Arrogance makes people feel uncomfortable so please avoid this at all costs. * You will not argue with others on the date and certainly you will not argue about service charges with the waiter. Always show your good side. * You should be a good listener,listening shows interest and the ability to compromise. * You will do your best to dress well.In this day an age you should dress to impress not like someone who has just woken up from the bin.This goes for the guys more than anything. * You will make an effort to be fresh and smell good. I cannot believe I have to mention hygiene to men (and the odd woman !).Make an effort not to smell like a tuna fish sandwich. * Do not discuss your ex dates or relationships.The other person will not be interested.After all you are looking for a new relationship so please leave your dirty laundry behind. * As a man you pay the bill on your first date.

* You will call when you promise to call and not keep someone hanging on.Please let your date know if they are not the one for you.It is rude to lead your date on. Make sure when you date that you always date when you are single.If you are married or in a relationship DO NOT pretend to be available.

About the author: Norbert is the owner and the author of ""Dating Variety Newsletter"" available at http://www.iwantudating.com or http://www.datingvariety.com

Does a woman want a Strong Christian Man?

2008-11-24T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: David Lorenzo

Most women say they want a strong religious man who believes in God, attends church and goes to bible study every week. Is this true? The answer is No if the man is a religious freak who consumes every waking hour brooding over the bible; engages only with non-secular friends; excessively attends religious events; and constantly scrutinizes non-Christian behavior, especially their partner. Typically, these types of guys do not provide the type of excitement needed to keep a woman turned on.

There is only one thing that will keep a women perpetually turned on. It's not how well you can recite scriptures. It's not how many times you get on your knees and pray. It's called AP (Applied Pressure). Above all else, AP will be the most important element in sustaining your relationship. AP will cause a devout Catholic girl to skip Sunday Mass to be in your angelic presence. AP is doing anything that causes pressure in a relationship; pressure meaning having a back bone and saying No once in awhile; rejecting her when she makes advances towards you or wants to have sexual relations with you. Be creative – there are many ways you can use AP on a female.

The key is deliberately causing pressure without her recognizing what you are doing. Once the pressure builds up, a woman will lose all control and become obsessed with getting you to acquiesce to her. Most women won't endorse what I'm saying but inside they are dying for a guy with AP. Trust me, I have plenty of female friends who are bored stiff with guys who have no AP and are bidding there time until they can find a man with AP.

I've dated many church-going woman who babble on and on about wanting a strong Christian man but what baffles me is I'm far from it and they're dating me. When I would attend their churches, there were no shortage of guys but what dawned on me is that most of these guys were religious freaks that had no AP. Most religious freaks, especially young guys are trying to cover up something anyways but that's another article. The point is, if a woman is given a choice between a Strong Christian Guy with no AP and a non-church going guy with AP, they will choose the latter.

As a general rule, women want someone who believes in God, attends church every now and then, but not someone who practices the word of God in the fullest sense. If your going to practice anything in the fullest sense, it should be the principle of AP. Now, have faith in that….

About the author: David Lorenzo is a Relationship Coach. He is the only Relationship Coach that will give the real deal on how to create successful relationships. He has thourougly studied the mating game and has an uncanny ability to get lackluster relationships back on track. For Free Phone Coaching call David Lorenzo at(614)327-2467 or E-Mail him with your problems: Aim4hipotential@aol.com Hours: 24/7

Las Vegas Photographers

2008-11-23T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

If you're looking for a list of Las Vegas photographers for weddings, this is the place to be! We have provided you with a list of 5 of the most popular wedding photographers in Las Vegas to make your life easier. Why do the leg work when we've done it all for you? By clicking on the links you can read more about each individual photographer and the specific services they provide.

Cashman Professional 3595 S. Highland Dr. Suite #3 Las Vegas, NV 89103 Phone: 1.702.365.6660 Fax: 1.702.248.0175

Far from being solely a las Vegas wedding photographer, Cashman Professional makes a point of capturing Las Vegas history in its galleries of memories. If you want pro pictures, you won't go wrong with this group.

Co stello Photo Las Vegas, NV 702 459 3121 email: Info@costellophoto.com

This award winning company will email absent friends and relatives a selected photo from your wedding. Choose from selected moments or hours of studio shooting.

Highland Photography Phone: (702) 263-0489 Toll Free: (800) 856-6052 Fax: (702) 269-6758 Email: Hlandphoto@aol.com

Born in Scotland, Jill Jennings was bitten by the photography bug at her sister's wedding. The WPPI (Wedding Portrait and Photographers International) recently honored Jill's work in the area of wedding photojournalism. She continues taking workshops and seminars from top photographers to improve her skills, and is a popular photographer in Las Vegas.

Moonlighting Photography 702-460-8785

This full service las Vegas photography service is among the best of the las Vegas photographers. All packages include negatives, a CD or DVD, and prints in an album. Choose from dozens of poses, sizes, and arrangements to match your bridal theme and honeymoon celebration. The site displays plentiful examples of beautiful las Vegas wedding photography.

Paradise Design and Photography 9501 W. Sahara Ave. #2197 Las Vegas, NV 89117 phone/fax: 702.597.5208

This las Vegas photographer is really more of a family act, since this husband and wife team produce priceless photos for many kinds of occasions, not just weddings. Daughter Ruth sometimes assists to provide a nice array of perspectives for your special day. Graphic design and digital photo services are also available.

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Mens Moissanite Wedding Rings, or Is Moissanite a Mans Best Friend?

2008-11-22T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Peter Crump

As mens wedding rings become more and more popular mens moissanite wedding rings become popular at an even faster rate. Wedding rings for men are here to stay and so are mens moissanite wedding rings.

What is moissanite I hear you ask? Moissanite is the newest jewelry stone which is taking the jewelry industry by storm. And whilst moissanite is popular amongst the women, mens moissanite wedding rings are taking off.

Moissanite is a naturally occurring crystal, or jewel, which was only discovered in 1893. It was originally found in tiny quantities in a meteorite which had fallen in the Arizona desert. It was discovered by doctor Henry Moissan, after whom it was named.

It exhibits many of the qualities of diamonds and looks identical to diamonds to all but a few of the most experienced jewellers. So identical in fact that sohisticated equipment is needed to distinguish it from diamonds. Moissanite even outperforms diamonds in most of the natural qualities for which diamonds are so renowned. Most importantly, it is much cheaper.

Moissanite is second only to diamond in hardness, and is harder than any other jewel. It does not scratch, fade or change color. It has more brilliance than diamonds or any other popular gemstone.

It occurs naturally on earth but only in tiny quantities so it was not until the late 20th century that it became available in sufficient quantities for jewelry making. This followed extensive research on moissanite and the discovery of a reliable method of making it in a lab to very high quality.

Whilst a new jewel in its own right it was immediately compared to diamonds due to it's high quality and much lower price. Now moissanite engagement rings are a hit amongst women, and mens moissanite wedding rings are following fast.

As a man does not generally wear an engagement ring his wedding ring may be the only piece of jewelry that he wears so mens moissanite wedding rings are designed to catch the eye, unlike womens wedding rings which are designed to complement the engagement ring rather than detract from it.

Many mens moissanite wedding rings are often set in either gold or two tone white gold/yellow gold. As moissanite is much cheaper than diamonds he has a choice of more stones and bigger ones, so often buys a ring with 2, 3, 4 or more stones in it. Moissanite is not graded in carat (karat) weight exactly like diamonds but it's comparable diamond carat value is usually offered so that buyers can see exactly how much stone they are getting for their money compared to buying a diamond.

For example it is very possible to buy mens moissanite wedding rings with a number of moissanite stones of 3 to 5 mm diameter of somewhere around 1.5 carats (diamond equivalent weight) for around $500 - $800. Or a single moissanite stone of 7 to 8 mm diameter.

Compare that price to buying the same ring with equivalent diamonds and you will be very pleasantly surprised. And your ring will look just as good, or better, than the equivalent diamond ring. And usually the modern man understands that money spent at the start of the relationship is money that is not available later on when the important things, like kids and a house, arrive.

So men, if you really want a wedding ring that shows off exactly who you are with style and sparkle, but don't want to spend so much money on it that it makes you uncomfortable, then a mens moissanite wedding ring has to be considered.

But which one? That's up to you.

About the author: For a website totally devoted to Moissanite rings visit Peter's Website The Magic of Moissanite at http://www.magic-of-moissanite.com/moissanite-stones.html and find out about Moissanite Engagement Rings, Moissanite Wedding Rings and more, including Mens Moissanite Rings, Moissanite Earrings and Moissanite Bracelets at http://www.magic-of-moissanite.com/moissanite-engagement-rings.ht ml

Man Made Diamonds, The Affordable Alternative for Your Wedding Jewelry

2008-11-21T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Peter Crump

Diamonds may be a woman's best friend, but modern man made diamonds are so good as to be indistinguishable from real diamonds. And when you look at the huge savings on price, man made diamonds may be a woman's best decision.

Increasingly, engaged couples are considering the cost of some wedding jewelry. In today's high pressure high cost lifestyle couples are really wondering whether or not it is appropriate to spend big on, say, a diamond engagement ring.

The more spent on wedding jewelry the less available later for the important things in the marriage, like a house. Or the kids when they arrive. Is it responsible to spend so much to buy a diamond engagement ring when these more important things may need to be compromised later?

Especially when you consider that good quality man made diamonds cannot be distinguished from real diamonds, even by jewellers.

Faux diamonds are big business. The pearl jewelry industry was revolutionised by the advent of cultured pearls. Synthetic diamonds are doing the same thing to the wedding jewelry business.

There are a range of ways to produce synthetic diamonds. Modern technology is very adept at making any product which will sell well and faux diamonds are no exception. And the quality is so good that many of the alternatives to diamonds perform exceedingly well when compared to diamond using the common diamond quality tests.

In such tests as hardness, refractive index, fire, brilliance, luster and others the man made diamonds perform admirably. Sometimes even better.

Brilliance is a test of the amount of light which enters the stone and gets reflected back. It is affected by the quality of the cut of the stone.

Fire is the ability of the stone to break light down into it's component colors and is also affected by the cut. "Fire" can be seen as color coming out of the stone.

Luster is the amount of light reflected back from the surface of the stone.

Moissanite, for example, outperforms diamond in brilliance, fire and luster and is only very slightly lower on the hardness scale. In fact a special piece of testing equipment had to be designed so that jewellers could tell moissanite from diamond as so many were unable to.

And, of course, moissanite is much cheaper than diamonds. And if most jewellers cannot tell it apart from diamonds, could you?

There are a range of different processes used to produce a stone which is a good diamond alternative. Most produce fine quality stones which produce stunning quality jewelry which any woman would be proud to wear.

Moissanite is not strictly a man made diamond though, as it is, in fact, naturally occurring. Unfortunately it doesn't occur in sufficient quantities to be commercially viable for mining. But technology has come to the rescue by devising a method of producing high quality crystals.

Our preference for the best alternative to diamonds? Moissanite. A fine jewelry stone which will make a stunning engagement ring, or other jewelry piece. And you can buy moissanite wedding jewelry at a fraction of the price of diamond wedding jewelry.

And when the kids come along, buy them something extra from us from the money you've saved.

Highland Photography of Las Vegas - Award-winning service

2008-11-20T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Highland is not one of those Las Vegas photographers that gets paired with a theme chapel. This fine service offers all that is best about Las Vegas wedding photography, including award winning credentials, years of expert service, and an eagerness to meet clients' needs. No matter where your ceremony will be held, Highland can be there with you to capture the special event on camera for posterity and fond memories. Just get in touch ahead of time to work out a schedule that will bring you together for the best possible results.

You can start with an engagement photo if you live in or visit this area in the months preceding your marriage. Then hire Highland to prepare a wedding package for that once-in-a-lifetime occasion. Jill is a cut above the average las Vegas photographer because of the zeal with which she sets up and carries out her photo shoots. This Las Vegas wedding photographer has won awards in her field and is recognized as one of the best in Las Vegas photography. Many customers seek her out based on others' referrals.

Choose from still or detail shots, close-ups, couples, singles, bride, groom, or guests. Day or night, dim or light, space and lighting are no problem for this experienced cameraperson. Visual impact and technical expertise are two specialties. You can get photos in color or black and white in a variety of sizes and arrangements. The order will be prepared to specifications and ready within a short period of time following your major event. Then just sit back and enjoy reliving those delightful, romantic moments.

Combining illustrative strategies with traditional poses, Jill will make sure that your day will not soon be forgotten.

Visit her website at Highland Photography Phone: (702) 263-0489 Toll Free: (800) 856-6052 Fax: (702) 269-6758 Email: Hlandphoto@aol.com

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The Cost of Being a Bridesmaid

2008-11-19T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Nancy Tessier

The Cost of Being a Bridesmaid

How much can you expect to pay if you were to accept the role of a bridesmaid in a friend or family members wedding? Before saying yes and accepting this position, there are a few things to consider. Besides the time and effort it will take for the next eight to twelve months (depending on how far in advance you are asked to stand in the wedding), there is also the financial obligation involved.

The following is a short list of items you should take into consideration before making that all important decision to include or exclude yourself from the festivities.

The Dress: The bride will most likely expect a specific style of dress and will be instrumental in choosing what you will be wearing. If it's a lavish wedding and the bride has already picked out her gown, that would dictate the level of formality and therefore could end up costing you upwards of two to three hundred dollars (or more) for the dress alone.

The Shoes: Those satin shoes don't come cheap! The bride in all likelihood would expect you to wear satin dye able shoes to match the dress. Shop around for the best deals on the shoes and find a retailer who will provide the dying service for free or at a reduced rate if the entire bridal party makes their purchases through them.

Accessories: Hats, special brassieres or bustier, pantyhose, hair accessories and jewellery. Normally the jewellery is bought by the bride as a thank you gift, if not, be prepared to pay for the items the bride picks out for you to wear.

Hairstyling and accessories: You may be required to pay for your own hairstyling for the wedding day. Unless you already know the styles that look best on you, the procedure would be the same as that of the bride. First find a style. Second find a stylist you trust. Third, do a dry run by having the stylist try the style on you.

The Bridal Shower: Bridesmaids and the maid of honour are required to host a bridal shower and divide the cost among themselves. Depending on what you have planned, this could be very costly.

Childcare: If you have children, you may need to get a sitter for the day. Do not assume they are invited guests simply because you are in the wedding party. If they are invited, you may need to make special arrangements to have childcare available during the wedding ceremony and reception since your job really isn't over until after the dinner and speeches have wrapped up.

Gifts: Even though you have already spent a great deal of money to get ready for your friends wedding, you still have to purchase a gift for the bride and groom. A sentimental gift is best but most often bridesmaids choose to give money in an envelope with a nice card. How much to place in the envelope is entirely up to you as well as the standards and trend in your area.

Thank you note: Finally after the wedding you should sit down and write a nice note to the newlyweds, thanking them for allowing you to be part of their important day.

After taking all this into consideration, you will be able to make a more informed decision and should be able to either accept or decline this invitation.

About the author: About the author: Nancy Tessier is owner of Bridal Basics and is an industry professional specializing in the design and creation of wedding related items. For other articles, please visit her site at http://www.bridalbasics.ca

Cashman Professional Photographer of Las Vegas - For Quality and Creativity

2008-11-18T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Cashman Professional is one of the best-known las Vegas photographers, and that says a lot about an industry like las Vegas wedding photography. They have captured some of the area's biggest stories in photojournalism and are currently involved in developing a project centered on the evolution of the biblical Torah, which is the first five books of the Old Testament.

You won't have to worry about professionalism or quality when you hire this fine las Vegas photographer. They also handle commercial shoots that involve big-name companies and products, but they are widely recognized as a top las Vegas wedding photographer.

Cashman delivers the same expertise and ease when handling your precious wedding memories by capturing them in pictures. You can request close-ups, headshots, color or black and white, spontaneous or staged arrangements, and a host of other options when working with this professional team. Individual and group shots, indoor and outdoor, and many other choices are yours. You can plan ahead or make it up as you go along, although this photographer in las Vegas can offer a range of ideas that you may not have considered.

Not sure if your candlelight ceremony will show up in photos? Just ask! They can explain how to take certain shots and make them come out just right. If you're wondering about various photo sizes, the team will let you know what each package option contains and how you can adjust it to fit your wedding preferences. What about including pets? These pros have all the answers to make your special occasion as perfect as possible.

You may also be interested in having your photos posted on the Internet for family and friend viewing and possible ordering. Be sure to take home prints of your nuptials, and ask about using the negatives for future orders. A DVD or CD might be another preference for some couples, or you may have some interest in videotaping the ceremony or reception.

Whatever your taste in wedding photography, Cashman can help you design a picture-perfect collection of images that will impress the ones who couldn't make it to the wedding and bring nostalgic tears to your eyes in the future. Don't settle for second-rate photography when you can get the best at affordable rates, resting in the knowledge that your photos will look great and last forever.

Visit them at Cashman Professional Photographer of Las Vegas . Cashman Professional 3595 S. HIGHLAND DR. SUITE #3 LAS VEGAS, NV 89103 PHONE: 1.702.365.6660 FAX: 1.702.248.0175

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Costello Photo of Las Vegas - Dynamic Wedding Photos

2008-11-17T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Costello Photo of Las Vegas These award-winning photojournalists offer an average of more than 20 years in the business. You won't just get a handful of prints at the end of the day; you will receive a well-crafted story told in beautiful images that will provide enjoyment for years and generations to come.

Budget-conscious newlyweds can purchase the $550 package that provides more than three hours of photo shooting and 300 pictures burnt to a CD for your exclusive use. Receive your beautiful memories in a few days to share with family and friends who were unable to attend the ceremony. All the packages come with standard sizes and numbers of prints.

The next package is priced at $850 and entails six hours of picture taking with 400 resulting photos. Your selection will be emailed to your loved ones who could not come to the wedding. Tender moments of the bride's preparation and your first kiss as husband and wife will be captured for all to see in magnificent color.

A third, pricier option is the $1,600 package that includes eight hours of photographic shooting, complete with a studio lighting kit, and 500 images, along with a wedding album. The photographers will also collate a CD ROM of your wedding pictures. You should have more than enough images to help you preserve the highlights of your wedding.

You can also order extra CD's and digital enhancement for an additional cost. The prints can be used to decorate tee shirts and coffee mugs or other items, so be sure to ask about this service as well. Save money by having the pictures mounted to a password-protected site where they can be viewed and ordered. You won't have to carry around proofs or order pictures you don't want when you use this convenient method of sharing your special memories.

Costello accepts many payment options, including credit cards and e-certificates. Be sure to book as far in advance of your date as possible to allow for optimum planning of your wedding day. Visit the Website and contact the staff directly from that location. Ask any questions up front so all will go smoothly when you arrive in Las Vegas. Everyone on the team has been professionally trained, and all are eager to provide meaningful mementos of your very special occasion.

Check out the Website for additional details, and then get in touch to schedule a quality shoot for your wedding.

Visit them at Costello Photo Costellophoto Las Vegas, NV 702 459 3121 email: Info@costellophoto.com

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Paradise Design and Photography of Las Vegas

2008-11-16T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Paradise Design and Photography is a family-owned business. Born in Maui, Hawaii, Joshua developed a love for photography while working in photo labs in his native country. As his expertise grew, he moved to Las Vegas and soon became one of the sought-after Las Vegas photographers. Assisted by wife Jennifer and daughter Ruth, the family have expanded their Las Vegas wedding photography business to include graphic design, publication preparation, digital photographic retouching, and catalog designs.

A member of the Professional Photographers of America, this Las Vegas photographer can process head shots, family portraits, and wedding portfolios. While it is not difficult to find a Las Vegas wedding photographer, Paradise strives to be among the area's best.

Prices begin with the tuberose package at the rate of $800 for up to a three-hour shoot and $400 in album credit. With digital files the price slides up to $1,000. From four to nine hours, the price increases from $1,200 to $2,300. After that, there is a $400 hourly rate. Customers also can buy a standard or a storybook album that holds from 30 to 60 pages. Prices start at $1,300 and can go to $3,900 or higher, depending on the number and size of shots that are selected for inclusion.

This Las Vegas wedding photographer also posts a supplemental wedding price list on the Website featuring typical individual picture prices or small packets of the usual Las Vegas photography for weddings and other occasions. Here you can browse additional options for wedding pictures much like those offered by one or another photographer in Las Vegas. Prices include an 8x10 for $20 or two wallets for $10.

Additional services include wedding invitations and digital files that include usage fees of $25 to $50. Custom thank-you cards are available at varied rates, with 100 for $1.55 each. Duplicate proof sets are $75. A 50% deposit is required at the time an order is placed, with the balance due when the photos are delivered. The studio retains the right to use or display any images from your order for promotional purposes.

Engagement photo sessions in the region are available, with travel fees of $25 to $100 added for destinations to the Valley of Fire or Lake Las Vegas, and a few others. Currently the site advertises 30% off all wedding photography through June 30, 2005.

Visit the site for details and comparison shop with other photography sites to find the most suitable package to fit your wedding plans.

Visit them at Paradise Design and Photography Paradise Design and Photography 9501 W. Sahara Ave. #2197 Las Vegas, NV 89117

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Dating After Fifty

2008-11-15T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Ken Katz

Dating at an older age is not too hard. And it can be a lot of fun especially with internet dating. And, today to find a date on the web is an accepted and safe form of dating.

You might be divorced and want to get back into the dating groove again. Or, you have tried the normal dating channels. You have been introduced to dates by well meaning friends or you have spent countless hours at the local Barnes & Nobles only to read lot's of books rather than meet anyone you would want to spend a lot of time with. You are frustrated and want an easier way.

If you pick the right internet dating site you will be pleasantly surprised by how easy it is to meet fun people who share similar interests with you. And, there are so many great internet dating sites for older people to choose from.

Just go to your favorite search engine and type in the type of dating you are looking for. Try some of these keywords, ''mature dating'' or ''mature dates'', ''dating over fifty'' or '' dating over 50'', senior dating or maybe ''adult dating''. Also, look at the ''dating directories''. These directories have many different sites listed in various categories all with brief introductions.

Some of the larger dating sites like, eHarmony.com, Friendfinder.com or Match.com are good sites to start your dating search. All these sites welcome you to fill out your free dating profile.

eHarmony is known for its very thorough matchmaking questionnaire they ask you to fill out online. Many successful relationships started at eHarmony. And there are many older people registered in there database.

Match.com also has a very large database of both men and women looking for there ideal mate. You are sure to find a date or two here. Match.com is probably one of the largest dating sites on the internet.

Friendfinder.com is also a very large dating network. As with most of the dating sites, it is free to add your profile.

Before signing up with any of these dating sites, go to a free internet webmail site. Some of the more common ones are Hotmil.com, Yahoo.com, Gmail.com and Mail.com. There are many more to choose. Sign up for a free email account. This is the email account you will initially use to receive email from prospective dates. This is to protect your privacy until you are comfortable with your potential dates.

With so many dating site choices on the internet today, you should be able to meet many people that share similar interests. You have to make the first step and seek them out.

If you follow these simple steps you will have fun with internet dating. With so many date sites people of all ages can find a partner or two. And, even if you don't find the person of your dreams right away, you will meet great friends that can definitely lead to lasting relationships.

About the author: Ken Katz runs Web4love.com . His goal in life is to help everyone meet the partner of their dreams.

Ken found the love of his life four years ago and they used internet chat and email for three months in a bi-coastal relationship before moving in together. Today, they are both very happy and hope other people will also find the person of their dreams.

Moonlighting Photography of Las Vegas - Everything you need!

2008-11-14T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Nicole Pursell takes pride in her role as one of the Las Vegas photographers that maintains a growing list of satisfied customers.

Testimonials from happy customers comment on the professionalism exhibited by Las Vegas photographer Nicole and her partner, Summer, and the speed with which the prints were processed. This Las Vegas wedding photographer knows how to do things right and offers a complete line of photography services, including intimate shots and last-minute adjustments. She can help you make decisions about lighting, setting, and arrangements to get the best outcomes for your wedding photography.

Las Vegas photography is a commercial enterprise in this area with many services to choose from, but Moonlighting knows how to personalize and customize your ceremony to make it last forever via the delightful images and prints that are captured on film. Any photographer in Las Vegas can take pictures, but only an artist can create beauty, and that is what Moonlighting does. Imagination is a specialty.

As might be imagined, prices vary widely. You can purchase individual 4x6 reprints for $3 each. Thank-you cards are $1 with a minimum order of 25. A 10-page scrapbook that holds 20 4x6's is $200. A 10""x10"" leather-bound coffee table album is $550, with a montage of images on 10 pages. A 12""x16"" clothbound costs $400, while medium albums holding between 10 and 20 pages and costing $400 to $600 holds 20 to 40 5x7's. The large album, with 10 8x10's and 40 5x7's, is $800. A custom made scrapbook is available for about $300.

Additional services include duplicate or ""second"" photo albums for the parents (or in-laws), with $50 off the second album. You also can purchase gift certificates for engaged couples. Payment options include visa and other credit cards.

When contacting a photographer in advance of the pre-wedding or wedding shoot, have some ideas ready to discuss. Also give some thought to the photographer's ideas since she has been in the business for some time and has a knack for what will work best in certain settings.

Whatever your wedding plans in this exciting region, don't forget to line up an experienced photographer who will capture the highlights of your experience and provide unforgettable memories for future generations.

You can visit Moonlighting Photography at Moonlighting Photography of Las Vegas Moonlighting Photography

Las Vegas, NV 702-460-8785

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Second Marriage Wedding Dress and Etiquette

2008-11-13T03:04:00.001-08:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

Just as with your first marriage, your second marriage is a new beginning with your fiance. So it makes sense that many of the traditional rituals and rules of etiquette apply. But which ones?

There is no reason why you should not register for gifts, have a shower, or wear a white, full-length gown at the altar. Whether or not you will choose any of these options is now considered strictly a matter of personal preference dictated by your style.

Charting a new course

When it comes to the ceremony, one of the questions that experienced brides-to-be frequently ask themselves is ""Do I really want to do everything the same or do something completely different?"" If you were married in a civil ceremony the first time, maybe it's time to consider a church ceremony, complete with flower girls, a ring bearer, and attendants.

Because you are certainly all-grown-up now, this is your chance to plan your wedding exactly the way you want it to be, without any unnecessary consideration for the wishes of parents. However, you will want to discuss your feeling and carry out the planning with the groom.

On the other hand, if the formality and style of your first wedding did suite your taste, you should feel free to repeat those elements. Nevertheless, since this is a time to look toward the future, rather than returning to the past, don't get bogged down with history. Using the same reception site or adding the same personal touches would be in poor taste, so should be avoided.

Large ceremony or small The size of your wedding party, as well as the number of guests you will invite, is entirely up to you. With regard to the ceremony itself, the rules of etiquette would be the same as if you were marrying for the first time.

If you are planning to invite more than 50 guests, arrange to have attendants (groomsmen or ushers) on hand. If at all possible, you will want to have one attendant for every 50 guests.

And Jenny makes three Children of the bride and/or groom are often a part of second marriages. If either of you has children, invite them to participate in the ceremony.

Teens make nice junior ushers and junior bridesmaids. Very young daughters can, of course, be flower girls, and little boys, ring bearers or pages. Conversely, if the ceremony is to be small or the ages of the children would make them unsuitable for these roles, you might simply ask them to accompany you down the isle, or meet you at the altar.

Children do not always welcome the opportunity to participate in wedding ceremonies. If you children seem unwilling to play a role in the ceremony, you should respect their feelings. Incidentally, if you share custody with your ex-husband, let him know about plans to include your children in the ceremony.

Inviting your ex-husband and former in-laws

If you and your former in-laws are still on good terms, you may want to invite them. However, you are under no obligation to do so. Consider this as nothing more than a formality since they would not be expected to accept.

Rarely would an ex-spouse be invited to the ceremony, even if the two of you have remained friends. Think about it. Inviting your ex-spouse to the ceremony leaves him with only two choices, neither of which would be welcomed: accepting and feeling bad or declining and looking bad.

A more sensible and considerate approach would be to invite him to a private dinner, perhaps at your home, after the ceremony and honeymoon.

About the author: Jean Bachcroft is a former public relations director, founder of Bachcroft and Aloha Labels, and the publisher and editor-in-chief of Town and Country Shopping Bargains Magazine. For designer wedding, holiday, and year-round mailing and return address labels, you can visit her web sites at http://bachcroft.com and at http://alohalabels.com

Writing Wedding Vows -Ideas That Will Help You Express What You Truly Feel

2008-11-12T03:04:00.001-08:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

More and more, couples are choosing to write their own wedding vows. This seems to be especially true for second marriages. Although many people believe that this is the best way to truly express their personal beliefs and feelings, often they are unsure about how to begin and what to include. If you would like to write your own wedding vows, here are some tips for writing vows that pledge the love you truly feel.

Inform your clergyman early If the ceremony will be religious, let the clergyman know about your plans as soon as possible. If there are guide principles you will need to be aware of as you write your vows, the sooner you know what they are the better. This is also a good way to avoid possible conflicts between the beliefs of your house of worship and your own personal beliefs. If there is some disagreement between the two, you may need to adjust your plans or wording, or perhaps look for another clergyman.

Ask Yourselves Fundamental Questions Once you've taken that first step, begin by asking yourselves questions. These may include: ""What does marriage mean to us? Why are we marrying? What promises are most meaningful, and which ones are essential that we keep?

You may want to ask what words like love, honor, respect, faithfulness, forgiveness, honesty, fidelity, friendship, and trust mean to each of you. This exercise will help you to clarify your thoughts as well as express your true feelings toward each other, your expectations for the future, and your personal visions of your lives together in the future.

Focus on what's unique

An essential element of personalizing your wedding vows is expressing what is unique about the other person. Think about how you see each other and write down as many of the reasons for loving each other as you can verbalize. If your backgrounds are different, acknowledge this and promise to respect and honor your differences as well as your commitment to building bridges that will strengthen common grounds. If this is not a first marriage for one or both of you, you may want to talk about your faith in love and the bond that marriage creates between two people.

Don't get too personal

Keep in mind that exchanging wedding vows is as serious as it is meaningful. Your goal should not be to make your vows sound cute or amusing. Also, avoid suggestive language or phrasing.

And don't confuse personal feelings with private affairs. Topics having to do with money, conception and child-rearing, politics, or in-laws should not be included in wedding vows to be overheard by your guests.

Incorporating traditional pledges

Although much of what you will write will be unique to your relationship and therefore highly personalized, you may want to include meaning parts from traditional vows that are a part of your culture.

While most of the wording is their own, many couples continue to incorporate the familiar love, comfort, honor (though usually leaving out the ""obey"" part) wording into their vows.

Rehearse before your wedding day

Since this is a special occasion, you should give it all of the time and attention it deserves. Practice reading aloud what the two of you have written. This is the true test that what appears on paper is what you really intended to say, in the way you intended to say it. Rehearsing will also allow you to determine how long exchanging your vows will take and whether adjustments are needed. If the wording sounds awkward or if it is difficult to read, change it.

Don't rely solely on your memory

A case of nerves can strike unexpectedly, and at the most inopportune time, so make sure your precious words are written down. Once you are satisfied that your wedding vows express exactly what you wanted to say to each other, it is time to finalize your draft. The final copy, preferably two or three, should be printed using a fairly large font size, which will make it easier to read.

It is a good idea to give a copy to the clergyman, at least several days before the ceremony is to take place. If a severe case of nerves does strike, it may be he who will need to read your vows.

Personalize the whole ceremony

Aim to keep the time it takes to exchange your vows between one and three minutes. To extent the feeling of a ceremony that is a celebration of your unique love, have a family member or good friend offer a carefully selected prayer or reading as part of the ceremony. You can also choose music that is both appropriate for the occasion and especially meaningful to the two of you.

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Where to Purchase the Perfect Wedding cake in Las Vegas

2008-11-11T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

You can expect to find the perfect wedding cake in Las Vegas. Las Vegas is the wedding capital of the world, so you can expect to find many quality caterers and bakers in this exciting location who can help you plan a beautiful wedding party. When you visit some bakeries in search of the best wedding cake in Las Vegas, you may be offered a sample of delicious Las Vegas wedding cake to help you decide if this is what you're looking for. With professionally trained staff members that include full-time bakers and on-site designers, these Las Vegas wedding cake bakeries will not disappoint you.

Top-notch bakers offer cakes and fillings that can be made to suit your taste. Special orders often must be paid in advance. Hundreds of gorgeous creations can be baked to your specifications featuring colors, designs, and sizes that will precisely meet your wedding needs and impress your guests. You will be proud and gratified to feature one of these grand designs at your nuptial feast. Contact the staff early to allow plenty of time for all the details of your marvelous creation.

Your wedding cake will become the center of attention (after the bride, of course) when you order from an expert. Choose from a line of options that include tiers, sculptures, and layered patterns to make your celebration beautiful and unforgettable. Here are some of the best-known wedding cake bakers in town.

Freeds Bakery of Las Vegas 4780 South Eastern Avenue Las Vegas, Nevada 89119 Telephone (702) 456-7762 Toll free (866) 933-5253 Monday thru Saturday 9am - 6:30 pm PST Sundays 9am-3pm PST Freeds Bakery offers a complete line of wedding cake themes, designs, and tastes. Choose from traditional, fantasy, floral, and cLassic styles that will adorn any wedding party with grace and elegance. When you visit the bakery in search of the best wedding cake in las Vegas, you will be offered a sample of delicious cake to help you decide if this is what you're looking for. With 25 staff members that include two full-time bakers and seven designers, Freeds can handle any las Vegas wedding cake order in a matter of hours. These fantastic creations will grace any wedding table.

Candleli ght Wedding Chapel Wedding Cakes 2856 Las Vegas Blvd., South Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 (800) 962-1818

Candlelight Wedding Chapel offers a talented assortment of cakes for your wedding. All are white or butter cream with cream filling. They are baked fresh and sold in boxes on the premises to facilitate transporting them. Cakes and fillings can be specialized to your taste. Special orders must be paid in advance. The bakers require 72 hours of notice for any cake order. Pillars cost $15 per set. Prices range from a 6-inch round that feeds from 2 to 10 people for $40 to a 3-tier wedding cake that serves up to 65 guests for $155.

Las Vegas Weddings 1-800-823-3435 Las Vegas Weddings is one of the most elaborate las Vegas wedding cake bakeries in the area. Dozens of gorgeous creations can be baked to your specifications featuring colors, designs, and sizes that will precisely meet your wedding needs. Alluring Art, Beloved Beauty, and Bridal Bouquet are some of the names of these elegant creations. Many are filled or topped with fresh or preserved fruit or garnished with flowers. Stunningly beautiful, you will be proud and gratified to feature one of these grand designs at your nuptial feast.

Victoria's Patisserie 1-800-344-5683 Victoria's Patisserie features a wide array of lovely cake designs and styles that are made on location, never shipped or frozen. Tiers, layers, flowers, and jewels are just some of the possibilities that you can choose from as bakers work with you to create a memorable masterpiece. Contact the staff early to allow time for all the details of your marvelous creation.

Your wedding cake will become the center of attention (after the bride, of course) when you order from one of these expert specialists.

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The Second Time - Another White Wedding?

2008-11-10T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Elena

That first wedding was a dream, a gorgeous long white wedding dress, a beautiful church, luscious bridesmaids and the groom in tails. Plus all the trimmings and a heavenly reception and a great honeymoon.

Upsetting as it is, at least 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. But we don't give up do we? Some 80 percent of us marry again. Hopefully, we're a little wiser, a little more experienced and a little more sensible the second time. And a little more relaxed.

The formal, traditional white wedding is not only expensive, it can be incredibly stressful despite the power of our dreams and fantasies and the years we spent imagining just how it would be. For most, the second time isn't seen as particularly suitable for a traditional white wedding.

While many of us settle for a simple exchange of vows and a much less formal party for friends and relatives, you may want to consider a couple delightful alternatives.

Remember, a second wedding is still a wedding. You and your other are making a real and significant commitment to a life together. It deserves to be marked off from the more mundane events of everyday life.

Events that are significant markers in our lives are normally weighted with significance by traditions, unusual activities, special psychological and social meanings. This makes them stand out and marks transitions from one phase of our life to a new phase. Anthropologists call them rites of passage and weddings are a prime example.

One lovely new development has been the growth of both theme weddings and destination weddings. They can be especially well suited to the second wedding. Theme weddings can be nearly anything you can conceive of - from medieval with antique styled Gothic wedding dresses to the extremely casual styles associated with a beach wedding. You can truly let your imagination run riot. For you and your guests it can offer an absolutely unique experience that will be remembered forever.

Alternatively, destination weddings can be of any type. While the basic idea is that it takes place in some beautiful, exotic or historical setting, far from your day-to-day life, you can arrange for anything from a full-blown white wedding to a small cozy informal exchange of vows outdoors in a natural setting so lovely that no added frills are necessary.

Normally, a destination wedding combines the elements of the wedding and the honeymoon. You are already out of your daily existence. You've chosen a place you've always wanted to go. And you've shared it with those close to you. For your guests this is also an opportunity to enjoy a break from their day-to-day and combine the pleasure of being with you when you marry and a great vacation.

While I'm a great fan of the destination wedding, it can become complicated and you need to carefully check out all the details, from the local wedding laws to just who will marry you, where and how. Even within the US, laws vary significantly from state to state. For foreign destinations please don't jump into without doing your research.

You can find wedding planners, travel agents, resorts and hotels that can greatly ease the problems of organizing from a distance. Many resorts and hotels offer packages that include these services or can recommend local resources. Do not neglect checking references.

Obviously, economics play a significant role. You'll need to consider just what you can really afford and just what your guests can afford. Of course, it's always possible to make a destination wedding just the two of you. Sometimes an elopement is the best solution - and then the whole thing from beginning to end can be a dreamy honeymoon.

Whatever your dream, you don't need to feel limited any longer by outmoded traditions and ancient etiquette. There's a new freedom we are all reaching for and it includes the option of structuring the important events in our lives to be more personally relevant and meaningful. From the wedding itself to the type and style of wedding dress, alternatives have grown incredibly in this new age. Why not make your marriage an expression of your uniqueness?

About the author: Elena manages http://www.All-Wedding-Dresses.com with articles and resources about weddings and, particularly, all kinds of wedding dresses from traditional white wedding to maternity and theme wedding styles.

Bridal Shower Etiquette

2008-11-09T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Melanie Doetsch

While showers have evolved and become more relaxed in recent years, there are still certain rules of bridal shower etiquette that should be observed in order to avoid offending anyone. Since there will be a variety of groups there - friends, family and coworkers in most cases - it's important to understand how everyone should interact. Especially in the case of family, mothers and grandmothers can place a great deal of importance on proper bridal shower etiquette, so make sure you know what the ""rules"" are!

The Maid of Honor is usually the person expected to plan and organize the bridal shower. If she lives out of town, however, it's fine for someone else to do the honors. Don't take over without checking with her, though. It is her privilege, and you should always ask her before assuming anything. If you are going to do it for her, make sure you keep her as involved as she would like to be through frequent emails and phone calls.

Bridal shower etiquette traditionally says that a shower should be at least four to six weeks before the wedding. This is for purely practical reasons - the bride is going to be too busy any closer to the ceremony - but if she's coming home only two weeks before the wedding, talk to her and see how she feels about having a shower in her honor so close to the wedding. She may think this is fine if most of her friends will be able to be in attendance at that time.

There has been an uncomfortable trend in recent years for large showers with nearly everyone the bride knows invited. This is not what the bridal shower is supposed to be. A bridal shower is supposed to be a small, intimate gathering of the bride's closest friends and family. Proper bridal shower etiquette dictates a group of no more than ten to twenty guests.

The guest list should include the wedding party, the mothers of the bride and groom, sisters of the bride and groom, and the bride's closest friends and/or coworkers. It shouldn't include every female invited to the wedding.

Finally,

bridal shower etiquette means being sure to include the wedding party and the mothers in the shower itself in some way. Ask each person to take on some responsibility, whether it is recording a list of the gifts and givers as they are opened or organizing the group for games. This will make everyone feel they've been part of this special day.

About the author: Melanie Doetsch is an author at eBridalShowers.com where you will find further bridal shower ideas . Be sure to check out our new wedding planning guide and much more at http://www.ebridalshowers.com.

Las Vegas Florists for you Wedding

2008-11-08T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Flowers have long been a traditional way of expressing love and commitment at a wedding. Even in Shakespeare's time it was common to strew a bridal bed with fresh petals to wish the couple a fruitful marriage. You will want to choose the most meaningful silk or real arrangements for your own nuptials, something that reflects your personality and style. You can adorn the pews with blooms, decorate the altar with plants or blossoms, and spruce up the reception tables with gorgeous centerpieces made of greenery, ferns, or other floral arrangements. Many Las Vegas florists offer the most contemporary designs and freshest arrangements that money can buy.

Bridal bouquets can be created from sprays of roses, carnations, or many other kinds of attractive flowers. Your Las Vegas florist will work with you to coordinate this important part of your ceremony with your chosen theme as well as the season and color scheme that has been selected. You can choose from existing patterns or create a totally new Las Vegas floral arrangement to suit your mood. Or leave the design to one of the renowned Las Vegas floral shops. Many owners and staff members have taken cLasses or won awards for their artistry. Check out the wonderful arrangements that combine fresh or silk flowers, lace, jewels, or ribbons as well as many other decorative touches.

In addition to the traditional use of bridal flowers, consider alternative bouquets or corsages for members of the bridal party's family. Choices might include in-laws, step-family members, close friends, and others who will be joining you to celebrate this special day. Prices range from a few dollars to several hundred per arrangement. It's up to you how much to spend when making your bridal budget.

Las Vegas Bouquet 1815 W. Charleston Blvd., Suite 6 Las Vegas, Nevada 89102 Toll free 1-800-868-1983

A full-service florist, this company offers a special line of bridal bouquets as well as other arrangements for your nuptials. Online orders are encrypted for safe processing. Las Vegas Bouquet delivers 7 days a week. Their attractive designs are very eye-catching - and among their many selections is a wedding collection for ready access. Bridal bouquets are a specialty, so stop by the Website or the store when shopping for floral arrangements for your wedding.

Artistic Floral 4590 N. Rancho Drive, Ste 2 Las Vegas, NV 89130 Toll free 1-866-278-3625

Open Monday through Friday 10-6 and Saturday 10-4; closed Sunday. Shop their online catalog that is available 24/7 for a large variety of arrangements for every occasion. An FTD florist, this company stands behind its products with a full refund or replacement for unsatisfactory floral arrangements that are reported within ten days after delivery. You can find traditional roses or more exotic blooms as well as regional plants when you visit this most creative of las Vegas floral shops. In addition to weddings, the company advertises floral arrangements for many other celebrations or occasions as well.

Vegas Wedding Flowers 1205 Las Vegas Blvd., South Suite 102 Las Vegas, Nevada 89104 Toll free 1-800-574-4450

Local 702-384-0117

This florist specializes in chapel and pew décor as well as exotic arrangements that stand apart from the usual designs. Stargazer lilies and gardenias are among the possibilities. Delivery is available to all Las Vegas strip hotels and chapels.

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Bachelor Party in Las Vegas Planning

2008-11-07T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

There's no doubt about it—engaged guys love a bachelor party in Las Vegas. The fabulous weather, exciting entertainment, and studded opulence will satisfy any man's thirst for adventure. Create your own Las Vegas bachelor party package or work with a consultant for some ideas about the type of fun you want to have. Go clubbing, drink and eat, visit the casinos, or arrange your own event to celebrate your countdown bachelor days.

Stretch limos and courtly attendants vie to meet your transportation needs to ensure that your party is laced with style. From noisy casinos to private hotel rooms, there's a party to fulfill anyone's fantasy of their final single days. Gaming, dancing, drinking music, food, and site seeing are available for any size group and any type of theme.

From nightlife in the clubs to wildlife out in nature, you will be able to enjoy your preferred type of Las Vegas bachelor party, which is unlike anything you will find elsewhere. Get in touch with an experienced consultant to find out more about planning your Las Vegas bachelor party package. Rub elbows with celebrities or plan a private party of your own. Then take home a lifetime of memories as a souvenir of your carefree adventure. Most forms of payment are accepted. Call in advance to schedule early for the best deals and pricing.

Hard Rock Hotel and Casino 4455 Paradise Road Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 Toll-free 800-hrd-rock The Hard Rock Hotel is a cLassic in its time. Whatever your tastes may be in premarital entertainment, this place has it all, from beachfront parties, dance floor moves, and top-notch food and drink. Rub elbows with celebrities or plan a private party of your own. Then take home a lifetime of memories as a souvenir of your carefree adventure.

House of Blues inside Mandalay Bay 3950 Las Vegas Blvd. South Las Vegas, NV 89119 Telephone 702-632-7630

This club offers the latest and best in cool blues. Late at night, though, it turns into a nightclub featuring 80's music on Fridays and 70's style on Saturdays. There is no special dress code.

Rumjungle 3950 S. Las Vegas Blvd. Las Vegas, NV 89119 (702) 992-7970 This club has a dress code that is strictly enforced. Patrons will be tantalized by the firewall that changes to a cascading water wall accented by dancing congas. An illuminated bar and pulsating dance floor provides a backdrop to all types of music, from techno to hip-hop.

Bachelor Blowout Bachelor Blowout offers the ultimate in singles entertainment. No matter what type of las Vegas bachelor party you are planning, this company will help you find exactly what you're looking for to make your last days as a single both memorable and enjoyable. Create your own las Vegas bachelor party package or work with a consultant for some ideas about the type of fun you want to have. Go clubbing, drink and eat, visit the casinos, or arrange your own event to celebrate your countdown of bachelor days.

Desert Odyssey Tours 1-800-218-4942

Desert Odyssey Tours offers a complete line of bachelor party services and ideas. If the same old ideas are too cliché for you, consider some of these dynamic options. Kayaking, rock climbing, ATVs, skydiving, and bungee jumping are just some of the wild waves you can ride before giving it all up for the safe harbor of marriage. Stretch hummers and Lincoln navigators join limo options for your transportation needs to ensure that your party is laced with style.

Exclusive VIP Bachelor Party An Exclusive VIP Bachelor Party can be yours for about $159 per person. Four hours of limo service (gratuity included), chilled champagne and other liquor, and paid entrance fee to Sapphire's, the largest gentleman's club in the world, are some of the delights that await the groom-to-be and his henchman with this package. Get in touch to discuss your wishes and let the staff help them come true.

These and other establishments will work with you to create the ultimate bachelor experience. Most forms of payment are accepted. Call in advance to schedule early for the best deals and pricing.

About the author: Randy is owner of Weddings Information , Profitable Home Businesses and How to Plan a Baby Shower . Randy owned and operated a very successful storefront/mailorder business from 1988 to 2003.

Enjoy a Las Vegas Outdoor Wedding

2008-11-06T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Although Las Vegas enjoys a reputation for wild nightlife, there is much to be said for its natural wildlife as well. That is one reason so many couples choose to plan a Las Vegas outdoor wedding. Several wedding planner services offer outdoor locations as host sites for your special day. Choose a cruise by yacht, board a Harley, or mount your horses for an unusual and unforgettable wedding memory.

Each package comes with its own set of auxiliary services, so you will need to inquire about any that interest you. Many include amenities like limousine service, the minister's fee, a wedding dinner for two with a wedding cake, photography packages, and more. Never assume that services included with one deal come with all. In some cases you can purchase extras individually or you can design your own outdoor wedding package.

You will need to plan ahead, however, to be sure you bring the proper gear that will be needed for various outdoor activities. Buying them when you arrive may be more costly than purchasing before you leave home. Sunscreen, sungLasses, snorkeling equipment, and other items can be readily packed and ready to go when you plan your wedding in advance.

If you love the outdoors and want Mother Nature as your wedding attendant, you will enjoy the peace and serenity of these fine services that are like no others in the world.

Chapels of Las Vegas 1401 Las Vegas Blvd. So. Las Vegas, NV 89104 702-636-0803 800-535-4106 Chapels of Las Vegas offers many delightful outdoor wedding packages like the Valley of Fire that provides a colorful bower for the happy couple. Gorgeous landscapes can make a memorable backdrop to your exchange of vows. Prices range from modest to extravagant, so book early with your budget in mind.

Loveland Weddings 525 Park Paseo Las Vegas, Nevada 89104 702-792-5263 866-753-263 Choose from a Romantic Gazebo wedding to one that takes place in Red Rock Canyon or is staged in the Wild Wild West! Prices range from about $450 to $2,000.

A Special Memory Wedding Chapel 800 S 4th St Las Vegas, NV 89101-6709 A Special Memory offers several outdoor wedding options for the happy couple to choose from. Take a thrilling hot air balloon ride over the scorching desert while exchanging vows aloft for a $1,407 price tag. Or schedule a helicopter ceremony over the Grand Canyon for $975. Choose a cruise by yacht, board a Harley, or mount your horses for an unusual and unforgettable wedding memory. Each package comes with its own set of auxiliary services, so you will need to inquire about any of those that interest you. Never assume that the amenities included with one deal come with all, even if they are offered by the company.

Las Vegas Weddings at The Grove 8101 Racel Street Las Vegas, Nevada 89131 Toll free 866-645-5818 The Grove Wedding Chapel is set on three acres of well-manicured grounds to provide a romantic setting for your wedding celebration. A quiet stream wanders into a placid lagoon that is easily admired from the shelter of a gazebo. Shady trees and lush foliage offer the peace and tranquility of nature's refinements for your special event. An indoor reception room is accessed through French doors and includes bay windows for stunning outdoor vistas. This service was featured on the Travel Channel.

Las Vegas Weddings 4 You--Outdoor Weddings in Las Vegas Las Vegas Weddings 4 You offers many delightful outdoor wedding packages. The Valley of Fire site includes Arch Rock, a natural formation that provides a colorful bower for the happy couple. Located 55 miles northeast of Las Vegas and 6 miles from Lake Mead, this haunting area will make a memorable backdrop to your exchange of vows. Prices range from $499 to $699 and include amenities like limousine service, minister's fee, wedding dinner for two with a wedding cake, photography packages, and more.

The Mount Charleston site, located about 35 miles from the Strip, is nearly 12,000 feet high. This breathtaking view provides a scenic elevated view of the surrounding area with temperatures that range about 30 degrees lower than Las Vegas. For $999 the couple gets limo service to and from the hotel, photography, a minister, and a cake to go.

If you love the outdoors and want Mother Nature as your wedding attendant, you will enjoy the peace and serenity of these fine services that are like no others in the world.

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Find a Las Vegas wedding planner!

2008-11-05T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Want a Las Vegas wedding but not sure where to start? Get in touch with a Las Vegas wedding planner who is an expert in arranging the perfect ceremony for a couple's special day. Locate information for indoor or outdoor ceremonies, military weddings, contact information, reservation links, and information sites. Quality planning services place at your fingertips all you will need to know for your Las Vegas wedding plan.

There are many Las Vegas wedding planners who can help you create the day of your dreams. Learn about themes, limos, and a host of amenities that will make your special day perfect. You can choose where to get married, which themes might work best, how many people to invite, and what type of food to serve. Don't leave anything to chance. Let a pro help you find the best accoutrements for your wedding day event.

Make a list of questions to ask a consultant, and keep paper and pen handy for taking notes when you discuss your big day. Then work closely with your adviser to handle every detail so that your wedding will be as beautiful as you've always dreamed it would be. Plan to take plenty of pictures or videotape this very special celebration.

Peete & Company 800 N. Rainbow Suite 158 Las Vegas, Nevada 89107 702-966-7201 This company takes pride in providing ambiance, table settings, décor, and everything else that makes a wedding special.

Cupid's Las Vegas Wedding Receptions In Las Vegas 827 Las Vegas Boulevard South Las Vegas, Nevada 89101 Call Toll free | 24 Hours 1.800.543.2933 Cupid's Weddings and Receptions has everything needed to help you plan the most beautiful event of your life. You can choose where to get married, which themes might work best, how many people to invite, and what type of food to serve. Don't leave anything to chance. With an emphasis on personalized service and a plan for every budget, you won't be disappointed. Let this dynamic service help you find the best accoutrements for your wedding day event.

A Always and Forever Wedding Chapel 3003 Rigel Avenue Las Vegas, Nevada 89102 (800) 259-2978 This company claims to offer the most elegant and the most affordable weddings in Las Vegas. Choose from military, outdoor, and package deals in a wide range of prices.

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Wedding Receiving Line Etiquette--Greeting Your Guests with Style

2008-11-04T03:05:00.000-08:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

Even though it's a great tradition with a long history, some couples choose not to greet their guests in a receiving line fearing that this might take too long. Frank Gregoli, a top New York party planner says realistically, one should allow 30 minutes for every 100 people in the line. If this time allotment fits within your plans and you'd like to be certain that you personally welcome and thank each of your guests, read on.

Know the Basics

Being familiar with the basics of what a receiving line is all about will immediately help you to feel comfortable with this elegant formality.

Exactly when and where the receiving line is formed is really based upon your particular situation. In general, people like to form their line either in the vestibule right after the ceremony or at the entrance to the reception area.

With the exception of the groom, this is really a lady's affair. Here's the lineup: first in line is the bride's mother, followed by the bride, the groom and, next to him, his mother.

Dads, groomsmen, bridesmaids, and children in the wedding party generally are not a part of the receiving line. If for some reason you choose to include any of these people, keep in mind that every person you add will cause the line to proceed slower.

Short and Sweet

Once everyone is in position, the rule should be to keep greetings brief yet warm and sincere. This will avoid a bottleneck. If there is time before your wedding day, review your list of guests with the groom and parents. A little homework never hurts.

Since your mother and you are the first in line, it's expected that relatives and friends of his side of the family will introduce themselves to each of you. As your relatives and friends proceed, you should introduce them to the groom and his mother.

Include the Pleasantries Consider adding a few pleasantries if your receiving line will not be in a house of worship. This will liven up everyone's mood, get conversations going, and make waiting in line easier for your guests. For instance, you could: Include music—Have the band or your dj positioned close enough so that there is music in the background. Plan ahead though. You don't want to have to take time to make these arrangements at the last moment. Pass the tray—Ask your caterer to set hors d'oeuvres and champagne on a table nearby or have a waiter offer these on a tray.

Receiving Guests Like a Pro

There are always instances where, for one reason or another, a person's name is not ready to roll off your tongue. You can handle these moments as if you've been in receiving lines all your life by saying something like: ""I'm so glad you came. (Groom's name) and I hope you'll have a wonderful time."" Or you could say, ""It's great to see you again. Please say hello to my husband, (Groom's name)."" Or ""Thank you so much for coming. (Groom's name) and I feel lucky to be with so many good friends.""

Keeping these simple ideas in mind will help you look and feel like a savvy new bride.

Wedding Etiquette for the Best Man, Groomsmen, and Ushers

2008-11-03T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

Undoubtedly, the groom will want to choose a few good men—often his brothers, college buddies, and best friends—to carry out all of the responsibilities traditionally assigned to the guys. Once your fiancé has picked his team, he'll have to give them a few pointers on just what their roles and responsibilities are, so here's the lowdown.

A Friend in Deed

Let's start with the best man (the head groomsman) since his role is so crucial. The best man is an all-purpose kind of guy—friend, organizer, coach, confidant—with a lot of responsibilities.

In general, he must make sure that the wedding goes off without a hitch. When the groom feels stressed, he is ready with encouragement and a good sense of humor.

Traditionally, it is the best man who is in charge of organizing the bachelor party and making all travel arrangements for the bride and groom. He makes sure the groom and other groomsmen get fitted for and pick up their formalwear. He is also expected to supervise the other groomsmen and ushers, serve as an official witness to the vows, safeguards the ring and marriage license just before the wedding, and pay the clergyman's fee (which the groom quietly slips to him before the ceremony).

After the ceremony, he makes sure the wedding party lines up properly for the ""wedding parade"" through town, if one is planned. At the reception, he serves as the master of ceremonies, proposes the first toast, and remains on hand to ensure that all subsequent speeches are both short and sweet. His final duty is to return all the rented tuxes.

INCIDENTAL—In case it should happen that several notable people would like to offer a toast, here is the order of the speakers: best man, groom's dad, bride's dad, groom, bride, maid of honor, groom's mom, bride's mom, other friends and relatives.

And a Few Good Men

Of course, the other groomsmen or ushers are also important members of the wedding party. The are, in effect, the couples hospitality committee. Although groomsmen often do double-duty—serving as ushers before and after the ceremony—in may cases, at large weddings, for example, there are two sets of men: groomsmen and ushers. (The general rule is one usher for every 50 guests.) In these instances, it is the ushers who seat the guests, and it is they who make the first impression on guests as they arrive.

Ushers greet the guests and escort them on the proper side of the church. As tradition would have it, when a female guest arrives (whether she is alone or not), one of the ushers should step forward, extend his right arm, and escort her to her seat, followed by her spouse or date. (I am in favor of the more modern sentiment which suggests that this approach is incompatible with the whole concept of marriage and that the husband should not be relegated to trailing behind this temporary pair.)

Before walking toward the pews, the usher should ask which side of the church she would like to be seated on, the bride's or groom's. Generally, the right side of the church is reserved for the guests of the groom. Her relatives and friends are usually escorted to the right.

In a Jewish ceremony, this seating arrangement is reversed. And if one side appears to be filling up and the other side has noticeably few occupants, then this rule should be abandoned for the sake of appearances.

Incidentally, in keeping with the spirit of the occasion, ushers should not escort guests to their seats in total silence, as if this were a solemn affair. This is a time for a few casual and friendly, yet dignified and quiet remarks.

Pews are filled from front to back, leaving the first several reserved for family members and close friends of the bride and groom. Just minutes before the ceremony is scheduled to begin, two of the ushers should escort the groom's mother and then the bride's mother to their seats. After the ceremony, they escort these ladies down the aisle.

It is the groomsmen who should be available to assist the bride's mother with any last minute details. Just before the bride makes her entrance, they should unroll the aisle runner. Another important duty of these men of chivalry is to arrange for transportation of the bridesmaids to the wedding site.

After the ceremony, as everyone heads off to the reception, it is their responsibility to ensure that no one is left behind. And, because they are largely responsible for making sure that a good time is had by all, they are expected to introduce guests to each other.

Modern day armor

What the groomsmen wear is largely determined by the formality or informality of the ceremony, and to a lesser extent by considerations such as location and time of day.

These days, most grooms, groomsmen and ushers rent their formalwear. The groom and his men should order their tuxes at least three months before the wedding. If possible, they should select a local shop, just in case last minute alterations are needed.

The groom and his men usually wear the same attire. To set himself apart, the groom may select a different colored tie, vest, pocket square, or boutonniere.

Sometimes the groom will present a memorable gift, such as cufflinks, studs or, if he can afford to splurge, monogrammed shirts, to be worn by these men of honor at the wedding. Given all that they are expected to do, the groom should indeed go out of his way to show his appreciation, even in advance, for a job well done.

Alcohol and Wedding Receptions--Everything You Will Need to Know

2008-11-02T03:03:00.001-08:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

Sure you want your guests to enjoy themselves at your wedding reception, but if you don't want to break the bank or the law here's what you will need to know, including how to calculate how much to buy.

Unquestionably, one of the hottest topics that must be dealt with when planning a wedding reception is whether to have an open bar or a cash bar. Why does this particular topic tend to be so controversial?

Well, for one thing, some people will tell you that it would be rude to invite guests to your reception, then ask them to pay for their own drinks. On the other hand, an open bar—at which your guests drink for free, perhaps into the wee hours of the morning if they last that long—could leave you with a bill that will forever remain etched in your memory.

Both points of view are well taken. It's true that one wouldn't ordinarily invite people to dinner or a party with the expectation that they will pay for what you serve. But it is equally true that people tend to be overly indulgent, not to mention downright wasteful, with alcohol they aren't paying for. They will take a sip or two, set their glass down and begin talking, then walk away. Later, instead of returning for their glass, they will head for the bar to order yet another drink. So, what's the answer?

Options, Anyone

There really isn't a correct answer, but there are options. You could:

*Serve free champagne punch. Since it is relatively light in terms of alcohol content, your guests aren't as likely to become obnoxious, even if they've had more than their fair share.

*Have an open bar for the first hour or two. This approach will prevent you from feeling, and looking, like a cheapskate but will allow you to keep your bank account in the black.

*Have each table set to include the allocated bottles of wine or champagne. For example, a table seating six to eight people might be decked with two bottles of wine or champagne. Since you can expect each bottle to hold between 4 and six glassfuls, everyone will have one to two glasses for dinner and the toast. (Obviously, you will want to have the toast as early as possible to avoid an embarrassing situation in which guests will be forced to hold up empty glasses.)

*Use the open-and-shut-case approach. This requires purchasing beer kegs or cases of good-quality beer, plus several cases of good-quality wine. Since you have purchased the supply in advance, you will determine just how much is being spent on drinks.

For guests who insist upon drinking until the cows come home or would like something stronger, make a cash bar available.

*Have waiters and waitresses serve drinks from a tray. This approach is not only stylish, it is also quite cost effective because you remain in control of how much is consumed.

Choose a few different drinks to be served, including beer and wine. Then have the staff circulate throughout the reception area at pre-scheduled intervals. Perhaps the waiters and waitresses might offer drinks when the reception starts, then just before or during dinner, then a few times later in the evening but not throughout the night. With tray service, you guest will not pay for their drinks, but this will still be a lot cheaper than having an open bar.

At-home Receptions

If you are planning to have your reception in a home or backyard and you will not be using a caterer, here is what you will need to know.

In this situation, a cash bar is simply not one of the available choices. It is against the law to sell alcohol without a liquor license. (You wouldn't want to spend your honeymoon in the pokey.)

If the home is not equipped with one, you will need a rented bar (or a sturdy table or two, dressed to the floor or ground with linen). Plan to stock the bar or table(s) with beer, vodka, rum, whiskey, tequila, cordials (liqueur), brandy, gin, wine, sparkling juice, and possibly punch.

Offering a sparkling white wine is also nice. If you are planning to serve champagne (Although only a sparkling white wine made in the Champagne region of France can be truly called champagne, people often refer to any bubbly by that name.), expect to pay more. A decent bottle (You will only disappoint the true connoisseur, and they are a dying breed.) will cost between $10 and $12 and will serve seven to eight glasses. Even at these prices per bottle, you may want to reserve it for the toast.

Borrow or shop for a bartender's guide (Mr. Boston Deluxe Official Bartender's Guide, for example). For your mixologist, you might also stock such things as lemons, limes, celery, maraschino cherries, and olives. You'll also want to have soda water, tonic water, sparkling water, coke, ginger ale, and a few other soft drinks, plus swizzle sticks and cocktail napkins, Last, but not least, remember to have an ample supply of ice (crushed and cubed) on hand.

Standard Guidelines for Consumption

Expect each guest to have four to five drinks at the reception. You'll get twenty-five drinks from a fifth of liquor, providing you're using a one-ounce pony to make them with one ounce of alcohol each. Using one and a half ounces of alcohol (that is, a one-and-a-half-ounce jigger), you'll get eighteen drinks per fifth of alcohol. A single case of alcohol contains twelve bottles. Assuming that you're using one ounce of alcohol to make every drink, then one case will yield 300 drinks.

If you would like to serve beer on tap, half a keg will yield 260 eight-ounce glasses of beer. Seven cases of beer will yield the same amount.

With regard to unopened bottles of alcohol, don't be too concerned about over stocking. It is better to have too much, rather than not enough. Besides, unopened bottles of alcohol can usually be returned to the store.

The Law and Your Liability

Needless to say, it is against the law to serve alcohol to anyone under the legal drinking age. The sobering fact is that courts have consistently ruled that restaurants, caterers, and hosts are financially liable when minors who are served alcohol are injured, become involved in a car accident, or break the law.

You can also be held liable for an adult who suffers an injury, become involved in a car accident, or step outside of the law after drinking too much in your home. Caterers and restaurants are subject to the same liability.

Your best protection against legal liability involving alcohol is to plan ahead and react sensibly. If your reception is to be catered, discuss a plan of action with the caterer before hand. He or she undoubtedly will cooperate.

Avoid serving salty foods since they make people thirsty. Foods high in protein—such as meat, fish, eggs, and cheese—will help to keep your guests sober.

Once a person is drunk, it's too late to reach for the pot of coffee. Giving your happy drunk coffee will only make him or her hyper and jittery. If you need to sober someone up, try to get the person to drink water, which will dilute the alcohol in their system and flush it out.

By no means, let that person drive—no matter what they say. Instead, call for a taxi or find another driver to take the person home.

Wedding Save the Date Cards--Best Ideas and Wording

2008-11-01T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

The sole purpose of save-the-date cards is to give the people you intend to invite to your wedding plenty of advance notice. If, for example, you are planning to marry during the holiday season or a holiday weekend, you'll want your guests to reserve you wedding date on their calendars months in advance. If you will be inviting guest from out of town who will need to fly in for the wedding, they will need time to make the necessary travel arrangements.

You should send save-the-date cards to all of your intended guests when either of these circumstances fit your situation. Even friends and family members who you already know will attend should be sent a card.

On the other hand, if you are not sure whether a particular person or couple will be invited to the wedding, don't send them a save-the-date card. And there is really no reason, and it's a waste of your precious money, to buy and send these notices when all of your guests live relatively nearby or the wedding will not occur during a busy time of the year.

Planning and Sending

Once you know all of the basic details about your wedding plans, place your order with your stationer. As with invitations, having these cards printed can take up to several weeks, so give your stationer plenty of time. You can mail these cards out up to six months before the wedding date.

Save-the-date cards can be designed to match the rest of your wedding stationery and ordered at the same time, or they can have a completely different look.

Getting your guests' attention

Some brides-to-be really want these cards to be eye catching so that they truly standout and serve as a visual notice. If this is what you have in mind, look for something unusual, such as scratch-off cards or magnets (that can be posted on your guests refrigerators). Maybe you will want to make your own cards, incorporating one or more of your wedding colors, a graphic design, or a photo.

You can buy save-the-date cards through most wedding stationery manufacturers and retailers. If you want to create your own cards or save money, look for a card-design software program. Michael's arts and crafts stores sells a good software program called ""Wedding Invitation Kit"" that costs under $25. The program is designed mainly for making your own wedding invitations, but it does include note cards.

What you should do

Since this will be your first written contact with most of your guests, it's important that they make a good first impression. Make sure that you spell each guest's name correctly. If you are unsure about the spelling of someone's name, look it up or contact someone reliable.

In your save-the-date, include the date, time, and place of the ceremony along with any other information that your guests will need.

Here is a sample of how your notice might read:

""Please save the date of Saturday, June 25, 2005, 2 PM, for the wedding of Karen Hinkley and Brian Nelson in Minneapolis, MN. Invitation and directions to follow.""

Always follow up with the expected wedding invitation, which should be mailed about six weeks before your wedding date.

A nice touch that can truly be helpful to your guests is to list your web site address—assuming you will be updating it with more details.

What you should not do

Keep in mind the purpose of these cards. Don't include unnecessary or inappropriate information such as directions, the rehearsal dinner location and time, or registry information. (Incidentally, if you do list your name with a bridal registry, the only place that information can be included is in a shower invitation. Generally, good etiquette demands that you rely upon friends and relatives to circulate such details by word of mouth and only if asked.)

Since you are not trying to elicit a response, do not include a reply card. And last but not least, you should not e-mail your save-the-date information. Of course, there is always an exception to every rule, but try not to break this one.

Picking your wedding photographer.

2008-10-31T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Edward Mercer

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When it comes time to pick your professional wedding photographer you will want to make sure you do your homework. Your photographer will be the person you deal with more than anyone else involved in your wedding. They will be the one you want to feel the most comfortable with because they are with you the whole day. An experienced photographer can direct everything about your day from beginning to end.

If you like their work and feel comfortable with them, they can be your calming force during the fast, hectic pace of the wedding day. They will be a personal assistant to help you as well as take great photographs. They will also make sure that everything moves along so you do not miss the experience of the day.

After the wedding they are one of the few people that you continue to work with as you create your wedding album.I think you should also hire someone who is doing digital photography and handles most of their digital enhancements of their work. A photographer who is proficient with photoshop and digital enhancement is a major plus, as they can do anything imaginable to your images.

So try and hire someone who you like and get along with, someone whose photographic style you like, and someone who does most of their image enhancement after the event. If you can find a photographer who is all of these things then you will be assured of a successful day, as well as wonderful images, and a friend who will record all the important events in you life.

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About the author: Ed has been a professional wedding photographer for almost 30 years. Ed and his wife Susan have been featured in The Professional Photographer and had their pictures published in many other magazines.

Fabulous wedding packages in Las Vegas

2008-10-30T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Wedding Packages in Las Vegas by Randy Wilson

Don't shop for individual wedding services. Instead, look for a package that blends a selection of amenities that will make your day bright and beautiful. You can purchase a full complement of amenities that may include limo, minister, photography, chapel, flowers, and catering. Don't spend all your time shopping for a variety of things when you can get it all wrapped up in one gorgeous and convenient package at a sensible price.

Shopping at a one-stop location will save time and money. Let the professionals point you in the best directions for formal wear, catering, music, and flowers as you discuss a variety of Las Vegas wedding package deals. You can compare dates, times, seasons, and options to create a truly remarkable ensemble that is precisely designed to meet your planning needs. Then put together a package that includes just what you want--and nothing more.

You can even expand the deal to include a bachelor or bachelorette party, extended family arrangements, the wedding reception, and a honeymoon. Why worry over a single detail when there are competent, experience pros waiting to handle the job for you? Skip the tiring trips from one store to another. Whatever your tastes, budget, or desires, a package can be assembled to make your wedding dreams come true.

Always and Forever 3003 Rigel Avenue Las Vegas, Nevada 89102 1(800) 259-2978 Their professional staff looks forward to working with clients to create a memorable package of Lasting treasures stemming from your wedding day.

Total Wedding Services 3351 S. Highland Avenue Suite 213 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 Toll free 877-732-9995

This service offers wedding packages in several locations and styles. They emphasize the use of state-of-the-art photography equipment and artistic designs.

Whatever your tastes, budget, or desires, a package can be assembled to make your wedding dreams come true.

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Wedding Flowers--What Every Bride Should Know before Her Big Day

2008-10-29T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

Whether your wedding will be coming up roses, daffodils, or something else, choosing the wrong flowers for that blissful day can create a scene you'll want to soon forget. But armed with a few basics about flowers, the arrangements you choose will land you a bevy of compliments and queries.

When selecting your wedding flowers, the single most important thing to keep in mind is that all flowers have distinct characteristics. Knowing what the characteristics are of the flowers you'll be choosing can mean the difference between crying because you're exchanging vows with the man of your dreams and tearing up thanks to an allergic reaction to the pollen in some of those beautiful flowers in your wedding bouquet.

To avoid sniffles and sneezes at the alter, know which blooms might cause you trouble. And ask each person in your wedding party which blooms they are allergic to before ordering bouquets. Topping the list of highly allergenic blossoms are lilies and gardenias.

If you are planning a warm-weather wedding, be sure to stick with flowers that can withstand heat and high humidity. Delicate flowers, like hydrangeas, are likely to wilt and sag in warm weather. Choose hardier flowers, such as orchids, roses, or herbs.

The fragrance from flowers will be stronger during warm weather, therefore take this into consideration when making your selections. You will want your guests to feel as if they've just walked into a flower garden, not a perfume factory. When planning a summer wedding that will take place in a small, completely enclosed room, choose less-fragrant flowers such as orchids or asters. Freesia, tuberose, and gardenias should be avoided.

Want to take your guests' breath away (figuratively speaking, that is)? Near the entrance to the reception area, be sure to have lovely floral centerpieces, or perhaps candles, at eye level. Stringing garlands, ribbons, or some other kind of delicate ornaments above windows or doorways will also add to the effect.

Winter brides should consult a florist before settling on a particular arrangement. Below 42 degrees, some flowers may turn black. This doesn't necessarily mean that those flowers must be excluded from your bouquet, but it does mean that they shouldn't be taken along for an outdoor photo shoot.

Lilies will help you to put on a stunning show, but before you carry them next to your dress, be sure to have your florist remove the stamens. Left intact, they'll stain your dress with bright yellow pollen.

Although charming to look at, some field flowers are best left out in nature. Once they are cut, most—poppies and bluebells, for example—will droop and wilt before you get to the altar. Notable exceptions to this general rule include asters, sweet peas, and daisies.

Flowers are sensitive to cigarette smoke. So, if you don't want your bouquet to turn colors or wilt, ask your guests to smoke outside.

Some popular wedding flowers, such as euphorbia and daffodils, are hollow-stemmed, so their sap can drip onto your lovely gown. If you choose one of these varieties for your bouquet, have your florist completely wrap the stems.

Many couples begin greeting their guests well before the ceremony is scheduled to begin. If this is your plan, the groom's boutonniere may be completely flattened by the time he has finished hugging and kissing his and your relatives and friends. Consider ordering a second boutonniere, which will be fresh for the ceremony and the photo session.

Don't allow your centerpieces to hinder conversation between guest. Centerpieces should always be either high or low, never in between, forcing your guests to crane their necks to speak to someone on the other side of the table.

Here are a few final points to keep in mind:

Know in advance where everything is supposed to take place. In fact, it's a good idea to write down the schedule of where everyone should be and when. Give a copy to your mom or dad, the maid-of-honor, your caterer, and your florist. Giving a copy of the schedule to the florist will help to ensure that the right floral arrangements arrive at the right location on time.

Reusing the floral arrangements from the ceremony for the reception areas will help to keep down costs. As long as you've planned in advance by making sure that the color schemes blend, there is no reason not to recycle wedding flowers.

About the author: Jean Bachcroft is a former public relations director, the founder of Bachcroft and Aloha Labels, and the publisher and editor-in-chief of Town and Country Shopping Bargains Magazine. For designer wedding, holiday, and year-round mailing and return address labels, you can visit her web sites at http://bachcroft.com and at http://alohalabels.com. For bargain shopping around the world, visit http://townandcountryshoppingbargains.com.

Free Wedding Planning Guide and Checklist

2008-10-28T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

With so much to do, every bride needs a surefire way to get organized and stay on track as she countdown toward that all-important day. Here's a guide and checklist you won't want to be without.

12 Months Before

*Buy a wedding planner and organizer (The only realistic alternative to not being well organized is hiring a wedding consultant to manage the details for you.) *Talk with your fiance (and parents if they will be paying the bill and adding to the guest list) about the size and a budget, possible date, and location for the wedding. *Reserve the ceremony and reception sites. (If the wedding will take place in a large city, don't dilly dally on this one. Wedding venues can be booked up solid for a year.) *Begin shopping for your dress. (You could be looking for that perfect gown for months, and most shops need at least four months to fill an order. Look for styles appropriate for the wedding venue and time of day.) *Shop for or begin making save-the-date cards. *Send your engagement announcement to newspapers.

10 Months Before

*Make an appointment to meet with your clergyman. (At the time you make your appointment, let him know your wedding date. You and your fiance should arrange to meet with him as soon as possible, especially if you live in a large city or are planning to write your own wedding vows.) *Begin scouting around for a baker, caterer, florist, musicians, and photographers. (Once you have found them, ask about and review price options.)

8 Months Before

*Research honeymoon destinations and prices. *Begin the guest list. (Generally, half of the invited guests are the bride's and half are the groom's.) *Order your dress. *Book vendors and musicians or a dj. *Choose bridal registries and gifts you would like to receive. *Reserve a block of rooms for out-of-town guests.

6 Months Before

*Mail save-the-day notices. *Select menu and flower arrangements. *Order wedding stationery. *Shop for bridesmaids' dresses. *Reserve rentals (tents, fans, etc.). *Make honeymoon and flight reservations. *Reserve hotel room for your wedding night.

4 Months Before

*Finalize guest list. *Have first dress fitting. *Order wedding rings. *Schedule rehearsals. *Find out if blood tests will be required. *Get change-of-name forms. *Visit the formalwear shop.

2 Months Before

*Shop for lingerie and honeymoon clothes. *Pick out shoes. (When you get them home, don't forget to scuff up soles to prevent slipping.) *Mail wedding invitations. *Finalize vows and give copies to clergyman and groom. *Select gifts for attendants. *If necessary, get change of address forms from post office.

1 Month Before

*Have final dress fitting. *Pick up rings. *Have programs printed. *Confirm all reservations. *Send announcement to newspapers.

2 Weeks Before

*Get marriage license. *Make final arrangements with photographer. *Organize seating plans. *Begin writing thank-you notes. *Type up toasts for the rehearsal dinner and reception. *Give final guest count to caterer.

1 Week Before

*Pack for the honeymoon. *Make necessary banking arrangements. *Host bridesmaids' party and distribute gifts. *Pick up wedding dress. *Confirm rehearsal dinner plans with attendants.

1 Day Before

*Have manicure and pedicure. *Attend rehearsal and dinner. *Mail announcements.

Wedding Day

*Eat breakfast. *Visit hairstylist and have nails touched up.

Best Wishes!

Wedding Invitations--Today's Etiquette and Wording

2008-10-27T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jean Bachcroft

The look of the wedding invitations you send will not only says a lot about you and your husband-to-be they will also convey a fair amount of information about your upcoming ceremony. So it is important to plan the type of wedding you will have before you make any decisions about your invitations.

Based upon the quality of the paper stock, lettering, color and design you select, recipients are likely to make a determination about the formality or informality of the event, thus how they should dress. The color of your invitations may suggest the color scheme of your wedding. The quality of the paper may indicate how elaborate or simple you wedding will be.

Choosing Invitations

Stationery Stores—Most brides still go to a stationery store to select invitations. Once there, you can look at brochures and browse through manufacturers' catalogs. The catalogs include samples invitations so that you can feel the paper stock, see the true color of the paper, and compare different print options. Knowledgeable clerks will be on hand to help you pick out the desired color and weight of the paper as well as the ink, style of script, and wording for your invitations. The only thing remaining for you to do will be to provide the particulars.

There are only a few large manufacturers and they dominate the wedding invitation industry. As a result, whichever stationery house you go to you are likely to see the exact same catalogs. Unlike private print shops, because these companies mass-produce their products they are able to offer you greater variety at a lower price.

Online Shopping—There is virtually nothing you can't buy on the Internet, including your gown (although I would not recommend an online purchase for your wedding dress, which must be properly sized and fitted).

The Internet offers a huge number of sites selling both traditional and unique invitations. If you are bargain shopping for invitations, the Internet is definitely the place to go.

Keep in mind that you are always taking a chance when you choose this method. There is nothing like being able to feel the quality of the paper or the raised lettering to ensure that you will get exactly what you want. However, knowing how different weights of papers feel and about the different methods of printing can help.

Private Printers—Because of the availability of mass producers and the tendency of many people to shop for bargains on the Internet, private shops are now hard to find. If you have your heart set on truly personalized invitations, look around. You are almost sure to find one somewhere.

Different Printing Methods

There are essentially four common methods of invitation printing, each with its own benefits.

Handwritten—If you are planning a small wedding (meaning 50 people or fewer), it is perfectly acceptable to hand write your invitations. Of course, this will be hard work, but you will save a lot of money.

Engraved—This is the ultimate in invitation printing. With engraving, the printer stamps the back of the paper using metal plates. This raises the print up off of the paper so that you can actually feel the lettering. For most brides, engraved invitations are much to costly.

Thermography—This is the most common form of invitation printing. With this method, the ink is heated to create a raised-letter effect that is nearly indistinguishable from engraving.

Calligraphy—We all recognize this as another name for fancy formal script. This method is becoming more popular every year, Many of the printing houses are now able to offer this print option as well, but it is not done by hand.

Saying It with Words

Today, there are so many different kinds of families—traditional, blended, divorced, etc.—that it's no wonder brides are often concerned about how to word their invitations without breaching any rules of etiquette. The stationer you will likely be visiting soon will have more samples of wording than you will want to see. For now though, I'll let you glance at a few of the more commonly used forms. These all fall under the category ""traditional.""

(Bride's parents are hosting) Mr. And Mrs. David Hennesse Request the honor of your presence At the marriage of their daughter Miss Ellen Marie Hennesse To Mr. Mark Peter Bruster On Saturday, the ninth of June Two thousand and five At three o'clock in the afternoon St. Mary's Church Duluth, Minnesota

(Both bride's and groom's parents are hosting) Mr. And Mrs. David Hennesse And Mr. And Mrs. Clark Bruster Request the honor of your presence At the marriage of their children Ellen Marie Hennesse And Mark Peter Bruster On Saturday, the ninth of June Two thousand and five At three o'clock in the afternoon St. Mary's Church Duluth, Minnesota

(When the bride and groom host the wedding) Miss Ellen Marie Hennesse And Mr. Mark Peter Bruster Request the honor of your presence At their marriage On Saturday, the ninth of June Two thousand and five At three o'clock in the afternoon St. Mary's Church Duluth, Minnesota

The old rule was that the word ""honor"" should always be spelled ""honour."" This rule is no longer firmly held. However, you should always spell everything out—names, the date, the time and the location.

There are definite rules regarding the use of initials. ""Doctor"" (medical only, otherwise the professional title is not used) is written in full, unless the name to follow is long. ""Mr."" is never written ""Mister,"" but ""Jr."" may also be written as ""junior,"" although the first is preferred.

It is acceptable to use numbers when writing the address of the church or synagogue, but avoid doing so. Generally, the address (including the street name) of the location where the wedding will be held is omitted. You may want to include it if not doing so would be likely to cause your guest frustration—when, for example, you are getting married in a large city and guests would have to guess which of the several churches with the same name you mean.

If you do include the address and you are using a formal style of wording, spell out numbers under 100. Never abbreviate words such as ""Street,"" ""Avenue,"" and ""Road,"" and do not include the zip code.

Saving Time and Money

If you are pressed for time, ask the stationer if you can have the envelopes early. This way, while you are waiting for your invitations to be printed you can address the envelopes.

When it comes to deciding how many invitations to order, you should definitely order slightly more than you think you will need. Chances are you are going to need more than you thought. It's a lot more expensive to place a second order than it is to order extras.

Making Passion More Passionate

2008-10-26T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jim D. Ray

Somewhere between the first kiss and growing old together, many couples experience dormant growth phases during their relationship, leaving one, if not both partners with a need for greater input, emotionally and/or physically.

The process of emotional growth is both independent, and uncomfortable. To ideally maintain and promote harmony, each partner must be willing to flex with the growth needs of the other, while also contributing to the growth of the relationship.

A long-lasting relationship is founded on compassion, respect, and genuine love for your partner. These qualities can – and should – be frequently expressed in a number of ways, to reaffirm the value of the relationship. Continuously seeking to re-invent the relationship by expressing appreciation for your partner will solidify the connection between you.

To nudge your relationship out of the proverbial emotional drought, here is a list of suggestions for adding more passion into your relationship:

1. Reality check your partner. Before doing anything to encourage the relationship, ask yourself if your partner is good for you, and why. Know the basic answers like the back of your hand. If you find yourself unable or unwilling to admit value in your partner, you may be in the wrong relationship.

2. Acknowledge the uniqueness of the relationship through your partner. There is potential in every moment to experience the greatest point of your relationship. Showing appreciation for your partner's uniqueness further defines the relationship based on a broader attraction. Communicate the acknowledgement of individuality of your partner frequently, both emotionally and physically.

3. Make love right now. Allow the sexual aspect of your relationship to evolve into an activity of ultimate fulfillment, reserved only for your partner. Instead of making love for your satisfaction, make love for your partner, and allow them to do the same for you.

4. Be friends, too. Would you be friends with your partner, outside of the relationship? If you find the answer is "no," don't worry – there's always time to make new friends. Identify activities you and your partner can do and enjoy together. Participate in a third-party project, such as charity work. Activities beyond intimacy will broaden, and therefore strengthen, the foundation of your relationship.

5. Be what you want to see. Demand no more out of your partner than what you are willing to make out of life yourself. If you are capable of great things – and you are – then get to work. Be certain to test all seemingly realistic requirements on yourself, before seeking to ask them of your partner.

6. Form a pact to achieve excellence in some way. Whether it be a physical health regimen, a bowling tournament, doing the taxes, or managing a business together, forming a pact to achieve excellence in a specific, tangible way will build trust between partners. Commitment to a short-term goal is the best exercise a relationship can get.

7. Love with your whole heart. All too many times, past relationships keep us from loving with our whole heart. If your relationship reality check is solid, ask yourself how you've been holding back on your partner, and why. Do you expect criticism, instead of acceptance? Recognize the boundaries of your love, and identify positive ways to expand them daily.

8. Improving yourself improves the relationship. Self enrichment is an effective, important means of perpetual contribution to your relationship. Expanding your personal knowledge and interests will keep conversations interesting and generate new ideas for growing together, through new activities and experiences shared between partners.

Remember, there's nothing wrong with taking care of you. The more you have to give, the more there will be to share with your significant other.

9. Explore diversity in faith, culture, or politics. Diversity – and its acceptance – serve as a cornerstone of any fulfilling, long-lasting relationship. Your partner is likely to embrace at least some perspectives different than your own with regard to religion, culture, or political affiliation. Look to explore your partner's diversity, and openly accept the differences that make you both unique.

10. Don't go to bed mad. Make it a point to resolve differences before going to bed. Allowing arguments or heated discussions to fester overnight can solidify emotions, while leaving the real issues behind. In addition to promoting communication and relationship stability, addressing differences before bed reduces stress and promotes better sleep.

A meaningful, fulfilling relationship is perhaps the greatest investment you can make in both yourself, and your partner. As your relationship grows, look for new ways to interact with each other as you haven't before. Each human represents a vast Universe of knowledge and emotion waiting for exploration by just one individual with the unwavering desire, patience, and capacity to know them.

About the author: Jim D. Ray is a parapsychologist with a diverse background in multiple subject concentrations, including business, psychology and parapsychology, criminal justice, philosophy, education, internet technology, physics, and vocal performance arts. Jim can be reached by e-mail at: jray@web-presence.net.

Wedding Dresses - How to Select the Best One for You

2008-10-25T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Tanya Turner

Every bride would agree that her wedding dress should be perfect - not only does she want to look her best, on her special day, but her wedding dress also is the center of everybody's attention. But how would you select the best one for you? Here is advice about selecting the best dress for your wedding.

Your wedding dress style should much the wedding style

Do you plan a very formal wedding in a cathedral or is it going to be an informal beach ceremony? Before deciding on the dress, you should decide how formal your wedding is going to be. A long and puffy princess style wedding dress is no longer your only option - informal weddings and beach weddings are progressively becoming more popular. So now you can find all kinds of cheap wedding dresses - short or tea length dresses, colored wedding dresses and even white sarongs, for a Hawaiian wedding.

One advantage to an

informal wedding dress is that it is much cheaper and more comfortable. Also, while a formal wedding gown almost always needs serious alteration, an informal dress is much easier to fit. So if you don't have that much time left before you wedding, an informal dress could be a good choice.

How to chose the right bridal salon.

If you want to find the best dress, you will need to spend a couple of days visiting different salons. However, before you visit a bridal shop it is a good idea to call them and ask a few questions - this will save you trips to places that would only waste your time. When ringing a bridal salon you should ask:

Can you just come to the shop or is an appointment required? What dresses styles do they have and what is the price range? Are alterations free and, if not, how much do they cost? If they don't have dresses in your size, can one be ordered? Do they also carry bridal accessories, like hair decorations, veils and shoes? Can they hold a dress you like for a couple of days?

When you get to the shop, try as many dresses as necessary, until you find the perfect one. Don't listen to the sales person, when they say that the first dress you try on is great and you should take it. Remember they want to sell the dress and it is their job to say it looks great, even if in fact it is hideous.

When you finally find the dress that you always dreamed of, ask them to put it on hold; don't let them convince you that you should buy it straightaway. Return to the shop the next day and look at your dress again - you would be amazed how often something that seemed perfect, after trying on 10 different dresses, won't impress you when you see it with a fresh eye. However, if you look at your dress again and feel ""yes this is the one"", than it is time to buy it.

About the author: Tanya Turner is a fashion expert and a founder of www.Cheap-Wedding-D resses.info where you can find unbiased information about wedding dress styles, what is in fashion and how to get your wedding dress at a reasonable price

Las Vegas Catering for your Wedding

2008-10-24T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Randy Wilson

No wedding celebration will be complete without a delicious repast for the couple and their guests. Whether a simple picnic, hors d'oeuvres, or a complete banquet, your wedding meal should be part of the memories of this exquisite day. Check out the delectable Las Vegas catering options that will accent your festivities.

You can opt for barbecue, buffet, or sit-down elegance when you arrange a reception feast for your guests. Many Las Vegas caterers provide amenities like table coverings and tableware, a multi-course meal, and cleanup service as part of their fee, but be sure to find out in advance what is covered and what you will have to pay separately.

Table and reception hall decorations as well as the wedding cake can be included in your catering package. Beverages, hors d'oeuvres, and appetizers can be factored into your deal as well. Work with the catering consultant to coordinate your wedding theme with the meal preparations. If necessary, auxiliary services like hall or chair rentals can be arranged, along with floral centerpieces and other accents.

Whatever type of food your wedding plans may include, these gourmet caterers hold the cards in offering a variety of specializations to make your dream day the best ever.

Top Kat Catering 3557 S. Maryland Parkway Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 702-737-6823 Top Kat Catering is one of the best-known Las Vegas caterers in the business. Family owned with a complete menu of full-service dining, this company puts the customer first. Let Top Kat help with music, bar service, décor, and even the wedding cake.

You Name It Events 3663 S. Polaris Las Vegas, Nevada 89103 702-253-1400 You Name It Events will cater your wedding with food, liquor, and entertainment, if desired. Equipped to offer a variety of services for any kind of event, including a company picnic, casino party, or promotion as well as the famed wedding celebrations, you can work with the staff to create your own special wedding themes.

At Your Service Catering 633 D North Decatur Boulevard Las Vegas, Nevada 89107 702-870-1502 At Your Service provides a full complement of services to enhance your wedding celebration. In addition to being a fully licensed food and liquor vendor, the professional enterprise can arrange for seating, tables, and props. Request a written proposal.

Whatever type of food your wedding plans may include, these gourmet caterers hold the cards in offering a variety of specializations to make your dream day the best ever.

About the author: Randy is owner of Weddings Information .. Randy owned and operated a very successful storefront/mailorder business from 1988 to 2003. Currently full time owner/operator of several online businesses.

Weddings the Greek Orthodox Way

2008-10-23T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Emmanuel Mendonca

The wedding service in the Greek Orthodox faith is an ancient and beautiful ceremony, which has been celebrated in its current form for centuries. The wedding ceremony is full of symbolism and is a great experience if you have never attended one before, because it is likely to be quite different from other weddings you have attended in Western Europe. The service is also rather unique because the bride and groom do not make vows to each other – their presence together in the church is taken to mean that they are serious about getting married. There are no wedding rehearsals and the ceremony usually has a very relaxed atmosphere - guests take photos whenever they want to and often chat quietly among themselves throughout the ceremony.

The Beginning of the Wedding

In most cases the wedding guests will wait with the groom outside the church until the bride arrives (a few sneaky wedding pros will go into the church early to secure a good seat). In the Summer, when most weddings take place, it is not unusual for ceremonies to be arranged back to back, so the guests attending a marriage will often stand around with those who have just attended the previous wedding are ready to leave. Wedding dress commentators among the crowd will get to consider and discuss at least two brides and maybe even a third as they leave the church – bargain! Meanwhile, the groom waits for the bride at the entrance to the church, often holding her floral bouquet. He hands it to her as they meet and they then go inside together followed by the guests. There is no separation of the guests into guests of the bride and guests of the groom – everyone sits together and in the case of small churches, many people prefer to stand in a spot where they can get a good view of the proceedings.

Service of Betrothal

The wedding ceremony itself is in two parts: the Service of Betrothal and the Ceremony of the Sacrament of Marriage. The exchanging of rings is the focus of the Service of Betrothal. The priest blesses the rings by holding them in his right hand and making the sign of the cross over the heads of the bride and groom. The rings are then placed on the third fingers of their right hands. The Koumbaro , the couple's religious sponsor, then swaps the rings over between the bride and groom's fingers, three times. A number of rituals in the ceremony are repeated three times and this symbolises the Holy Trinity: God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.

Ceremony of the Sacrament of Marriage

This Ceremony consists of several key parts. First, several prayers are said and then as they come to an end, the priest joins the right hands of the bride and groom. Their hands remain joined until the end of the wedding ceremony, which symbolises the couple's union.

The Crowning

The bride and groom are crowned with thin crowns, or stefana , which are joined by a white ribbon and have been blessed by the priest. The crowns symbolise the glory and honour that is being bestowed on them by God, and the the ribbon symbolises their unity. The Koumbaro then exchanges the crowns between the heads of the couple, three times.

The Common Cup

The crowning is followed by a reading of the Gospel, which tells of the marriage of Cana at Galilee. It was at this wedding that Jesus performed his first miracle, changing water into wine, which was then given to the married couple. Wine is given to the couple and they each drink from it three times.

The Ceremonial Walk

The priest the leads the couple, who are still wearing their stefana, three times around the altar on their first steps as a married couple. The Koumbaro follows close behind the couple holding the stefana place. At this point the couple (and anyone standing nearby) is usually showered with rice, which was earlier handed out to the wedding guests. The priest will often make use of the bible he is holding to give himself some protection!

The Removal of the Crowns

When the Ceremonial Walk has ended, the priest blesses the couple, the crowns are removed and he then separates their previously joined hands with the bible, reminding them that only God can break the union which they have just entered into.

Wedding traditions

Unfortunately, a lot of the information available on Greek Orthodox wedding traditions is a little outdated and contains generalisations that give the impression that certain traditions are followed by everyone who gets married. Some of these traditions are set out below.

- The baking of bread and cakes containing coins.

- Rolling a baby on the marital bed to encourage fertility.

- The throwing of money onto the marital bed.

- The pinning of money onto the bride (and sometimes also the groom) at the wedding reception.

Although these rituals are seen as traditional, fewer and fewer young people marrying today are following them, because they are seen as old-fashioned. Many people do not wish to put their guests through the ordeal of other people being able to see how much money they pin on the bride, for example. Although money is still a very common, as well as practical, wedding present it is often given to the couple before the wedding day or to a third person at the wedding reception, for safe-keeping. Greeks living in the more remote parts of Greece and abroad, who will naturally feel more strongly about doing things the traditional way, are more likely to follow these traditions than those living in Athens, for example. Like weddings in many places, Greek weddings are changing. At the time of writing, there is a growing fashion to go and get married on an island and I recently heard someone say that he was looking into getting married in a ski resort. He was wisely advised by a friend: "You had better first ask the priest if he wants to perform a marriage up a mountain"!

About the author: Emmanuel Mendonca is the webmaster and publisher of Athens Room at www.athensroom.com - a free service for finding and advertising property for rent in Athens, with a wealth of information about visiting, living and working in Greece.

Las Vegas invitations for your wedding

2008-10-22T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Randy Wilson

Printing services can add a rich dimension to your wedding plans and a line item to your budget. Since you don't want to end up with smudged, torn, or misprinted materials, find the best in printing for your Las Vegas invitation needs. Card stock, paperweight, font design, text and background colors, and images are some of the options you can select for your personalized wedding invitations. There are numerous patterns and designs that will make your invitations and thank-you cards stand out and allow recipients to remember your special day always.

Choose your invitation printer carefully. Ask if he or she is experienced with wedding invitations. Check cost, scheduling, and samples before signing a sales order. Get a signed proposal to ensure that you have covered all the bases on your order. You don't have to select the cheapest design or easiest color to get a deal. Choose from colors, designs, themes, and styles to communicate your wedding plans.

After receiving your print order, make sure it is what you requested by reviewing the number of items provided, the pattern that was imprinted, and the overall quality. If there is a problem return the materials promptly and either request a refund or have the work done over for accuracy.

A&B Printing 2912 S. Highland Drive #B Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 Phone: (702) 731-5888 Fax: (702) 731-2272 A&B Printing in Las Vegas offers many types of quality and professional printing services to enhance your wedding. From invitations to announcements and thank-you cards, this company offers a 24-hour consumer awareness line to advise customers on good versus bad printing. Get a proposal to ensure that you have covered all the bases on your project.

American Printing 702-384-3821 American Printing utilizes professional programs like Quark and Photoshop to produce quality print items including las Vegas invitations. With 35 years of experience, the staff makes use of techniques like foil and embossing to give your materials a glamorous or simplistic appeal, based on your preferences. Choose from colors, designs, themes, and styles to communicate your wedding plans.

Viva Las Vegas Wedding Reservations and Wedding Gift Shop

1206 Las Vegas Boulevard South Las Vegas, Nevada 89104

1-800-574-4450 There are several designs to choose from in various contemporary styles. A package of five costs $8.04.

Printing Solutions Network, Inc. 1117 Desert Lane Las Vegas, Nevada 89102 Phone: (702) 933-4079 Standard printing services for wedding-related events and announcements.

Or to order online invitations for your Las Vegas wedding:

Online invitation orders available from

Party Basics.

Order your invitations online from

Princess Prints.

After receiving your print order, make sure it is what you requested. If there is a problem return the materials promptly and either request a refund or have the work done over for accuracy.

About the author: Randy has more articles on wedding information such as

Games for a Wedding Shower ,

Australia Honeymoon Vacations and

Cashman Professional Photographer of Las Vegas

Honeymoon Registries: A Guide to Asking for Your Honeymoon as a Wedding Gift

2008-10-21T03:03:00.001-07:00

Author: Jerry Windley-Daoust

Is the cost of your wedding putting the honeymoon of your dreams out of reach? Not to worry; if you already have all the kitchenware and bedding you need, and if you have generous friends and family, your problem might be solved by setting up a honeymoon registry.

A honeymoon registry is much like a wedding registry. Just as a wedding registry allows you to create a list of gifts you would prefer to receive at your wedding, a honeymoon registry allows you to create a list of places you would like to go and things you would like to do on your honeymoon. The honeymoon registry enables your wedding guests to purchase portions of your honeymoon. Yes, your guests could just contribute cash toward your honeymoon, but somehow giving a particular portion of the honeymoon—dinner at a fancy restaurant, or a carriage ride, for example—is more meaningful.

Type the phrase ""honeymoon registry"" into your favorite search engine, and you'll get thousands of results. There are three basic kinds of honeymoon registries:

Registries that require you to book your travel through the travel agency offering the registry. Registries that allow you to book your travel either through the sponsoring travel agency (or other affiliated travel agencies), through the travel agency of your choice, or on your own. Usually these registries charge an extra fee or higher service charge if you choose not to book travel through the registry's parent travel agency. Registries that are not affiliated with any travel agencies, requiring you to make travel arrangements on your own or through a travel agency of your choice. If a honeymoon registry sounds like the perfect solution for you, then here is a quick guide to choosing, creating, and using one:

1. Choosing the honeymoon registry Search for the term ""honeymoon registry"" on your favorite search engine, and you'll come up with plenty of results. How do you choose the one that's best for you? Here are a few basic tips: Different registries offer various mixes of features and costs. Think about what is most important to you. Do you want a slick-looking registry with lots of automated features, or would your guests prefer the personal service of a low-tech, high-touch registry? Does it matter how much of a service charge your guests pay? Do you want the freedom to arrange your own travel, or would you prefer to lean on the services of the travel agents affiliated with your registry? Take a ""virtual tour"" of several different registries. Start by looking for the registry's FAQ page, then look at a few examples of honeymoon registries. Look for professionalism. Does the site provide a thorough explanation of its services, including all fees and service charges? Does it explain who you can contact or what you can do if you run into problems? If the honeymoon registry is run by a travel agency, does the FAQ explain the company's policy for cancelled or delayed travel? Contact couples who have actually used the registry. You can find couples by looking up old honeymoon registries and doing a web search for their e-mail addresses. Or look for e-mail addresses associated with wedding home pages hosted by the registry service. Send a friendly e-mail explaining your situation and asking for advice; most couples will be happy to offer their advice. Talk to someone from the registry service, either by phone or e-mail. If the registry service falls short on customer service when you're signing up, don't expect better service if a problem arises. 2. Creating the honeymoon First, you submit some basic personal information—your names, the date of the wedding, contact information, and so on. Then you create your registry, which is an itemized list of all your honeymoon expenses. Some registries charge a setup fee, usually between $100-$150; others charge nothing to the wedding couple, but charge wedding guests a ""service fee" when they buy part of the honeymoon. Most honeymoon registry websites allow you to create your registry right away over the web. Other sites put you in touch (by phone or e-mail) with a representative who helps you create your registry.

What can you list on your registry? If you can buy it, you can list it. Typical registries list transportation, lodging, activities, special amenities, and meals. Expensive items are usually broken down so guests can choose to pay only a portion of the item. For example, a honeymoon registry might list 10 gifts of $100 each toward your $1000 airfare expense.

Some honeymoon registries allow you to personalize your registry with a message to your guests and descriptions of the different parts of your honeymoon, perhaps even allowing you to upload pictures to the registry.

3. Announcing the honeymoon registry Once your registry is set up, you need to let your wedding guests know that it exists. Many registries will provide you with printed cards announcing the registry and its web address; you can either mail them with the wedding invitation or separately. Some registries will e-mail your wedding guests if you provide their addresses.

The more tactful approach is to let your guests know about your registry indirectly. Let your parents, close friends, or wedding party members know that you have a honeymoon registry; they can pass the word along to guests. Or create a wedding web page with up-to-date information for guests, and include a link to your registry on that page. You can then list the address of your wedding web page in your invitation without directly bringing up the issue of gifts.

4. Buying gifts from the honeymoon registry Guests look up your registry by typing your last name(s) into a search box on the registry website. After reading what you want, they click on the item(s) they want to buy and pay for the items over the website. Most registries also allow guests to purchase items by phone.

The gift-giver usually receives a certificate that is either sent to the wedding couple or to the giver (to hand on to the couple in person); some registries charge a fee to mail this certificate. Other registries notify the couple of the gift by e-mail. On any registry, you can track how many gifts you have received simply by logging into the registry.

It's important to note that most registries require guests to pay a service charge for the privilege of contributing to your honeymoon. The service charge is a percentage of the cost of the gift; the registries we surveyed had service charges ranging from 3.5% to 15%. So if a guest wants to pay $100 toward your airfare and the honeymoon registry website imposes a 10% service charge, she will end up spending $110.

5. Paying for the honeymoon The wedding couple are ultimately responsible for paying for their honeymoon expenses. That means that any portion of the honeymoon that must be paid prior to the wedding (airfare, room deposits and so on) comes out of your pocket. Some or all of those expenses might be picked up by your guests, although most couples' honeymoon expenses are not completely covered by their registry. It's wise not to plan a more extravagant honeymoon than you can pay for yourselves.

Whatever money wedding guests contribute toward the honeymoon is placed in a holding account. The registry sends the couple a check (or electronically deposits the funds into their account) on a predetermined date, usually a week before the wedding. Even though the wedding guests paid for certain parts of the honeymoon, the couple is really free to use the money for anything they want.

6. Thanking guests It's important to write thank-you notes to guests who bought part of the honeymoon (just as you would write thank-you notes for any wedding gift). It might actually be fun to thank guests for the honeymoon, though, because you can describe your experience in the note—you might even include a picture.

About the author: Jerry Windley-Daoust runs the Creative Honeymoon Ideas website, where you can learn more about

honeymoon registries , including a side-by-side comparison of six popular honeymoon registries.

Nevada Wedding Laws

2008-10-20T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Randy Wilson

While you may be headed to Las Vegas for a quickie wedding or a prolonged celebration, take time to find out what the law requires before you buy that plane ticket. Each state's laws differ, and many couples get married in Las Vegas because the law allows them to marry quickly. But don't start planning your nuptials until you check out this all-important piece of the wedding cake.

A Las Vegas wedding ceremony must conform to Nevada wedding laws to be considered legal. Marriage license bureaus are available at several locations in and around Las Vegas as well as other cities in the state. Men can only marry women and vice versa. Identification is required and may be proven with a valid driver's license, state-issued ID card, original or certified copy of your birth certificate, a passport, military identification, or resident alien card.

The fee ranges from $35 to $42, depending on which county the license is purchased from. Divorced persons must know the day, month, and year of their divorce. Although marriage regulations may not be the most exciting part of the wedding preparations, they certainly are one of the most important! Don't neglect to find out in advance what you need to bring with you for getting state and city authority to marry in the city of dreams.

About the author: Randy has more articles on wedding information such as

Wedding Cake in Las Vegas and

Las Vegas Catering

Infidelity Excuse: I fell out of Love...and just love being in love

2008-10-19T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger.

Usually one reports, "falling out of love" and is truly disturbed by this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to "recapture" those feelings.

This person has found a "significant other" who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again "feels in love."

They are determined not to "settle" for a less than an ideal relationship, which means, of course, feeling the love feelings.

Here are some Key Points for this kind of affair. (The 6 others are outlined in my E-book.)

1. Unfortunately, our culture (movies, songs, romance novels, soap operas, romance comedies) teaches us that this is how it's supposed to be. "Falling in love" is the norm – the implication being, that if it doesn't happen, or if it goes away, something is wrong – with you, your spouse or the marriage. A good relationship must first unlearn a great deal.

2. The person who was driven to find "that loving feeling" (reminds me of a song…) usually experiences a high degree of guilt and conflict. He/she is often married to a "good" person and the desire to "find that loving feeling" seems selfish (which it is) and immature (which it is). Intuitively (and this person usually has a great deal of intuition and sensitivity) it is known at another level that he/she is not on the right path.

3. This person usually has a need for drama and excitement. Life easily becomes a soap opera. Emotional juice from the fall-out of emotionally intense relationships reigns rather than living life from the core of who one is.

4. There is little understanding, or perhaps healthy models, of the shifts needed as a relationship matures. For example, "falling out of love" usually happens when the attractors become the distracters. For example: His love for fun and spontaneity, which drew her initially to him, becomes irresponsibility. Her stability and calm, which drew him initially to her, become control.

5. The person "looking for love" is actually looking for the ideal, someone out there, who will project back to him/her that he/she is OK. No, more than OK, close to perfect.

6. This person needs to be adored, or think another adores him/her, because there is a lack of inner strength and solid identity. The other becomes my world, because I lack a world. Being "in love" is the panacea for my emptiness.

7. Sexual intercourse does not need to be a part of these relationships. Sexual activity may indeed END the relationship or at least move it to the point where the attractors become, again, the distracters. The idealized images may be held together by long phone calls, gifts, holding, love letters, e-mails, etc.

8. This type of affair often occurs when there is a "lull" in the marriage relationship. The responsibility of raising children, starting and maintaining a career, paying bills, etc. become the focal point for the couple. Romance becomes a foreign word. People are especially vulnerable for this type of affair after the children are in school and/or the oldest child reaches early adolescence. (There are good reasons for this, from a family systems perspective, but I won't get into that here.)

Tip: If your spouse is struggling with this type of relationship, make sure you hold and care for your self. Your spouse does not have the capacity to do this for you (or anyone) at this point. Yes, you are ok. Her/his affair says less about you and much more about the emptiness within her/him. It is time for you to know you better. Model for him/her what it means to be a person with a core, with integrity, with boundaries, with values, with meaning, with purpose and actively figure out what your needs are, and get them met. Maybe she will ask questions. Maybe she will not. Maybe soon. Maybe later.

For more information on the different kinds of affairs, what causes them, the probabilities of them ending a marriage and what you can do about it, visit my site.

http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

The Pros

2008-10-18T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Cindy English

Beach weddings are popular but they do present ""special issues"".

Failing to consider these ahead of time could leave you unpleasantly surprised on your wedding day!

There is certainly nothing that should dissuade you from your vision of a beautiful seaside ceremony. As a matter of fact, there are many benefits.

Just know the issues and plan for them. Your wedding day will be a wonderful and joyous event!

The ""Pros""

* A beach wedding allows you to involve everyone in the activities. Guests are not restricted to sitting quietly in their seats. They can actually be a part of the celebration! * Beach weddings don't always require a permit. If you are having a small ceremony and do not require a section of the beach to be blocked off...just do it! Simple yet lovely!

* A beach wedding is a modern and refreshing change from the ""stodgy"" traditional wedding. It allows your creativity and personality to shine through.

The ""Cons""

* The beach is usually a bit breezy so take that into consideration when picking your location. Try to choose a ""cove"" on the beach that is protected from direct winds.

* Remember the tides. You definitely do not want to be surprised by the quick and unanticipated arrival of high tide!

* On the beach, there will be bugs and sunshine! Make sure you consider the comfort of your guests. Bring sunscreen and insect repellant for those who did not remember to bring their own.

Beach weddings are absolutely beautiful but nature does provide an element of uncertainty. Careful planning on your part will eliminate most of them.

Just remember...

If every hair is not in place due to the ocean breezes or a seagull drops off his ""wedding gift"" a little to close to the punch bowl...

These are not flaws or imperfections in your day. They are ""memories""! Cherish them and have fun!

About the author: Cindy English is the publisher of: http://www.Beach-Wedding -Themes.com Beach wedding themes full of fun, fantasy and romance http://www.All-Flo rida-Beach-Weddings.com Plan your wedding celebration in Paradise! © Copyright 2005 by Cindy English

Beach Wedding Cakes

2008-10-17T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Cindy English

Looking for a beach theme wedding cake ideas?

One thing to remember... there are no rules! If there are... well, rules are made to be broken. Your beachtheme wedding cake can be anything you want it to be!

What Size?

What Shape?

A couple of things to keep in mind though...

* Consider draping your cake in a decorative manner with tulle to keep the bugs and sand out of it. It would be beautiful yet practical.

* Make your own beach theme wedding cake! Look inside the next ""DuncanHines"" cake mix you buy. The instruction for making baking tiered cakesare in there! You can do it. If you can't, I'll bet you know a friend who could! In EVERY town there is a friend or a ""friend of a friend"" who makes beautiful wedding cakes. It's a hobby for them. They love doing it! Of course they still want to be paid, but not the ridiculous prices that a professional will charge you.

So...go... find that friend!

Endless Beach Wedding Themes

2008-10-16T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Cindy English

If you are considering a beach wedding, the ideas are as endless as your imagination!

One thing about choosing a beach wedding theme is that it allows you total creative freedom. Depending on the time of day, the beach can set the mood. At sunrise or sunset, it is a place of serenity, beauty and romance. Mid-day, it is the hub of excitement, activity, and fun. By nature, a beautiful scene has already been set for you. There is no need for many decorations! Are you planning an intimate wedding with just a few guests? Let the beach help you set the stage for your romantic wedding ideas with a dawn or dusk seaside ceremony. The sunrise or sunset will provide a spectacular background for your wedding photos.

On the other hand, if you want to ""tell the world"" and have a large gathering of people, consider a mid-summer day ""beach-side bash"" or fantasy beach wedding that includes your guests. That's the fun part of a beach wedding - your guests can participate. Everyone has fun!

Here are a few ideas to get you started...

* Be Cinderella with your Prince Charming. Have him place the ""glass slipper"" that fits on your foot as a symbol of your perfect union. You could hire a professional sand sculptor to build a beautiful sand castle as a background for your fairytale theme. Leave in a horse drawn carriage.

* Have a Pirate Wedding. Rent costumes and decorate with treasure chests fake gold coins and jewelry. Have a real treasure hunt. When you leave, sail off into the sunset.

* How about an ""I Dream of Jeannie"" beach wedding theme? Decorate with pretty, colorful bottles in the sand like the one she was found in. At the end of the day, disappear in a cloud of smoke!

* A Western beach wedding theme would be fun! Many beaches allow horseback riding. The reception could be a good old fashioned fireside ""camp out"" under the stars. Leave on horseback.

* Have a Rainbow Wedding. Create a rainbow to wed under out of brightly colored helium filled balloons tied together. Hold them down with the ""pots of gold"" at each end. Have everyone bring a colored umbrella to decorate the aisle with. Great back plan up in case it rains!

* Butterfly weddings are popular. Shades of yellow and orange with butterflies woven amongst the flowers in your tiara and bouquet would be beautiful. Use butterflies as boutonnieres for the guys.

* A Surfing theme would be neat. Of course surf boards and ""The Beach Boys"" come to mind here!

By the way...

Don't rule out you beach wedding ideas because you don't live near an ocean. The definition of a ""beach"" is - ""the shore of a body of water, especially if sandy or pebbly"". That includes lakes and rivers. For that matter, you may have a ""beach"" right by your swimming pool. There are no rules. Be creative!

It is your beach wedding...it can be anything you want it to be - wherever you want it to be! Most of all...have fun!

Adultery as Sexual Addiction: Should You Stay Married?

2008-10-15T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

I outline 7 kinds of affairs in my E-book, ""Break Free From the Affair."" One affair, ""I Can't Say NO!"" is characterized by addictive tendencies. Infidelity (as well as pornography, strip clubs, online chatting, compulsive masturbation, etc.) may be a part of the sexual addiction.

Often the spouse or partner of a sexually addicted person intuitively knows of the addiction and the struggle his/her partner has with the behavior.

The partner often ""feels for"" his/her partner and is in a great quandary about staying in the marriage or leaving the marriage.

If you are a person facing this dilemma or know of someone who is, here are some pointed questions to help move more quickly through the decision making process:

1. Do you really want to save the marriage or are you just plain worn out? Does it seem that it would be much easier to just put up and tolerate the crazy kind of behavior you bump into with him? Are you emotionally fried and think of confronting him with your feelings and thoughts of ending the marriage as jumping into more emotional turmoil?

2. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you think you should hang in there for religious, moral or other "should" reasons? Most spouses who partner with those who can't say no are very conscientious people. Is that you? Do you want to do the right thing? Are you willing to continue feeling the humiliation and facing the dangers because you believe you should stay in the marriage? Do convictions rather than practical and personal concerns dictate your decisions?

3. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you believe you should stay to protect the children? Do you think you are the only spouse who can care for the children? (You may be.) Or maybe your spouse cares deeply for the children and is a good parent. (That may be also.) Do you think that ending the marriage would make life immeasurably worse for your children? Do you fear for their welfare if you confront his behavior?

4. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you see absolutely no way out and are resigned to this marriage? You may experience a powerful pervasive feeling of being stuck. You may believe that you have tried everything and that it is in the best interest of everyone to stay where you are. Couple your weariness with your sense of being stuck and you may tolerate a great deal of disappointment and pain for the sake of the marriage.

5. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you see yourself as incapable of getting out? Your self-esteem may be at rock bottom. You may think of yourself as incapable of starting over, incapable of starting a new relationship, incapable of making the transition to a new life and incapable of making decisions on your own. It is not unusual for the spouse of someone who can't say no to lose her sense of dignity and self-respect as he attempts to control, intimidate and dictate.

6. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you need to protect him? Do you see beyond what is there to him basic emptiness and fear? It's there and you know it? Perhaps you fear what might happen to him if you do indeed leave? Will he be able to cope? What destructive path might he take next? So you hang in there, aware of his underlying pain and hope some day it will be addressed.

7. Do you really want to save the marriage or do you live in the fear that if you talk about leaving you will face danger? Perhaps you might face violence? You might face the emotional game playing at a new level of intensity? Does it seem wiser to hold back, not confront, not move toward change for fear of what he might say or do? Do you sometimes feel frozen with fear?

8. Do you really want to save the marriage or have you given no thought to how you might start over? This is a little different than the fear of starting over. Perhaps your life has been so wrapped around his or the care of your children that you have given little, if any, thought to you. Have you thought of your desires, your skills, your dreams, your hopes and your future apart from him? Or, apart from your children?

Take some time to seriously and thoughtfully address these questions. Once you do, you may experience a new found freedom to act and move in new ways.

http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

Fashion and beauty for your Destination Wedding

2008-10-14T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Pamela Stevenson

If you're getting married overseas, there are a few extra considerations when it comes to looking good. It's time to start planning your 'princess for the day' look!

Your wedding attire there are two main considerations when planning your outfit for a wedding abroad. You need to find something that you will be comfortable wearing, especially if you're getting married in the sunshine, and you also need to choose something that you can transport relatively easily.

If the temperature on your wedding day is likely to be very cool, a 'floaty' beach dress probably isn't the perfect choice. Look for something that will suit the environment - more of a traditional ball gown-style wedding gown, for example. Equally, consider accessories such as shoes. Pretty beach sandals aren't the thing for walking around the castle grounds. Instead consider a high heel shoe.

What you wear for your wedding is entirely up to you and there are no real dress rules if you are marrying in the grounds of your hotel. However, if you have arranged for a religious service in a chapel or church you will most likely be expected to respect local custom and cover your head and shoulders. Also in some Eastern countries, such as Thailand there is a specific dress code. Your wedding coordinator or the relevant embassy will advise you.

Transporting and caring for your outfits when you choose your perfect dress, speak to the designer or store about how best to transport it. It may pack well with plenty of tissue paper, or could be better kept in a dress bag.

Check with your airline for advice on transporting your wedding outfits. Some recommend that they should be boxed or packed into separate suitcases. They will then be placed into the hold. Others suggest that you use suit carriers and, space permitting, they will be hung in the cabin of the aircraft. Outfits can always be carried as hand luggage but this will restrict you to keeping the rest of your hand luggage to a minimum.

As soon as you arrive at your hotel, unpack your wedding outfits and hang them up. A warm and humid tropical climate should allow creases to fall out naturally. However, your hotel or your wedding coordinator can normally arrange for your outfits to be steamed if necessary. Alternatively, hang clothes in a steam-filled bathroom which will help the creases drop out.

Hair and beauty Hair and beauty treatments can be arranged when you arrive at your hotel, or you might even decide to book things before you arrive. If your hotel does not have these facilities, ask whether there is somewhere you can visit nearby. For total peace of mind, practice styling your own hair and make-up before setting off.

You're likely to want to have a healthy tan on your wedding day, but basking in the sun before the wedding isn't a good idea. As well as damaging your skin, you run the risk of looking more like a lobster than a sun-kissed bride. Pace your sunbathing on the run-up to your wedding or help nature along with a good quality fake tan. If you're doing your own fake tan, be sure to practise well in advance.

About the author: Pamela Stevenson is founder and owner of www.AmberleyRose.co.uk which is a UK Wedding Coordination service, specialising in UK Destination Weddings. Their packages include 'Fairytale Castle Weddings' and London's finest locations.

Why Do Men and Women Misunderstand Each Other So Much

2008-10-13T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Jeff Cuckson

Joke from a Woman to another Woman ""Some husbands are living proof that a woman can take a joke!""

Joke from a Man to another Man; ""Men are Vain, They will check themselves out in the mirror. However women are ridiculous; they will check their reflections in any shiny surface, mirrors, spoons, shop windows.""

Then why do YOU think women misunderstand men and vice-versa? One basic fact of life. Women and men are different. I am not talking about their physical attributes, but in their attitudes to relationships.

I am a man, writing this article. I have tried to be fair, but can I tell you ladies, I just can't understand you most of the time. But I am sure that most of you would answer, that you can't understand us men.

I have been guilty of most of the attitudes listed, especially the shopping which I hate. Therefore to go a little way in imparting some understanding, here are 10 situations where the thinking of men and women go in opposite directions;

1) ANGER: When Anger or another problem enters a relationship A woman will want to repair the situation or problem before any sex. A man will think that making love will make it all right again.

2) TOUCHING: For women touching without sex is comforting and very soothing. They find that the touching gives a warm feeling of security. However for men touching without sex can easily be misunderstood and he can even feel threatened.

Please understand that when men touch each other, it is in a rough manner. They slap or punch each other on the back. Tender touching makes many men feel vulnerable and dependent. These have been seen by men to be un masculine. Men find it uncomfortable with so much closeness. It makes them feel vulnerable.

However women are not comfortable without this type of intimacy.

3) TELEPHONE: Men use the telephone or mobile phone as a communication device. It is to send short messages to each other.

However women see the telephone differently. They use it to keep in touch with their friends supporting, helping and growing relationships. They are more interested in people and feelings than objects such as telephones and the latest video games.

4) SEX: When it comes to foreplay, women prefer 40-45 minutes of foreplay. However men on the other hand prefer 40-45 seconds of foreplay before sex

5) GOING OUT: When a man says he is ready to go out, it means he is ready to go out. However when a woman says she is ready to go out, it means she is ready, as soon as she finds her other piece of jewellery and makes just one more phone call.

6) SHOPPING: Women can shop all day and enjoy the whole experience. Its a chance to talk. They use talk to build and sustain connections with others. However men just want finish and close the situation. Its their nature. One can view this difference anytime with couples in shopping malls.

7) BATHROOMS: A man has on average around 5-6 items in his bathroom. A woman on the other hand has over 200 items in her bathroom. Make no attempt to ask a man to identify all these items.

8) DRESSING UP: A woman will dress up to go shopping, gardening, answer the phone, or get the post. A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.

9) CHILDREN: A woman knows all about her children. She knows about doctors and dentists appointments. All their friends, their favorite and not so favorite foods, plus their secret fears and their hopes and dreams. Most men, though not as many as years ago, are aware of some short people sharing the home.

10) TOYS: Little girls love to play with toys. Then when they reach the age of approximately 12, they seem to lose the interest. However, men NEVER grow out of their obsession with toys. As they get older, the toys simply get more expensive. One shopping channel has a section called ""Big Boys Toys.""

In ending this article I would like to stress the points Not all women are alike - Not all men are alike.

There have been great men and great women who have made this world such a better place. No matter what sex you are I leave you with this quote that applies to all of us.

*********************************** Be kind. Remember, everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

--Thompson *************************************

I wish you perfect health and piece of mind in all that you do .

Jeff Cuckson

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Speaking Your Truth to Your Partner

2008-10-12T03:03:00.000-07:00

Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Mark sought my help because he was thinking of leaving his wife, Linda. He had not been feeling in love with Linda for a long time, but they had two children and he really didn't want to break up the family.

"Mark," I asked, "Were you ever in love with Linda?"

"Yes, at the beginning of our relationship."

"Then what happened?"

"Linda seemed to get really insecure once I started my new business and had long work days. Even though I think I gave her a lot of attention on the weekends, she started getting angry pretty much every day. Then after our son was born, she seemed even more unhappy and irritable. She gets mean when she's angry and I just don't find that appealing. I don't feel close to her anymore."

"Have you said anything to her about this?" I asked.

"No," he replied. "She already seems so unhappy. I don't want to hurt her feelings."

"So how do you handle it?"

"I guess I just sort of shut down and pretend that everything is okay. But I'm spending more and more time at work because I don't like being at home and recently I met another woman that I'm attracted to. I realize I've got to do something about this."

"Do you really think that leaving her will cause less hurt than telling her your truth?"

"Well, if I just leave then I don't have to deal with her hurt."

"Mark, that's a lack of courage and integrity. And you have two children to think about. You once loved Linda and it's possible that you could again, but only if you are willing to be honest. You need to give Linda a chance to deal with this. She has no idea what's going on. She might decide to deal with her anger, or she might not, but at least give her a chance to make that decision. And relationship problems are never one-sided. Perhaps she has things to say to you too."

Mark decided to tell Linda the truth, even though he was really scared. He told her that her anger was pushing him away, and that he didn't like being home anymore because he felt so blamed and controlled by her. He told her that he was attracted to another woman who was treating him with kindness and caring, and that he wanted this from Linda. He told her he had been thinking of leaving and had sought my help and that I told him to tell the truth. He asked her if she would join him in counseling.

Linda was shocked. She had no idea all this was going on with Mark. She thought she was the only one feeling so unloved in the relationship. At first she reacted exactly as Mark feared, with anger, hurt, and blame. But he told her the truth about this too – that he had been afraid to be truthful with her because of this reaction, and that if she wanted the truth, she need to be open to it rather than closed and angry. Finally Linda heard him and they were able to talk honestly for the first time in years. Linda was actually relieved at hearing the truth, once she got over the initial shock and they were able to talk. She agreed to counseling.

In counseling, Mark discovered that Linda also had been afraid to be honest with Mark, fearing that he would withdraw even more. She was just as afraid of his withdrawal as he was of her anger. They discovered that both of them had been protecting against their fears rather than being open to learning with each other. As they both opened to learning, the love gradually came back into their relationship.

People often believe that they are withholding their truth to spare their partner pain, but their real intent is to protect themselves from the response they fear. Protecting against pain – with anger, withdrawal, and blame - will always bring about the very pain we fear, while opening to learning and speaking our truth opens the door to love.

About the author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including ""Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?"" She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at margaret@innerbonding.com .